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In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Dainy1(m): 5:19am On Jun 27, 2020
He wrote:

A devastated mother on social media has posted a tragic tale to seek advice about what steps to take to deal with her dilemma.

According to her, her 17-year-old son simultaneously impregnated her daughters, aged 15 and 13. The woman clarified that she worked during the lockdown, and her kids are trapped at home because of the ban on school activities.



At this time the only person who has access to their home is the cleaner girl who comes to the house to wash and clean. The woman narrating how it happened revealed that she learned that the 15-year-old daughter had pregnancy symptoms.

She confronted her after testing and confirming that she is pregnant and admitted that she was sleeping with her elder brother, who is only 17 years old. That was when she also revealed her 13-year-old sister has also been sleeping with their brother.

Shocked and saddened, she learned that the youngest daughter is also pregnant and he is responsible as well. She approached the eldest son as politely and kindly as she could, and stated that he had slept with his sisters. In other words, he ‘s responsible for their pregnancies.

Today, the woman appears to be a committed Christian and her religion forbids abortion. So, she doesn’t know what to do and asks for help.

What would you have suggested? Abortion or no abortion?
In my own opinion, abortion is the best thing to do right now.





https://blizz.co.ug/3364/17-Year-Old-Boy-Impregnantes-His-Two-Sisters-During-Lockdown-Mother-Faints
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Nobody: 5:34am On Jun 27, 2020
This is terrible!!


It is between life and death...
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by jakD: 5:41am On Jun 27, 2020
It may sound ludicrous but abortion isn't the best decision. What if she loses the daughters even in the process of abortion aside that it's not godly!
The brother should be jailed or killed if possible, his unborn children in his sisters will represent.
I understand it's shameful though!
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Openbusiness: 5:48am On Jun 27, 2020
jakD:
It may sound ludicrous but abortion isn't the best decision. What if she loses the daughters even in the process of abortion aside that it's not godly!
The brother should be jailed or killed if possible, his unborn children in his sisters will represent.
You can't jail the boy na, he is 17 years old. Most likely still very foolish or didn't really understand the consequences of his actions. I think if anything is to be blamed here, we have to start from poor parenting. This is what happens when children are left to grow by themselves, sometimes they make the stupidest or costliest mistakes. The parents have a lot of fault in this. They have allowed their son to be exposed to the world too much than he can handle. If you don't teach your child right from wrong, the the world wi teach your child for you, and most likely teach the child the wrong things. The boy probably has been exposed to porn online or bad friends in school or neighborhood. Who gave him phone, most likely the parents. Gave him phone, gave him internet, but never around to monitor how he uses it or what he does with it. This is the result

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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Dainy1(m): 5:49am On Jun 27, 2020
jakD:
It may sound ludicrous but abortion isn't the best decision. What if she loses the daughters even in the process of abortion aside that it's not godly!
The brother should be jailed or killed if possible, his unborn children in his sisters will represent.
I understand it's shameful though!
Kill? What is the differences between killing the brother and having abortion?

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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by LKTJ123(m): 5:51am On Jun 27, 2020
Honestly Dis Is So Sad, Anyway I Still Have D Mother To B Blamed She Have No Excuse. Teach Your Children The Way Of God... I'm Not In Support Of Abortion Bt I Thing It's The Best In This Situations And After That D Elder Should B Deal With Seriously So Has To Know D Gravity Of What He Has Done.
Less I Forget, What Abt There Father?
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by jakD: 5:57am On Jun 27, 2020
Openbusiness:

You can't jail the boy na, he is 17 years old. Most likely still very foolish or didn't really understand the consequences of his actions. I think if anything is to be blamed here, we have to start from poor parenting. This is what happens when children are left to grow by themselves, sometimes they make the stupidest or costliest mistakes. The parents have a lot of fault in this. They have allowed their son to be exposed to the world too much than he can handle. If you don't teach your child right from wrong, the the world wi teach your child for you, and most likely teach the child the wrong things. The boy probably has been exposed to porn online or bad friends in school or neighborhood. Who gave him phone, most likely the parents. Gave him phone, gave him internet, but never around to monitor how he uses it or what he does with it. This is the result



A 17-year old boy with no sense of right and wrong?
The parent(s) may be faulty but the boy is damn faulty and should be punished. If not, they should expect more to come.
Plus the girls are even senseless. They ought to have made their parents aware.
I wonder why girls are like that anyway, from their small to their adult!
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by jakD: 5:59am On Jun 27, 2020
Dainy1:
Kill? What is the differences between killing the brother and having abortion?


Don't mind me.
It is just an extremely shameful act. Such boy would send his parents to an early grave.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Juliusmomoh: 6:10am On Jun 27, 2020
Well, this is not the first time we de hear this kain story.. What o .. Where is there father .
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by jakD: 6:26am On Jun 27, 2020
Juliusmomoh:
Well, this is not the first time we de hear this kain story.. [s]What o .. Where is there father . [/s]

You may consider rewording.

