After 10years of marriage no child what will you do

Built2last:
After 10years of marriage no child what will you do

contact
@eekfertility

on instagram... she will help you

IVF if I can afford it or I'd adopt.

Am sorry . please both should visit hospital for test.and ask for doctor advise.or should separate and look for a new life with another partner.

Nisland:
. .or should separate and look for a new life with another partner.

Just like that??

Omoluabi16:
Just like that??

u said up to 10 year. And how old are you.u should leave everything in God hand.make a new life.

Both of you should seek doctor's advise and continue joint prayers with good faith

You need to seek medical help.
You not being able to conceive yet might be something as little as adjusting ur diet.

A family friend just agreed to IVF last year after 13 years of marriage and now they have a twin. So, yours will end in praise too. Act now!

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You both keep forging ahead.You both married FIRST to be with each other.Children are gifts that come with marriage.

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Built2last:
After 10years of marriage no child what will you do

Adopt a child(ren) that need love and a home.

I wonder why couples who are expecting children consider adoption as the last last option...
I'd choose adoption over IVF.

Klass99:


Let me share a true life story I once heard. I don't know the couples involved but I know the 3rd party who shared the story with me, she's not someone to peddle lies or fake tales.

A married couple who couldn't have kids after years of marriage, decided to go their separate ways. They both remarried different people and surprisingly they have kids from their second marriage.

So, Tony & Tracy divorced without kids. Tony remarried and has kids now. Tracy remarried as well and now has kids too. Only God knows why things happen the way they do sometimes

I am not in anyway advocating that childless couples separate and try for children elsewhere! Hell no, not all.

My personal belief is that marriage can be sweet without children and they are truly not a necessity for a good or happy marriage either.

well your story may be true, our neighbour has been together for about four to five years before there park to our compound, there stay about two to three years still no child. But the beating this woman use to receive from the man is out of this world cope with the infidelity of the man jump from one girl to another.

I dont blame him because he was desperate and he is not getting younger. On one faithful day i dont know what happen between both of them the man decide to park the woman out hire a car park all the things the woman owns and take her back to her parent.

Within the space of two years the lady was pregnant for another man she even brought the pregnacy to visit our neighbour then everybody was surprise. And i heard she gave birth to a boy

It took the man three years to father a child because he later meet a very small gal that was ready to settle down with him he kept it private until the young lady gave birth infact the man has two children now from that young girls so your submission is possible only God and our medical practitional can explain this

I don't need (a) child(ren).

I had a uncle who didn't have a child for over 18 years. As I speak he has 6 kids amongst the 6 kids there are 2 set of twins.

He was so faithful to his wife and never cheated.
God still perform miracles.

If only the couple in question can trust GOD and wait on HIM, HE will surely remember
them, though this period of waiting is not always easy but HE that promise is Faithful.

Invest in the life of another child. Kids that need love and nuture abound around you. Adopt them and train them like you would your own. I don't believe that it is until you're the biological mother or father of a child that u can be called their parent. Trust me the child that u choose to train would never ever desert you. You become their small god and they become forever part of u.

I have heard of stories about helping other kids and that act invoked God's blessings of having ones biological kids.

it's also a way of giving back to the society.

What's the problem can u share I may have a solution for you contact me 08161127336

Pray together and save up for ivf

Built2last:
After 10years of marriage no child what will you do

10years is too long if a couple is really serious about having kids.

The moment they start TTC (usually within the first two years of being married) and it's not happening, then tests and treatments should begin immediately.

Personally, any couple that makes it to the 10year mark, and still have not being able to conceive despite undergoing treatments and deliverance sessions, they ought to just remain together and focus on adoption.
IVF and/or surrogacy can also be explored, but strictly on medical recommendations.

I'll stop sleeping with her with a condom

merieam16:
Pray together and save up for ivf

Lol, the way you people type IVF, it seems you actually assume it's like magic.
Kpa kpa kpa, pikin don come abi...

The succes rate for IVF is still less than 40% on the first cycle even in the best countries. Most women will have to attempt at least three cycles before it becomes successful, and it gets more expensive with each cycle.
The age of the woman is also a very important factor as well to determine its success.

It's not magic.

Klass99:


Let me share a true life story I once heard. I don't know the couples involved but I know the 3rd party who shared the story with me, she's not someone to peddle lies or fake tales.

A married couple who couldn't have kids after years of marriage, decided to go their separate ways. They both remarried different people and surprisingly they have kids from their second marriage.

So, Tony & Tracy divorced without kids. Tony remarried and has kids now. Tracy remarried as well and now has kids too. Only God knows why things happen the way they do sometimes

I am not in anyway advocating that childless couples separate and try for children elsewhere! Hell no, not all.

My personal belief is that marriage can be sweet without children and they are truly not a necessity for a good or happy marriage either.

Of course, you're very very correct. But not many couples are willing to experience that sweetness without kids especially Africans. As for tony and Tracy's story, or the serial abortionist conceiving with ease why the virgin has to spend 10, 12 years at shiloh before conceiving. It is one of life's deal we can never understand.

Nisland:
u said up to 10 year. And how old are you.u should leave everything in God hand.make a new life.

What are you on about bro?