Permit to bother you with my long post. Pardon my grammatical errors.
Early last year i came to stay with my friend's family. He has a younger sister, she is 22 years while i am 28years. I fell so much in love with her. It happens that we had romance together, without sex. I told her about the feelings i have been nursing towards her through a WhatsApp chat, she did not reply me. To cut the long story short, we had romance several times (she wanted it) without sex because i don't want to have it with her due to my love for her. Any time we romance, we might not relate with each other well for like a week or more. I planned to stop the romance with her until she will say yes to me because i truly love her. She went back to school and whenever i chatted with her reminding her of my feelings she don't usually reply my messages.
When she came back from school, we played, joke but no romance. I sent her message on whatsapp that i love her, the next day she started behaving somehow. I had to send her a message back that i am sorry for the previous message i sent. Where the problem lies is this, the next morning i found out that she has blocked me on whatsapp. She totally changed towards me. I called her one on one to ask why, she didn't give me audience.
I called her on 31st of December, last year to apologize and beg her in the name of God to forgive me if i ever offended her. She said okay but she didn't mend things with me. We only greet each other when the family members are there.
Please help a brother, i am confused. I truly love her. I have never felt this way for a lady before. I want our friendship back. WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE?
Note; i never planned to use and dump her. I always pray and fast for her even without her knowing.

I ACCEPTED THE FACT THAT I SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THAT. I AM A BETRAYER. BUT HOW CAN I MEND THINGS PLEASE?

Haha ;DHaha

Come and see love in Tokyo i pray that I see true love

Let me wait for my elders to contribute

"I even bought ice cream for her yesterday and she collected it and lick".

chali01:
Permit to bother you with my long post. Pardon my grammatical errors.
Early last year i came to stay with my friend's family. He has a younger sister, she is 22 years while i am 28years. I fell so much in love with her. It happens that we had romance together, without sex. I told her about the feelings i have been nursing towards her through a WhatsApp chat, she did not reply me. To cut the long story short, we had romance several times (she wanted it) without sex because i don't want to have it with her due to my love for her. Any time we romance, we might not relate with each other well for like a week or more. I planned to stop the romance with her until she will say yes to me because i truly love her. She went back to school and whenever i chatted with her reminding her of my feelings she don't usually reply my messages.
When she came back from school, we played, joke but no romance. I sent her message on whatsapp that i love her, the next day she started behaving somehow. I had to send her a message back that i am sorry for the previous message i sent. Where the problem lies is this, the next morning i found out that she has blocked me on whatsapp. She totally changed towards me. I called her one on one to ask why, she didn't give me audience.
I called her on 31st of December, last year to apologize and beg her in the name of God to forgive me if i ever offended her. She said okay but she didn't mend things with me. We only greet each other when the family members are there. I even bought Ice cream for her yesterday and she collected it and lick.
Please help a brother, i am confused. I truly love her. I have never felt this way for a lady before. I want our friendship back. WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE?
Note; i never planned to use and dump her. I always pray and fast for her even without her knowing.

Hahahahahahahahahaha

Op, see as small girl dey use your brain.

You better get sense this 2021.

Martinez39s
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This dude needs to swallow some pills.

The ice cream part got my lolzzzzzzzz. the she collected it and LICK part is epic.

Try to woo her again, if she's not giving you the same energy you're giving to her.. tell her to give you back your ice-cream!
No time to dey waste time

ahnie:
The ice cream part got my lolzzzzzzzz.
the she collected it and LICK part is epic.

As in

Very hilarious!

Keep showing her more love bro, even if it means compromising your self-respect like you have already done. Make her the centre of your world and overvalue her and keep on chasing what doesn't desire you. Also, act like you can't do without her even though she is just human like the rest. You have my blessings bro.

She is probably caught between being loyal to you and being loyal to her brother. I won’t be surprised to know her brother (your friend), is doing his best to scatter the situationship.

Sorry about your licked ice cream. An ice cream once licked cannot be unlicked. You’ll be fine.

Ginaz:
"I even bought ice cream for her yesterday and she collected it and lick".

bukatyne:


As in

Very hilarious!

No be small thing o...na this type go collect all the things wey he buy for babe once the baby tellam say she no do again.

Ogbeni she doesn't like u they way u think....She dey use u catch cruise.

You 're not even ashame you want to date ur friend sister.

pocohantas:
She is probably caught between being loyal to you and being loyal to her brother. I won’t be surprised to know her brother (your friend), is doing his best to scatter the situationship.

Sorry about your licked ice cream. An ice cream once licked cannot be unlicked. You’ll be fine

Looooooooollll abegiii make una no kill me with laugh ooooo.

Op, just look how these women take gather dey laugh you.

But regardless, my advice is that you find new distractions and focus your time there, if na covid-19 hold you, try avoid her until you hurry up and leave their house. She don see you finish na why.

She's seen how many boxers you change in a week and how many days you wear a particular singlet, no wahala.

Just give her time or tell your friend say you wan marry him sister (be frank about it), if him beat you to death, fine, if he loves the idea because you can handle the sister, also fine.