"WAIT"
"THEIR"
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Shedrack777: 6:27am On Jun 27, 2020
i don't know if i should comment like nairalanders? i dey come
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by donaldking10: 6:47am On Jun 27, 2020
abort those seeds of incest, or face being ostracized by the ibo community if u were to be ibo.
those un-born kids are what is called UME in ibo culture.
and they are forbidden to be married into any family.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Openbusiness: 6:49am On Jun 27, 2020
jakD:




A 17-year old boy with no sense of right and wrong?
The parent(s) may be faulty but the boy is damn faulty and should be punished. If not, they should expect more to come.
Plus the girls are even senseless. They ought to have made their parents aware.
I wonder why girls are like that anyway, from their small to their adult!
He's their little big brother, not a stranger, so they must have not felt any danger being with him. This whole problem must have started with all this brother and sister play play, but the boy must have been influenced with negative sexual exposure before, so from play play, devil enta and den do things not meant to be done. That's why no matter how closely knitted a family is, the parents must teach their male and female children boundary of fondness amongst themselves.

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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by white3663: 7:23am On Jun 27, 2020
Dainy1:


He wrote:

A devastated mother on social media has posted a tragic tale to seek advice about what steps to take to deal with her dilemma.

According to her, her 17-year-old son simultaneously impregnated her daughters, aged 15 and 13. The woman clarified that she worked during the lockdown, and her kids are trapped at home because of the ban on school activities.



At this time the only person who has access to their home is the cleaner girl who comes to the house to wash and clean. The woman narrating how it happened revealed that she learned that the 15-year-old daughter had pregnancy symptoms.

She confronted her after testing and confirming that she is pregnant and admitted that she was sleeping with her elder brother, who is only 17 years old. That was when she also revealed her 13-year-old sister has also been sleeping with their brother.

Shocked and saddened, she learned that the youngest daughter is also pregnant and he is responsible as well. She approached the eldest son as politely and kindly as she could, and stated that he had slept with his sisters. In other words, he ‘s responsible for their pregnancies.

Today, the woman appears to be a committed Christian and her religion forbids abortion. So, she doesn’t know what to do and asks for help.

What would you have suggested? Abortion or no abortion?
In my own opinion, abortion is the best thing to do right now.





https://blizz.co.ug/3364/17-Year-Old-Boy-Impregnantes-His-Two-Sisters-During-Lockdown-Mother-Faints


Lie, a poorly written script
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Dainy1(m): 7:26am On Jun 27, 2020
Shedrack777:
i don't know if i should comment like nairalanders? i dey come
comments like you. Exactly your point of view.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Nobody: 7:54am On Jun 27, 2020
Dishearten
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by DontBullshitMe: 7:57am On Jun 27, 2020
FICTION.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Klass99(f): 8:05am On Jun 27, 2020
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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by ieemmanuel(m): 8:11am On Jun 27, 2020
15 and 13 haba, this matter is life threatening for both the mother and the child.
What a generation we live in we got babies having babies!

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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by ieemmanuel(m): 8:14am On Jun 27, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
FICTION.

It could even be a cooked up story!!
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Romangalactic(m): 8:25am On Jun 27, 2020
How person wan take settle dis matter now

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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by jakD: 8:56am On Jun 27, 2020
Openbusiness:

He's their little big brother, not a stranger, so they must have not felt any danger being with him. This whole problem must have started with all this brother and sister play play, but the boy must have been influenced with negative sexual exposure before, so from play play, devil enta and den do things not meant to be done. That's why no matter how closely knitted a family is, the parents must teach their male and female children boundary of fondness amongst themselves.

What I meant was that, when it was leading to romance and intercourse, the sisters should have made their parents aware.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by merieam16(f): 12:34pm On Jun 27, 2020
Say no to abortion no matter d situation, after delivery dey can place d babies up 4 adoption
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by merieam16(f): 12:37pm On Jun 27, 2020
ieemmanuel:


It could even be a cooked up story!!
its nt, i heard d story on radio recently
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Dainy1(m): 2:13pm On Jun 27, 2020
merieam16:
Say no to abortion no matter d situation, after delivery dey can place d babies up 4 adoption
In this situation, believe me. Abortion is the sure way.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Dainy1(m): 2:15pm On Jun 27, 2020
merieam16:
its nt, i heard d story on radio recently
I can't even see the sense in blowing up the story like that. The woman failed all round. How will her neighbors see her now?
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Klass99(f): 2:59pm On Jun 27, 2020
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Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by merieam16(f): 3:30pm On Jun 27, 2020
Dainy1:
I can't even see the sense in blowing up the story like that. The woman failed all round. How will her neighbors see her now?
they will deffinately see her has a careless mother
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jun 27, 2020
Cooked up
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jun 27, 2020
I pray it will never happen to you in Jesus name.
Klass99:
If I am the mother, those girls will give birth and I will put up the babies for adoption.

There are men & women who want kids but can't seem to naturally have them, why not put someone out of their misery and also make some money in the process.

Adoption agencies charge a fee for adoption. I will name a price/fee too, to cover my expenses for ante-natal care and other expenses associated with the pregnancies and delivery of the babies.

When it is over and done with, all 3 children will see a side of me they never thought possible of a mother. They will start to see it before the ordeal is over sef.

And which one is she approached the son politely? That boy will be approached violently, so help me God.

Abortion is not the solution to every pregnancy, if a pregnancy is not life threatening to the mother.
Re: In This Case, Abortion Or No Abortion? by SweetCunt97(f): 11:27pm On Jun 27, 2020
Abort. Our God understands beyond human comprehension

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