afecgivers:
Oga your own worst o, because you are doing it with demons. Na joke o. The truth is you are...................................................










YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN



Because you ejaculate and experienced practically what someone who is doing it feels.

You are guilty of wasting your holy water too.

Then you av to drink it, in order not to waste it

MiddleDimension:

the one who is a virgin is simply someone who has never had sex before. so yes, you still are.
however, i think we should do away with the word "virgin" already, it is outdated.
notice that those who will attack me for that statement are those who will never frown at their sons
for going after women, but will break all hell when it is their daughter going out.
it seems the word virginity is applied only to women and this shows confusion and hypocrisy on the part
of those who will attack me; because the truth is a woman does not dis-virgin herself, rather
she has to sleep with a man who is the one that most time chase her.
and some how, these confused and hypocrite of a people will call me immoral.
i have not said anyone should go out and start being irresponsible with their sexuality. i am only pointing
out the double standard and confusion on the part of those who claim they are 'moral'.
truth is you cannot achieve chastity in women if you do not encourage it on the part of men. the one who is more
interested in women keeping their virginity should first tell the men to not chase women around. because men are the
ones who go for these women most times.

also, the reason for the so much emphasis for on female virginity is historical and has some evolutionary explanation to
it. i bet those who will tell me i am encouraging 'immorality' do not know this and that's why they say what they say
and you who is against what they say is the one they think is immoral. so you can see that knowledge, not scriptures, lead people to true morality.

historically, women had almost no social, economic and political power. this makes sex almost the only bargaining tool she has over her man. so she is advised not to give it out to him very 'easily' as that would mean compromising the only female political power. this is why when a lady is a bit open with men, her strongest critics are her fellow women who think she is betraying their political power over men. men criticize her too, but the antagonism she faces from her fellow women is on another level！but things have changed a lot. she now has other bargaining tools in life and as a result, the emphasis on virginity and female 'chastity' will only decrease.

one more reason the word 'virginity' has to go extinct in our dictionary is that fact that rape victims who feel their 'dignity' is gone after being raped, will no longer feel that way. this will make the healing process easier. people who lost their virginity through rape often times feel dirty afterwards and this adds to the trauma. but if we can stop giving hymen a praised position, which is what we should do, then helping these women heal after helping them get justice, will be easier. because she has not lost any dignity by having had that crime being done on her.

conclusion
i have no problem if anyone wants to stay virgin till marriage, and i do not have a problem with it either if you choose not to keep it till marriage. both of them is fine by me as long as you go on being a responsible citizen of where ever you are privilaged to reside and work. but i think the word virginity should stop existing for the following reasons.
1. it is a double standard and also a show of hypocrisy on the part of those who clamour for women to close their legs and not encourage their boys to not go after the girls till they are married. you cannot have the two together. logically impossible! in fact, since men are the ones who go for women, it will be more sensible for anyone who wants to restore 'morality' in the society. to stop a thing, you address the root.

2. women now have more bargaining power in the society than they use to have in those days.

3. to help rape victims get back on their feet more easily.

4. hymen can be reconstructed.

but of course, this makes no sense to people of faith, born again christians and born again muslims, as they think i am immoral saying this. while i have understanding to backup my position, they have scriptures.

How wish nor be pandemic, i for give two sweet chics with phatAzzzzzzez make u pound dem milk...
U dey carried

Dybala11:
Cashew nut.

lolz

Righteousness89:
Are u concerned with not being a virgin or with sinning against GOD , your body and exposing yourself to spiritual wife!


Masturbation is Deep bro.

It cripples one Spiritually, physically, Maritally, Mentally and otherwise..

Abegeee!!If masturbation is a sin how then do the Catholic Reverend Fathers cope?My brother,you cant cheat nature.According to research ,Man"testicles are constantly producing new sperm in spermatogenesis. The full process takes about 64 days.During spermatogenesis, your testicles make several million sperm per day — about 1,500 per second. By the end of a full sperm production cycle, you can regenerate up to 8 billion sperm.So where or how do you wants them to discharge all those sperm produced.No be everything be sin,some its natural.

Righteousness89:
Are u concerned with not being a virgin or with sinning against GOD , your body and exposing yourself to spiritual wife!


Masturbation is Deep bro.

It cripples one Spiritually, physically, Maritally, Mentally and otherwise..

What is this one saying?

Addiction to masturbation or addiction of any type can cripple you.

