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Women

Funny thing is the man will mostly turn a blind eye

Klass99:


And I wish more men, would take charge in their homes and put an end to stupidity/foolishness. Like, the front page story where a wife brought in, two of her sisters to live with them while unfairly harassing the husband's brother. My blood boiled when I saw that story, I felt like slapping the fool called man/husband in that story to reset his brain. I was like, what sort of weak and pussy livered men do we have these days?

This is bullshit, if a man intervenes he can put a stop to nonsense. All he needs to do is take certain steps that let's a stupid wife know, her BS won't be tolerated beyond a certain level. Withdraw your affection, tell her without mincing words your dislike for certain attitudes or threaten her with a separation or divorce and see her arrange herself well. Some women no dey like hear separation or divorce for their ear, e dey do them like armageddon.

Romangalactic:

Na only story u sabi. There's a good reason why husbands turn a blind eye. Dat kind mata is a slippery slope.

Nigerian women that if u start telling them to treat the female relative or help better, dey will accuse u of sleeping with her. Then wat you're now suggesting is to go as far as threatening wife with divorce because of female help.

Use ur head mbok

Klass99:


And I wish more men, would take charge in their homes and put an end to stupidity/foolishness. Like, the front page story where a wife brought in, two of her sisters to live with them while unfairly harassing the husband's brother. My blood boiled when I saw that story, I felt like slapping the fool called man/husband in that story to reset his brain. I was like, what sort of weak and pussy livered men do we have these days?



This is bullshit, if a man intervenes he can put a stop to nonsense. All he needs to do is take certain actions that let's a stupid wife know, her BS won't be tolerated beyond a certain level. Withdraw your affection, tell her without mincing words your dislike for certain attitudes or threaten her with a separation or divorce and see her arrange herself well. Some women no dey like hear separation or divorce for their ear, e dey do them like armageddon.

coputa:
The Woman is the home maker,if the man intervenes there will be trouble.

Klass99:


And I wish more men, would take charge in their homes and put an end to stupidity/foolishness. Like, the front page story where a wife brought in, two of her sisters to live with them while unfairly harassing the husband's brother. My blood boiled when I saw that story, I felt like slapping the fool called man/husband in that story to reset his brain. I was like, what sort of weak and pussy livered men do we have these days?



This is bullshit, if a man intervenes he can put a stop to nonsense. All he needs to do is take certain actions that let's a stupid wife know, her BS won't be tolerated beyond a certain level. Withdraw your affection, tell her without mincing words your dislike for certain attitudes or threaten her with a separation or divorce and see her arrange herself well. Some women no dey like hear separation or divorce for their ear, e dey do them like armageddon.

merieam16:
so u tink u can threaten some women wif divorce nd seperation nd u ll sleep with ur 2 eyes closed. u neva sabi anythin

chatinent:
Not all though, there are still few who are not that territorial.

Palema007:
Men should place more importance on women's character/personality when choosing than physical attributes. If you want to know a good woman watch how she treats or relate with those who have nothing to offer her. A woman with good heart loves and Respect every being without reasons. Men should watch out for this.

coputa:
This is one test women always fail. If you are a first time visitor to any home,you can negligebly differentiate the biological child(ren) of the home from the other(s) relative(s) living with them. This is so,because the woman descriminates in the home,her child(ren) does little or no household chores while the relative work their ass off.sometimes till midnight with little or no food. They hardly attend the same school with their children,even deaconesses and pastors wives are even worse off,when they go to church on sundays,their children put on the best clothes,while their relative(s)put on rags as clothes.to make matter worst,these women often inflicts injuries on these innocent relative(s)over flimsy excuses.

Georgekyrian:


Since I'm not good in arguing be it with men or woman, any form of misconduct from my wife or GF warrants her to living the house that moment or me leaving, after me and my cartel reason finish, then I will get back to her. Any woman wey kill me today in the name of marriage no say her family will be wiped out without trace. Mind you I'm not into any group or cult but game of mind is the best tactics that works for me

LewsTherin:


Why I agree with a lot of what you have said here, I would rather you do not generalise.

You will be more accurate in saying "why do many women fail this test?" Not every woman has/will act as described. I can't even go on a limb to say most or even half as there are no significant statistics to back that up.

All I can say is in my PERSONAL experience, more women have passed than failed. Most of the failures I have heard about are exactly that - I "heard" about them. I have no proof.

coputa:
The Woman is the home maker,if the man intervenes there will be trouble.

Munzy14:

Deep deep deep!!!

wise words..Even here sometimes I come across some ladies forming good care, But a good check, you will realise the handles are that of friends they av bonded with on different threads.

Then, treat others who are out of their circle with disdain.

A huge pointer for men looking for future partner.

Little things count, before the journey to life partnership.

Richy4:
While that was going on, where is the man of the house when relatives were putting on rags and his children were wearing the best?

Doesn't he have a say on what was going on when the relatives works their ass off and the princess and princesses were in bed having their beauty sleep. U don't have to blame the women alone. Leave some portion of that blame to some men..

Palema007:
Lol I've seen that happen especially on this section. Lol

So you want to start counting these little things from Nl Nawa for you oooo but it's a pointer Sha.

mariahAngel:

Cartel? Wipe out? Guy! The matter no dey dat deep!

mariahAngel:


No.
The truth is that most men are domestically lazy, they'd see something wrong (abuse) going on in the home but choose to stay silent.

Palema007:
Men should place more importance on women's character/personality when choosing than physical attributes. If you want to know a good woman watch how she treats or relate with those who have nothing to offer her. A woman with good heart loves and Respect every being without reasons. Men should watch out for this.

Klass99:


Lol I love you too.

I don't think that post infuriated you as much as it did me. I was like WTF is wrong with this man? Oya, rent small place for the guy, he said why would you be living outside my house when I have a big house? Big house and your brother has to sleep in the living room?

I have seen numerous threads here by men complaining of their wives bad attitude or ill treatment of wards/help in their care. One even said he is embarrassed to take visitors home because of the wife's chronic laziness and dirty state of their home. That particular wife had even injured the help they had.

I am like, you are supposed to be the head of the home, you supposedly pay the bills in that house and you allow someone to run amock like this? What have you done to put a stop to it? Which is the real problem here, some of you men stay silent and the evil plus foolishness continues.

I am all for supporting women in real life, in helpful ways, but I don't support stupid or foolish women.