But please, don't over do this wooing thing, that girl fit give you food one day without meat o.

it's obvious she doesn't want to date you. but she can sleep with you for the fun of it that why you were able to romance her. but there is no way she can date you. only to sleep with you.

you are not even ashamed of yourself. that's a betray to your friend and family. guy get a life. put the emotion and feelings behind and think properly. what you are doing is wrong from all sides.

The fact that both of romanced and she would have fvcked you if you made the move shows she only wanted sex, but you were catching feelings. She resents you now cuz you didn't give her what she wanted. Always know what the opposite sex wants, if you can't give it, then move. She knew what she wanted, she didn't get it, she has moved on.

@chali01

The fact that both of romanced and she would have fvcked you if you made the move shows she only wanted sex, but you were catching feelings.

She resents you now cuz you didn't give her what she wanted. Always know what the opposite sex wants, if you can't give it, then move. She knew what she wanted, she didn't get it, she has moved on.

Martinez39s:
Keep showing her more love bro, even if it means compromising your self-respect like you have already done. Make her the centre of your world and overvalue her and keep on chasing what doesn't desire you. Also, act like you can't do without her even though she is just human like the rest. You have my blessings bro.

Stop that bro. The guy is a newbie to women, if you don't want to guide him properly, at least don't misguide him. Because I'm sure your sarcasm is lost on him.

@op. Do you see how the females on this thread have turned you to a joke? That is exactly how that girl feels about you, except that she sees you as a pitiful clown instead of a funny one. You don't love her, you're infatuated because she allowed you to press some of her body parts. Let her be, at least until you're older and wiser. Your time will come.

But the "lick ice cream" part was funny na? ^^^

Imagine using ice cream to lure and get her pregnant in her father's house...and right under her brother, "your friend's" nose...I gbara wicked!
And you think you deserve pity?

From your last paragraph you sound sincere if that's the case is best you approach the family first especially the brother.

RisenPhoenix1:


Stop that bro. The guy is a newbie to women, if you don't want to guide him properly, at least don't misguide him. Because I'm sure your sarcasm is lost on him.

@op. Do you see how the females on this thread have turned you to a joke? That is exactly how that girl feels about you, except that she sees you as a pitiful clown instead of a funny one. You don't love her, you're infatuated because she allowed you to press some of her body parts. Let her be, at least until you're older and wiser. Your time will come.

He deserves it for being a foolish betrayer!

A family was kind enough to host him, and he goes behind them to mess with their daughter? In her father's house?

mariahAngel:


He deserves it for being a foolish betrayer!

A family was kind enough to host him, and he goes behind them to mess with their daughter? In her father's house?

And how about the daughter who betrayed her own father; in his house? If a stranger is a foolish betrayer for betraying the father of a family friend and deserves to be punished with mockery, what does a family member who betrayed her own father deserve? Or does she get a free pass because she's female?

RisenPhoenix1:


And how about the daughter who betrayed her own father; in his house? If a stranger is a foolish betrayer for betraying the father of a family friend and deserves to be punished with mockery, what does a family member who betrayed her own father deserve? Or does she get a free pass because she's female?

Well, the "stranger" brought the matter here, didn't he?
As for the lady, she's a disgrace to her father and family.

chali01:
Permit to bother you with my long post. Pardon my grammatical errors.
Early last year i came to stay with my friend's family. He has a younger sister, she is 22 years while i am 28years. I fell so much in love with her. It happens that we had romance together, without sex. I told her about the feelings i have been nursing towards her through a WhatsApp chat, she did not reply me. To cut the long story short, we had romance several times (she wanted it) without sex because i don't want to have it with her due to my love for her. Any time we romance, we might not relate with each other well for like a week or more. I planned to stop the romance with her until she will say yes to me because i truly love her. She went back to school and whenever i chatted with her reminding her of my feelings she don't usually reply my messages.
When she came back from school, we played, joke but no romance. I sent her message on whatsapp that i love her, the next day she started behaving somehow. I had to send her a message back that i am sorry for the previous message i sent. Where the problem lies is this, the next morning i found out that she has blocked me on whatsapp. She totally changed towards me. I called her one on one to ask why, she didn't give me audience.
I called her on 31st of December, last year to apologize and beg her in the name of God to forgive me if i ever offended her. She said okay but she didn't mend things with me. We only greet each other when the family members are there.
Please help a brother, i am confused. I truly love her. I have never felt this way for a lady before. I want our friendship back. WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE?
Note; i never planned to use and dump her. I always pray and fast for her even without her knowing.

..
See the way 22years old girl dey use epa of almost 30 dey dribble??..


Shes acting up because, wheen the opportunity came to crab the kpekus, u failed.

:"I even bought ice cream for her yesterday and she collected it and lick".

Hahahahahaha.......una don make op go modify the ice cream part.....chai......lwkmd oo

mariahAngel:


Well, the "stranger" brought the matter here, didn't he?
As for the lady, she's a disgrace to her father and family.

Nne......ole way??