Masturbation is not a sinful act but hou can tag it a habbit that can limit your life if it gets out if control just like drinking alcohol, smoking and several other habits

Jaspaman:


Wtf

lolz

IsaacRocks:
Nairaland, like the it is on the topic, please am just curious and there have been alot of questions on this. One of my workers was asking me few days ago " Sir if I masturbate am I still a virgin " I too was like "wait are you still a virgin"

Now the question is, as a guy if i masturbate am I still going to be a virgin ?

yes you are

Onliie:
I will like to speak to you privately

Send me a Pm bro..

jasent:
Masturbation nearly finish my life.Back pain,depression, eye problem.. I can't list them ohh..I just can't list the negative things I experienced just because of masturbation.. That shit is too bad mehn..

Thank GOD for you bro!

Many think it's a joke until they are helpless!

Righteousness89:


GOD bless you Brother for being honest!

It takes the special Grace of God to be Healed of masturbation. It's a Major Bondage in the many men and Women today.

I Pray For you My Brother! By the Power that resurrected JESUS from the Grave, I break that yoke from your Root in the Name of JESUS

A bondage for those who believe they are actually in one. Your beliefs play a huge part in how your mind reacts, accepts or even reject things.

jasent:

It cripples one Spiritually, physically, Maritally, Mentally and otherwise.. Even though I believe the above so much,pls I still want you to throw more light on it..pls

My Brother, Spirtually,Masturbation opens one up to attacks . As a guy you begin to see yourself constantly being Messed up in the dream. You might be feeling happy in the dream , but the moment you wake up you see dejection, empty, angry , depressed, wasted etc
Physically, the effect must show.. it could make you jobless, lose great opportunities and son. It's the spiritual that controls the Physical. It could also bring impotence and weak erection

Maritally, it destroys the peace in your Home. You may not be able to be the man or woman you are supposed to be to your partner.

The effects are too much! Anyone who is truthful to himself will tell you.

KenModi:


A bondage for those who believe they are actually in one. Your beliefs play a huge part in how your mind reacts, accepts or even reject things.

The act is a Bondage! This is not about mind! Except you wanna DECIEVE yourself

ALL MEN ARE VIRGINS.

Righteousness89:


GOD bless you Brother for being honest!

It takes the special Grace of God to be Healed of masturbation. It's a Major Bondage in the many men and Women today.

I Pray For you My Brother! By the Power that resurrected JESUS from the Grave, I break that yoke from your Root in the Name of JESUS

Lame

Righteousness89:

The act is a Bondage! This is not about mind! Except you wanna DECIEVE yourself

No proof to that. You are in a bondage because your religion has told you it is a sin to masturbate.

KenModi:


No proof to that. You are in a bondage because your religion has told you it is a sin to masturbate.

I Am sorry for replying! I thought you had something reasonable to say!

I am really sorry!

Righteousness89:


I Am sorry for replying! I thought you had something reasonable to say!

I am really sorry!

Oga show me proof say masturbation na bondage. You are here apologizing. Your brain has been blocked by your religion. Indeed “religion is the opium of the people”.

Religion, the biggest scam in the history of man.

livinbygrace:



Abegeee!!If masturbation is a sin how then do the Catholic Reverend Fathers cope?My brother,you cant cheat nature.According to research ,Man"testicles are constantly producing new sperm in spermatogenesis. The full process takes about 64 days.During spermatogenesis, your testicles make several million sperm per day — about 1,500 per second. By the end of a full sperm production cycle, you can regenerate up to 8 billion sperm.So where or how do you wants them to discharge all those sperm produced.No be everything be sin,some its natural.

Animals have more self control than we humans, just imagine a "he" goat and a "she goat" they both have sex only when they are on "heat" period. Doesnt this give a good clue on d true nature of human sexuality

Now, lets move down to humans, have you ever asked yourself why a mature woman ovulates only once in a month The answer is not far fetched , sex is not designed for continueos pleasure but for procreation, you can do every other thing with a woman
But don't let go of your ejaculates as a guy, your power lies in your ejaculates , releasing everyday of your life is dangerous to your physical and spiritual strength. It takes your body so much time energy and nutrient to produce your ejaculates.

The nutrients in your semen is highly required for your physical health as it contains loads of proteins, and other essential nutrients needed for your mental agility ,physical strength and general productivity while the energy (bioelectricity) that is released whenever we ejaculate causes serious stress to our energy level and hinders our overall wellbeing.

