Righteousness2:

You are not ready for the responsibility but you were ready to Hammer someone's daughter.

aysnoopy:
@op, I understand your case and I hope you'll be bless soon to take care of your baby

Can u tell us why u don't get married to her @Pierocash?

Pierocash:
you know women can change so quick once they become mothers,I called everything off few months to our wedding proper after enduring too much emotional and verbal abuses for too long.

She became saucy, uncaring, violent and everything that doesn't qualify for a wife. I realised she was badly influenced by her mum. So I was left with no other option than to end it all and focus on my son who is the only important factor here,and never regretted my decision.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me.

You already knew deep down inside you weren't ready all along, why didn't you guys use protection.

aroundtheearth:
With your Civil Engineering degree, you should be earning way more than that or why are you earning 20k ($65.45) or 30k ($98.18) per month? Na wa! Try finding another job, abeg, and keep the pregnancy.

wentroublecomes:


Thanks lot.
I've been looking for jobs all around but yet to find
It makes me depress all day that's why I felt I should abort d pregnancy.
Thanks

cococandy:
Look at this one sounding all humble and shit.

Tomorrow he will come back on here to talk trash about single mothers or ladies who have had abortions on their past. Meanwhile he’s 100% contributed to the numbers by having sex.

I wish your girlfriend good luck and common sense to do what’s right for HER FIRST.

wentroublecomes:


Thanks lot.
I've been looking for jobs all around but yet to find
It makes me depress all day that's why I felt I should abort d pregnancy.
Thanks

grossintel:
At 30, you're thinking of aborting your baby. How much time do you think you have left on Earth! Keep the child bro, they say one person don't raise a child. Help will come, just don't make that mistake.

My brother, This your post is one of the reasons poor people have lots of children... because they believed that help will come ... You will see a jobless man with 6-7 children.. and you ask yourself Kilode ?... I believe that God do provide but planning is always very important

Richy4:



My brother, This your post is one of the reasons poor people have lots of children... because they believed that help will come ... You will see a jobless man with 6-7 children.. and you ask yourself Kilode ?... I believe that God do provide but planning is always very important

Richy4:



My brother, This your post is one of the reasons poor people have lots of children... because they believed that help will come ... You will see a jobless man with 6-7 children.. and you ask yourself Kilode ?... I believe that God do provide but planning is always very important

wentroublecomes:
Good afternoon nairalanders. Please overlook my grammatical errors as I'm not very good in English
I'm here to seek for advice because I'm in a very confused state.
I'm 30 yrs while my girlfriend is 23 yrs.
I'm a civil engineering graduate and I finished my service year 4 years ago.
I've been working under an engineer and also have a side little business (though I've not been making huge profit from it due to lack of enough capital)
My girlfriend as been loving me the way I am. When I met her, I let her know I'm earning 20k as a graduate but she said it doesn't matter that things will get better soon.
Recently about 8 months ago, it has been increase to 30k which it's not enough for me.
We av been dating for almost 3 years now and I was recognized well by her family members as someone intending to marry their daughter.
My girl stays most time with me and we sometimes I've intimacy.
Just few days ago, she complained abt her period been missing but I really don't take it serious because sometimes she have late period which she'll still menstruate after some days.
But just about 3 days ago when I noticed it's getting more late, we did PT and it came positive.

I'm thinking of getting rid of it because I'm not very read for the responsibilities even though I love kids and wish I have mine too.
I don't want her to suffer if we eventually leave the pregnancy because she is not earning much as well and she'll even loss her job if she's pregnant.
I know it's a crime to abort but what can I do?

Somebody should please help me, even if it's to get a better job that will be enough to take care of her and the baby. Or maybe I should just abort it and wait for more time till when things get better.

wentroublecomes:
Good afternoon nairalanders. Please overlook my grammatical errors as I'm not very good in English
I'm here to seek for advice because I'm in a very confused state.
I'm 30 yrs while my girlfriend is 23 yrs.
I'm a civil engineering graduate and I finished my service year 4 years ago.
I've been working under an engineer and also have a side little business (though I've not been making huge profit from it due to lack of enough capital)
My girlfriend as been loving me the way I am. When I met her, I let her know I'm earning 20k as a graduate but she said it doesn't matter that things will get better soon.
Recently about 8 months ago, it has been increase to 30k which it's not enough for me.
We av been dating for almost 3 years now and I was recognized well by her family members as someone intending to marry their daughter.
My girl stays most time with me and we sometimes I've intimacy.
Just few days ago, she complained abt her period been missing but I really don't take it serious because sometimes she have late period which she'll still menstruate after some days.
But just about 3 days ago when I noticed it's getting more late, we did PT and it came positive.

I'm thinking of getting rid of it because I'm not very read for the responsibilities even though I love kids and wish I have mine too.
I don't want her to suffer if we eventually leave the pregnancy because she is not earning much as well and she'll even loss her job if she's pregnant.
I know it's a crime to abort but what can I do?

Somebody should please help me, even if it's to get a better job that will be enough to take care of her and the baby. Or maybe I should just abort it and wait for more time till when things get better.