Doradorwa:
Sir... the first question is did he bleeped her or not.. The second is that did he used any form of protection or not... according to the OP it seems that he did not use any form of protection... For now the woman word is over his own... there is no lie... she is the woman and if she said the op is the father then he(op) will be the father until he can successfully prove he is not... and that test results still does not amount to anything...

midehi2:

terminated kwa, chai una dey try ooo

Ejaisky:
The gestation age start counting from the first day of last period not the day of intercourse.

dominique:
Highly unlikely. After fertilization it takes about 6 days for a fused zygote to get implanted into the uterus. She claimed she got pregnant within a week of sleeping with you, that's too early to detect pregnancy except the test is done in a high tech lab. She's looking for who to pin pregnancy on

Shellsploit:
Ask her who slept with her before u met her.
Shes trying to manipulate you into owing the pregnancy.


Lalasticlala sef...

Johfem:
Tell us about the previous times you had intercourse together before 24th.

Her own side of the story is to be heard too.

Nurse the pregnancy and go for DNA immediately after birth shikena!

SlimBrawnie:

He asked a question which was answered from a medical point of view. The decision is left for them to make. You should have read it till the end rather than saying "una dey try".... I'm still trying to figure out what the heck that meant.

1759King:
If you're the only person that 'bedded' her around the time you did, congratulations in advance.

You will soon be a father! You two should worry about the effects of the drugs (she took to get rid of the pregnancy) on the baby

For those making reference to the 12 weeks age of the pregnancy; hahaha, scans usually rely on the day of last period to show that.

Speaking from experience; my last child (the 4th) was conceived on the same day some (few) years ago. The mother (my wife)'s last day of period was around same 28th November of that year. I was with my wife 247 before the said date until about 2 months later - we were vacationing (before una go begin talk dna)

Jakasibo:

But the physician said since her period ended on the 2nd on dec. that she'll be on free period by 24th having passed ovulation. And that she's not supposed to see any symptoms within six days that'll make her do test

Didi2d:


E dey na! I know of a friend that normally get a particular injection, with it he can't pregnant a woman until he's ready

DhatPeacefuldud:
You dey fear ni?

kiddkash:
I just wish there is birth control for men that doesn't include vasectomy

just swim raw without worrying of giving birth
it sure will be a game changer

JeffDWalter:


That is wrong Sir.

After her discharge/period, she has only 14 days of "safe period" but to be on a safe, I give people 10 days because of the differences in individuals.

A full circle is 28 days: 14 days of free womb plus 7 days of ovulation and 7days plus or minus of discharges gives you 28 days.

So if she finished her menstruation on the 2and, we assume that, on or before 16th of December, she had a mature egg/ova ready for fertilization from the Fallopian tube to the ovary. If you slept with her six days later, being 24th or so, according to you, then you would be responsible for fertilization of the egg.

As a fellow rightly pointed out, gestation begins immediately after her period.

So calculate from second of December to 24th of February and you have exactly 12 weeks.

You are the father until DNA proves otherwise. Not all Lab Technicians can actual calculate ovulation periods.

Some women too do not even know it.

JeffDWalter:


That is wrong Sir.

After her discharge/period, she has only 14 days of "safe period" but to be on a safe, I give people 10 days because of the differences in individuals.

A full circle is 28 days: 14 days of free womb plus 7 days of ovulation and 7days plus or minus of discharges gives you 28 days.

So if she finished her menstruation on the 2and, we assume that, on or before 16th of December, she had a mature egg/ova ready for fertilization from the Fallopian tube to the ovary. If you slept with her six days later, being 24th or so, according to you, then you would be responsible for fertilization of the egg.

As a fellow rightly pointed out, gestation begins immediately after her period.

So calculate from second of December to 24th of February and you have exactly 12 weeks.

You are the father until DNA proves otherwise. Not all Lab Technicians can actual calculate ovulation periods.

Some women too do not even know it.

luminouz:


You are still wrong. Your emotions are clouding up the whole issue.

Even a woman like you analysed that stuff on the first page and said it's impossible. How in hell does a woman have symptoms of pregnancy in 6 days after sex? She already passed that ovulation window way back.

Secondly, the scan result showed she was pregnant before he had sex with her. Pregnancy no dey gum to people na...you must fuq to get it and the time OP did his own, it's scientifically impossible for her to get pregnant. It's just basic science and logic.


Saying the test results don't amount to anything is baffling to me...what should we now use? Her pure and lovely heart?

Jakasibo:
I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.

It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).

Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.

Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.

Below is the scan result

Can it still be aborted successfully?

Deka10:

Did you say 7 days of ovulation
Ovulation is a 24hr event

Deka10:

Go and do DNA test on your kids

Johfem:
Tell us about the previous times you had intercourse together before 24th.

Her own side of the story is to be heard too.

Nurse the pregnancy and go for DNA immediately after birth shikena!

JosephXavier:
So after all these calculations you still come here to ask us if it's your pregnancy?

You just came to ignite guys against ladies in my own judgement

How come a grown up man will be acting like a simp

Jakasibo:
I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.

It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).

Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.

Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.

Below is the scan result

Can it still be aborted successfully?

bluefilm:


www.nairaland.com/attachments/13190442_screenshot20210225100138_jpegcccd86c3d7bf38ff12f280e61891dcbb

Hahahaha

Guy man don dey do permutation and combination like mad.

I can bet that you didn't any type of calculation before you entered raw.

You better start getting ready to face the music because your life is about to take a different turn.

Jakasibo:

But the physician said since her period ended on the 2nd on dec. that she'll be on free period by 24th having passed ovulation. And that she's not supposed to see any symptoms within six days that'll make her do test

Deka10:

Did you say 7 days of ovulation
Ovulation is a 24hr event

Doradorwa:
Sir.... I am a realist... I don't do emotions and sentiment.... I take total responsibility of my actions.... Now please look at this my argument from this angle Sir... Firstly the sex was unprotected... if the lady said it's for him then it's for him until proven otherwise... secondly the op is acting from what the lab attendant told him... No lab attendant can dispute pregnancy ownership... it's only a DNA... And may I remind you sir that this issue is a debate... some people are saying the pregnancy is not for the op while some feels it for him.... All the evidence are against him... Even if the lady take the case to welfares... They will tell the op to take up the responsibility of the pregnancy until he can do a DNA test... Abortion is a criminal offense here in Nigeria so they will not advise him to do it....

Doradorwa:
Sir... as long as you bleeped her without protection which I believe is absolutely irresponsible then you will need to take responsibility until the baby comes out and you do a DNA.... We Yoruba will say that"Iya omo lomo baba omo e" .... The lady is pointing fingers at you... I advise you to man up and do the necessary thing... even if it is an abortion.... 12 weeks can still be successfully removed.

Jakasibo:
I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.

It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).

Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.

Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.

Below is the scan result

Can it still be aborted successfully?