Ekwutox:
We all are very familiar with the law of karma, we all know and understand the saying that "what goes around comes around".

Now, I've been on this forum long enough to notice the way most men glorify and justify infidelity when women are on the receiving end.

I've seen so many comments endorsing infidelity from men on threads concerning a man being sex starved by his wife.
"A man needs to have multiple women to service him in case madam starts to misbehave" they would say.

Most of these people pride themselves in being Christians or religious, but would turn a blind eye on an obvious sin because it is to their benefit. See am not here to preach or remind anybody about the teachings of God because am not religious or anything of such, but I just can't help but marvel at their blatant display at normalising infidelity/cheating by their fellow men.

Another way to justify this disgusting act is the regular mantra of men being polygamous in nature, please this statement is getting stale already because it portrays men as nothing but dogs or lower animals that lack self-control.

Look at this scenario, a married man goes out and have sex with multiple women, in the process he impregnates one of them without knowing, let's say the lady in question is engaged or is married already because people lie these days to hide their marital status. This woman pushes the responsibility to her husband or husband to be, the poor unsuspecting man will think nothing of it because he loves and trusts his woman.

The cheating married man goes home to his wife without realizing that his wife was also unfaithful and has a child that is not his, living under his roof. Messy situation right? This dude has a child been taken care of by another man and he himself is taking care of another man's child.

See ehh, this paternity fraud will not stop until we all come together, both men and women to condemn infidelity from both sides, stop giving excuses for a cheating man like "Whether a man cheats or not, he will still love and take of his wife" the ones that are throwing their wives and kids out of the house only to bring in the side chick, are they from Mars?

Or "When a man starts cheating, nothing will change but when a woman cheats, she changes because women are emotional beings" another useless and senseless excuse, I have seen women that will cheat this minute and the next minute she is laughing and playing with her husband like nothing happened.

Telling people to fear women will not change anything, until we start telling ourselves the truth.

~Ekwutox.

rockstarB:
Paternity fraud will always cover up for women in case of infidelity gone wrong, if you love yourself as a man u will give yourself brain and do DNA on your children.
Because your husband is cheating you decided to cheat and have him raise a child that doesnt belong to him. You're trying to make sense of it but theres no sense in that. You dont have to be a cheat before a woman will bring home another child for you. It's not always karma as you're trying to justify it.
The result of infidelity from a man and woman in a case where pregnancy occurs can never be the same for both sexes.
Say no to paternity fraud cos theres nothing like maternity fraud
Have you ever wondered why in real and spiritual world they never ask of your fathers name? Cos he might not even be

Mstick:
Exactly! That's why I laugh when men complain about cheating women and in the same breath say a cheating man is "understandable".

The women you're all cheating with are they in a factory? Is there a land filled with single women that's made for sex only? It makes no damn sense, the women you're being "polygamous" with is also another man's wife or girlfriend. So it's just a circle.

punisha:
This isn't stopping even if there's a penalty set aside for it.
Some people have cheating in their bloodstreams

rockstarB:
Paternity fraud will always cover up for women in case of infidelity gone wrong, if you love yourself as a man u will give yourself brain and do DNA on your children.
Because your husband is cheating you decided to cheat and have him raise a child that doesnt belong to him. You're trying to make sense of it but theres no sense in that. You dont have to be a cheat before a woman will bring home another child for you. It's not always karma as you're trying to justify it.
The result of infidelity from a man and woman in a case where pregnancy occurs can never be the same for both sexes.
Say no to paternity fraud cos theres nothing like maternity fraud
Have you ever wondered why in real and spiritual world they never ask of your fathers name? Cos he might not even be

Belafonte:
Paternity fraud will stop when men make it a duty to find out if the children they have been given truly belong to them or not.

Romangalactic:



Daz all.

If to say some women be God, they would have found a way by now to make the DNA of a bastard child match dat of the husband, but God will not let devil shame us. All the glory belongs to him.

Ekwutox:


Excuses excuses excuses.
"My sin is better than yours because it breeds less consequences" will not help us.

Let's call a spade a spade, infidelity, on both sides is wrong no matter who suffers the most as a result of it.

Deltayankeeboi:
Who get time to read all through that long post.

I couldn't even make out any sensible point from everything you typed. So many contradictions.

ibkayee:
Nice write up

I couldn’t care less about men being victims of paternity fraud in the current Nigeria since they aren’t any better.

When the men go low, ladies take it lower to the floor and let him raise a baby that isn’t his lool at least you are ‘kind’ enough to hide it, same men that will force the baby on you in your face and in front of the world without remorse

Fountainofyouth:
Hehehehe

missimelda01:
You deserve a glass of wine for this write up.

Nothing justifies cheating, what goes around comes around.

ibkayee:
Nice write up

I couldn’t care less about men being victims of paternity fraud in the current Nigeria since they aren’t any better.

When the men go low, ladies take it lower to the floor and let him raise a baby that isn’t his lool at least you are ‘kind’ enough to hide it, same men that will force the baby on you in your face and in front of the world without remorse

Tango123:


When it happens to ur son, or ur best brother, we can talk again on this topic