Amaaak:
I am only 19 will turn 20 in October 7 , and I can’t stop sleeping around. I started being sexual active at 14 and I’ve slept with 22 or more guys. I am trying to stop but I can’t help it because I can’t go a day without having sex. I feel like a slut . I think I have the spirit of lust . Please I need your help and advice on how to stop sleeping around . I am very serious

I would suggest you find a Man to be your spouse. If you are a 19 year old girl in the northern setting, you should be nursing your first kid now.

Being married provide a solution to a lot of things

Ishilove:

First things first, you NEED deliverance and a special encounter with Christ. Begin to cry to God and ask for mercy.

True! @op you should listen to this advise.

OP, you also need a Christian friend right now — one of the same gender. So that she can guide you and you both can pray together.
In this predicament, "two is better than one."

Emmyloyalty:


True! @op you should listen to this advise.

OP, you also need a Christian friend right now — one of the same gender. So that she can guide you and you both can pray together.
In this predicament, "two is better than one."

Noted thanks

SirWhiteFish:
I would suggest you find a Man to be your spouse. If you are a 19 year old girl in the northern setting, you should be nursing your first kid now.

Being married provide a solution to a lot of things

I don’t have any stable boyfriend. I don’t want to rush into marriage just because of sex getting marriage will not solved my problem , all I want right now is to stop this bad habit of sleeping around and concentrate on important things for my life

Amaaak:

I don’t have any stable boyfriend. I don’t want to rush into marriage just because of sex getting marriage will not solved my problem , all I want right now is to stop this bad habit of sleeping around and concentrate on important things for my life

you can't say a solution you have not tried can't solve your problems

Am I the only one that doesn't see a problem here?

What were you created for? You were created to be fvcked!

So how does fvcking becomes a problem?

You were able to discover your purpose at a very young age of 14, not many girls are that fortunate. Girls were created to be fvcked.

The bible says woman are created for men (sex). Your purpose in life as a girl is to satisfy men's sexual desires. So I don't see a problem here.

Not many girls are able to discover their purpose early, so I can say you're among the few intelligent ones.

You just need to avail yourself for the right opportunities to be fvcked.

Stay blessed and happy fvcking.

Poster: I sleep around with men. I am a nympho. I am addicted to sex. I have a spirit of lust. I need help.

NL: Get a regular boyfriend. Go and marry. Get busy. Get a job. Change your thinking.

These won't solve her problem just like that. Her problem is deeper than that.


@OP, you've done the right thing by coming here to seek for advice. You have 3 options.

1. Get a sex therapist or any therapist who has ample experience in your kind of problem to rewire your mind.

2. Go for deliverance and afterwards reprogram your mind with the word of God. The problem will be locating the the right man of God/ministry that has the requisite anointing and power and integrity to set you free.

3. Get messages and books on deliverance and deliver yourself by listening, studying, praying with them and meditating on them and the word of God repeatedly. This last one is the hardest to do but many have done it and are free.

Best wishes.

Amaaak:

Noted thanks

Thank me when you are free.

May the Lord be with you.

DeeMain:
Poster: I sleep around with men. I am a nympho. I am addicted to sex. I have a spirit of lust. I need help.

NL: Get a regular boyfriend. Go and marry. Get busy. Get a job. Change your thinking.

These won't solve her problem just like that. Her problem is deeper than this.


@OP, you've done the right thing by coming here to seek for advice. You have 2 options.

1. Get a sex therapist or any therapist who has ample experience in your kind of problem to rewire your mind.

2. Go for deliverance and afterwards reprogram your mind with the word of God. The problem will be locating the the right man of God/ministry that has the requisite anointing and power and integrity to set you free.

3. Get messages and books on deliverance and deliver yourself by listening, studying, praying with them and meditating on them and word of God repeatedly. This last one is the hardest to do but many have done it and are free.

Best wishes.

This is where it gets tricky.

Amaaak:

My first sex was when I started staying with my aunty there was this boy that was also staying in the same compound with us . I used to have sex with him apart from him , I’ve also had sex with other boys in the neighbourhood for 2 years till I left my aunty place and went back to my parents. Yes I have a high sex drive I can’t go a day without sex and if I can’t find anyone to have sex with me m. I watch porn and matubate

Stop lying.

A young lady will never call herself a slut. Even a prostitute can't do that either.
All these boys masquerading as females.

Ishilove:

This is where it gets tricky.

Yep, and it's one of the reasons why this aspect of Christianity gets a lot of bashing and criticism. There are issues of protocol, capacity, standards and integrity that still needs to be sorted out in order to separate the wheat from the chaff, the fake from the authentic, the powerless from the powerful.

Dear Op,
I totally understand what you are going through.
First you need to ask God to forgive you,
Then ask God for grace because you can't overcome without his grace.
Then, intense fasting and prayers to God. Open the book of Psalms, pick chapters randomly and use it to pray. The word of God in the book of Psalms is very useful for Spiritual Warfare. Because this is warfare, the devil will not want to let you go just like that.
Resist the devil with the word of God and tell him you belong to Gods kingdom.
Try to stop watching porn and try not to stay idle in the house so you don't masturbate.
You might have to cut off from a lot of friendships that encourage your lifestyle.

It's just funny how people are advising her to go and marry.
Marriage will cure lust.

That's how people marry now.
You just get a marriage proposal and because u want to cure lust. Gbam you accept.
Na so.

OP dont marry anything.
You have a beautiful future ahead of you.
Like I said earlier accept Jesus and let him lead you.

You want to marry. Have you completed your studies?
Do you have a stable job that will not make you dependent?

All these nairaland men advising you to go and marry, na the man go still open thread on top your matter
"My wife doesn't work, she is not even employable. All she wants to do is f3ck all day"

Please develop yourself first. Your just 19.
Finish your schooling. Learn a trade that can come in handy incase certificate brings no good job.
Have your own source of income. All these can be achieved before 26. Which is not late to get married.

See ehn forget that marriage advice they are giving you.
There is a power behind that lust. Give Jesus a chance today and watch him turn things around for you.

DeeMain:


Yep, and it's one of the reasons why this aspect of Christianity gets a lot of bashing and criticism. There are issues of protocol, capacity, standards and integrity that still needs to be sorted out in order to separate the wheat from the chaff, the fake from the authentic, the powerless from the powerful.

Bros...

Only a man of the spirit can understand this.

And it has nothing to do with the size of the church

Yen yen yen!!!

temi4fash:


Bros...

Only a man of the spirit can understand this.

And it has nothing to do with the size of the church

Very true.

My first sex was when I started staying with my aunty there was this boy that was also staying in the same compound with us . I used to have sex with him apart from him , I’ve also had sex with other boys in the neighbourhood for 2 years till I left my aunty place and went back to my parents. Yes I have a high sex drive I can’t go a day without sex and if I can’t find anyone to have sex with me m. I watch porn and matubate
The first thing is have you considered getting married. This way you'll have someone you can have sex with when you feel like it also when you have children and order responsibilities it might is tract you.

Also avoid being alone, find something to keep you busy like a trade or a job, but avoid being alone especially with guys, avoid men buy all means possible.

Then avoid porn because it will only fuel your desire more.

Study yourself find out what triggers your desires, and when it builds up, when you know this you can avoid those triggers.

Then remember nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes, the important thing is not to let your mistakes define you, try fighting your desires never surrender to your desires

May God help you