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How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by lekzytaker(m): 10:17am On Jun 05, 2020
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Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by donbachi(m): 10:26am On Jun 05, 2020
Nigerians are like dat "if no be me"..pls,its not everybody dat u must run to for assistance and not all offered assistance must be accepted..we all need others as ladders to climb.sure.but,choking them into regrets and public mockery is very bad..dat ur guy do well,but him no do well by blowing his favour out of proportion.
Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jun 05, 2020
Do you plan to relocate? If yes, do so and don’t bat an eye. The helper was also assisted at some point in his/her life grin That didn’t stop him/her from moving forward.

As you don upgrade so, don’t look back but be very appreciative of the persons effort in your life.
Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by cassbeat(m): 3:39pm On Jun 05, 2020
In this life we feel the need to be rewarded for our every effort... Its an unconscious feeling.... You relocating Is to better up your life and actualizing that which you trained for.... But don't part with the person on a bitter ground...

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Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by sisisioge: 3:59pm On Jun 05, 2020
cassbeat:
In this life we feel the need to be rewarded for our every effort... Its an unconscious feeling.... You relocating Is to better up your and actualizing that which you trained for.... But don't part with the person on a bitter ground...

I agree...

And @ OP, next time accept offers with clear term of expected contributions.
Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by MadelnNigeria: 4:05pm On Jun 05, 2020
Hard to comprehend this your narration o
Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by cassbeat(m): 4:11pm On Jun 05, 2020
sisisioge:


I agree.
yea sis
Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by lekzytaker(m): 4:40pm On Jun 05, 2020
Carchoice:
Do you plan to relocate? If yes, do so and don’t bat an eye. The helper was also assisted at some point in his/her life grin That didn’t stop him/her from moving forward.

As you don upgrade so, don’t look back but be very appreciative of the persons effort in your life.

Well I see. But which appreciation does the person want again? The role you play in the persons job, if you had agreed on business terms and charged him for your role, you would have saved up to pay for your training.

The person brags about his contribution and lies that he sponsored the training 100%. Which is not true. and gets angry when those who made the 85% contribution are mentioned.
Re: How Do You Manage Situations Like This? by lekzytaker(m): 4:47pm On Jun 05, 2020
donbachi:
Nigerians are like dat "if no be me"..pls,its not everybody dat u must run to for assistance and not all offered assistance must be accepted..we all need others as ladders to climb.sure.but,choking them into regrets and public mockery is very bad..dat ur guy do well,but him no do well by blowing his favour out of proportion.
Nop, he did not run to the person for assistance. The individual has family that are paying for the training. The payment was done voluntarily. Like the person wanted to contribute his own part.

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