Sexual Energy is needed for spiritual growth and clairvoyance, and whenever we ejaculate, we waste the required natural fuel for spiritual enlightenment

Masturbation is deeper than what you think. It is better to have sex with prostitute than to indulge in masturbation. Masturbation cripples person physically and spiritually. One who masturbates can not pray. At every moment you would have feeling of sex.
Once you are in, it becomes very difficult to get out of it. This is because there is a very strong spirit behind it.
You would want to stop but is not possible with your strength alone.
You can only be delivered through genuine repentance in God.

Righteousness89:
Are u concerned with not being a virgin or with sinning against GOD , your body and exposing yourself to spiritual wife!


Masturbation is Deep bro.

It cripples one Spiritually, physically, Maritally, Mentally and otherwise..

Ori e ti daaru Righteousness, you bloody left hand wa....nker!!!

Just go and check the meaning of the word "virgin" you will get your answer!

When you masturbate, you are raping yourself

Righteousness89:
Are u concerned with not being a virgin or with sinning against GOD , your body and exposing yourself to spiritual wife!


Masturbation is Deep bro.

It cripples one Spiritually, physically, Maritally, Mentally and otherwise..

That is not the answer to this question.
Probably, he may have known that if he masturbates that he is sinning against God.
Now, he wants to know the other side of it; weda he will still be regarded as a virgin.
Sometimes let's learn to always condemn but to teach.
You can sin against God and still remain a virgin or not bn a virgin and sinning against God.
If this question appears on your promotional exam, will u give the same answer?

Righteousness89:


My Brother, Spirtually,Masturbation opens one up to attacks . As a guy you begin to see yourself constantly being Messed up in the dream. You might be feeling happy in the dream , but the moment you wake up you see dejection, empty, angry , depressed, wasted etc
Physically, the effect must show.. it could make you jobless, lose great opportunities and son. It's the spiritual that controls the Physical. It could also bring impotence and weak erection

Maritally, it destroys the peace in your Home. You may not be able to be the man or woman you are supposed to be to your partner.

The effects are too much! Anyone who is truthful to himself will tell you.

Funny enough I experienced some of this things u mentioned in the past.Sincerely there is more to masturbation than normal sexual organs stimulation. I Thank God it's all in the past..Thank u.

I share my own quota here, masturbation is a sin. masturbation drains you physically and spiritually. Once you masturbate there'll be a decline in your spiritual life. The act of masturbation invites spirit wife and spirit husbands. The act affects your sex life too. It's only God that can deliver a person from masturbation it's additive.

Igbojihadist:
hahahahahahaha u no well doctor

i well as the double L make it well. just negedu.and am not a dockita .

happy weekend am a funny dude

Depressedkidd:

Masturbation usually goes hand in hand with porn. But taken apart, masturbation on its own usually produces the same effects and is usually caused but the same underlying issues as porn.

Please do you have any reliable medical research paper to back it up? Masturbation is a normal body process that occur on stimulation. Unlike porn that could lead to erectile dysfunction Later in life

raphy:


i well as the double L make it well. just negedu.and am not a dockita .

happy weekend am a funny dude

best wishes bro ibu onye side ebe na ala igbo

Yes. Inbox me for more detailed explanation

Righteousness89:
Are u concerned with not being a virgin or with sinning against GOD , your body and exposing yourself to spiritual wife!


Masturbation is Deep bro.

It cripples one Spiritually, physically, Maritally, Mentally and otherwise..

why do i feel good and refreshed after

tunjijones:


Masturbating, sleeping with ashawo or raping which one is better. Because a guy must do one of that. When a guy start producing sperm hormones are produced in the body that makes him desire sex which is natural. So its almost impossible for a young guy not to indulge in any of these three. Coupled with curiosity, the guy wld always want to know what sex feels like.

Not even this days that girls dress half naked and everything you see on TV and internet is always about sex.

That's why young pastors devour people's wives ,daughters ,sister, and rape , they try to cheat nature by abstaining from sex but the moment they make body contact with anything on skirt on a lonely place booom! nature unleashes its fury, and most of the time these women keep quiet about it to protect the man of God after he pleads for mercy .
THIS is a wake up call, women are.like children in their mind, protect your own.

From the first time you cum, as a man either through sex or masturbation you are no longer a virgin!