1st to top the list is MONEY, yes Money

Google it

Wanna get married or wanna know how to sustain marriage?

money, compatibility, em. . .

Friendship
Communication
Determination
Patience
Forgiveness
A short memory
Sense of humor
Compatible sex drives
Love
God

adamsrib:

Friendship
Communication
Determination
Patience
Forgiveness
A short memory
Sense of humor
Compatible sex drives
Love
God

lol . . .I so agree,a short memory and a wise head,u never wud be caught unawares.

reality is a reqiurement

In Nigeria, it is OWO(Money) lol.

Love always comes last.

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Committment
Communication
Contentment
Friendship

^^ imho LOVE comes first, although it requires a lot more to make a marriage work. You can have all the requirements possible under the sun but if you don't LOVE that person then you will never have a successful marriage.

^^^
Goodluck!

Lol, why would you say that?! Would you prefer a wife that had all the requirements stated above BUT didn't love you ONE BIT!?

Ignorance. Trust me .It is actually blissful

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@ Blazay
Goodluck ko Buhari ni.

Actually me thinks love is not number one. Yes love has to be there but is not the most important of all that is required

adamsrib:

Friendship
Communication
Determination
Patience
Forgiveness
A short memory
Sense of humor
Compatible sex drives
Love
God

You omitted the second important thing after God, that's (EGO, OWO, KUDI, OKUK, (MONEY MONEY MONEY)

its a Long List of requirements

apocalypse:

@ Blazay
Goodluck ko Buhari ni.

Actually me thinks love is not number one. Yes love has to be there but is not the most important of all that is required

Oh yes o!
You need a lot of 'goodluck' too. . .although I was responding to the poster after me.
Tell these "Sillhouette" romance readers jare.
Love ko. . . love ni.

Love only comes at the very end of marriage when you can really know for sure why you love and still love the person you are with.
If your spouse is sleeping at night and you can resist the urge of not killing him or her. . . it could be love too.

its just three key things
1. money
2. communication
3. and sex

L.O.V.E.I SAY L.O.V.E conquer everything

Love can not conquer everything if both parties do not learn to make sacrifices and are willing to forgive

comfort
patient
tolerant

The fear of God, first.
Cash 2nd
Compatibility
Love
Sex
Understanding
Communication
Respect
Tolerance
Friendship

N/B: Even with love, do not underestimate the disaster poverty can cause.

The basic require in Nigeria is a willing woman and a man (whether willing or unwilling). In other places requirements differ.

tuwaski:

its just three key things
1. money
2. communication
3. and sex

the best so far, ignore this and wait d consequences. And if i may add, the fear of God.

My friend, to be sincer wit you, it requires a lot of UNDERSTANDING and it requires MATURITY

A prenup and surrogate mothers.

harakiri:

A prenup and surrogate mothers.

LMAO

adamsrib (f) Re: Requirements For Good Marriage
« #5 on: March 26, 2011, 05:43 AM »

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Friendship
Communication
Determination
Patience
Forgiveness
A short memory
Sense of humor
Compatible sex drives
Love
God

@ poster There is no written requirements per say , its like adding salt to food no written quantity for it , just follow your mind

good sex, and for the wifey, always look good and stay trimmed!
don't walk around the house, tying a wrapper around your chest, smelling of onoins,
smell good, look good, learn the art of sex! its totally important, buy books that teach sex, or ask friends, get grounded in the school of sex!
above all, be a good listener, don't nag your hubby,

i hope this helps!