As for me, I can't pinpoint why, but it just feels like it is.

not that it is so important to marry nigerian,cause im not nigerian ,but that is who has captured my heart and soul thank god we beleive in alot of the same things .And i love the fact that he is willing to just give up (on anything)his strength is like no other . I can go on but i won't

ooop I mean not give up

@vronnie. dear, u cld have clicked on d "modify" near ur first post to edit instead of postin' again. just trin' to help

@topic
idk why. it just feels right. there's no place like home.

thanx

It's not that important to me.

In my opinion I will say it depends on the mindset of the individual.
I came to london when I was 17,and I sort of had a mindset of a Nigerian.
I cant say the same for my younger ones,
I think it is easier for me because my mind is tuned that way,I had a friend from the caribbean,he was ok though but I guess I just wasn`t open minded enough.
That said a Nigerian guy has same opinions as me.

i've ask myself that same question over and over again but have never found an answer. i guess it just gives you a sence of belonging.

Cuz d devil u knw its better dan d angel u dont

uchetobi:

Cuz d devil u knw its better dan d angel u don't

Because I understand them very well unlike other cultures and it would be extremely difficult to pull a fast one one on me-- with my ever watchful eyes.  I know[b] ALL [/b] their games!  I grew up there!

Culturally--best for the kids! Instead of explaining 2 different cultures--I only have to explain one.  They can learn the American one by themselves--since they live there and they can marry whatever they want--that is their business!!!!

Only speaking for my very self!

i understand most of the cultures very well.
i grew up here.
i love everything naija.
and the list goes on and on*******

ifyalways:

i understand most of the cultures very well.
i grew up here.
i love everything naija.
and the list goes on and on*******

Yet you are shagging a swiss dude on the side!

almondjoy:

Yet you are shagging a swiss dude on the side!

should i jump into river jordan cos am not been dated by a nigerian? or should i force myself on a nigerian guy just because i love nigeria?abeg jare,things we cant change or have control over,we live and enjoy what nature has thrusted to us.

ifyalways:

should i jump into river jordan because am not been dated by a nigerian? or should i force myself on a nigerian guy just because i love nigeria?abeg jare,things we can't change or have control over,we live and enjoy what nature has thrusted to us.

Not at all! Not mad at you at all--your potential groom will be very pleased. Please rock on baby!

almondjoy:

Not at all! Not mad at you at all--your potential groom will be very pleased. Please rock on baby!

abeg carry your sharp mouth wey sabi fromulate answer for every question go meet funky,frivolic frankies and not me or do you have anybody in mind for me?i mean you have a naija guy for me?

@topic i love naija because its not two in the worlds map.if its not naija,it can never be like naija.

People like to marry people from their country simply because of the law of proximity.

Sociologically, 70-80% of people are likely to marry people they share cultural, linguistic, and social mores with, than people they don't.

Remember, when the princess wishes for partner, she was out looking for a prince, not a laborer, or hunter, or even a farmer, she was looking for someone who obeys the law of social proximity.

A lot of people who marry from their town, state, or country are simply obeying the same law.

Nigerians are no exception.

@ topic: is it?

iice:

me neither

@post
love everything naija. . .don't want to forget who i am and where i come from.

Used to be, the thought is fleeting however as Im beginning to find the men pitiful.

D-reloaded:

Used to be, the thought is fleeting however as I'm beginning to find the men pitiful.

Hmmmmmmmm

D-reloaded:

Used to be, the thought is fleeting however as I'm beginning to find the men pitiful.

Pele try and find out if the fault is from you, anyway minus one is some how insignificant

almondjoy:

Yet you are shagging a swiss dude on the side!

i thought she had her child for a German man

Thanks for proving my point, presido

I don't think I'll forgive myself if my kids miss out on the joys of swallowing utara with ofe ogbono.

It just has to be a Nigerian lady who can cook Nigerian dishes, well!

But strange things happen, I've met a non-Nigerian lady that cooks Nigerian dishes well!

D-reloaded:

Thanks for proving my point, presido

Abeg which of ur point did i prove?

I don't think I'll forgive myself if my kids miss out on the joys of swallowing utara with ofe ogbono.

Yes, my brother. Also it is important for them to speak Igbo.