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Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by GodIsBiafran: 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I am Igbo and I will tell you: hatred for Yorubas is very common among Igbos. It surprises me to this day. Since my parents never in my presence say anything negative about any other tribe. So how did I grow up to be the stauchest defender of Igbos and Biafra? Because, I can love the people of Nigeria and still believe that we Igbos are better off on our own with our Biafran brothers and sisters. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by flokii: 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
haffaze777: Don't mind her.. the guy preek dey totori her |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by haffaze777(m): 8:11pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
flokii: She be mumu 1 Like |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by MufasaLion: 8:12pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by haffaze777(m): 8:14pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
MufasaLion:More like Igbo ladies rock Yoruba demon's preek 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
haffaze777:Who are you? |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
MufasaLion:Who are you? |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by prettyangel10(f): 8:23pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Better thank your stars and move on with your life. Even if you get married to him, you might ( note) 'might ' not have peace of mind in your marriage. Talking from a friends experience. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by MufasaLion: 8:25pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
haffaze777: I'm not sexualizing 'em bro. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by NoToPile: 8:35pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Move on, she even called your parents and told them to tell you to leave her son That's the height of it abeg. I would not support my sister entering a family she is not wanted, it most times end in (premium ) tears. I will ignore the part where you are the one spending money on the guy, just move on You will see your own 3 Likes |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Lothario(m): 9:47pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
haffaze777:For your dreams na una useless dey after our ladies |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Kondomatic(m): 10:41pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Vaughanlanrewaj:Because she(the lady) is who? Let me tell you something, it will continue be difficult for Non Igbos (especially Hausa and Yoruba) to marry Igbos until the generation that experienced the Civil War is gone completely. These people know what they experienced in the hands of the then Nigerian soldiers(mostly hausa and Yoruba). |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by emfy: 11:12pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
ofe mmanu. ..has a wife. mbanu dats one chance u will be far from home(no going to ur village) u can end up being single at the end. she will distance your kids from. seen many examples around especially when things re tough stay clear umu igbo 1 Like |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by haffaze777(m): 11:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Lothario: When you tell chima to stop running after my preek 1 Like |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by cococandy(f): 3:53am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Such an insensitive post. Also full of falsehoods Juliusmalema: |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by cococandy(f): 3:55am On Mar 22, 2021 |
emfy: Why are you people like this? |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by LordKO(m): 5:55am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Her boyfriend is the source of the problem here because he obviously hasn't conquered himself. When a man conquered himself, a decision like whom to marry and where to marry automatically becomes his sole decision to make; of course, he listens to advice but without living on the opinion of the adviser, if it's against that he knows is right. To the best of my knowledge, Igbos don't hate Yorubas. The reason why someone like the man's mother has supposedly disapproved the marriage might be for some justifiable or unjustifiable reason other than hatred for the Yorubas. It could be, for instance, that someone close to her who married a Yoruba woman in the past wittingly or unwittingly abandoned his parents and forgot about his ancestral root. I've seen this happened to a kindred relative; three of her male children who married Yoruba women and reside in Lagos and Ondo States respectively have only visited their ancestral home once or twice in the last 50 years or thereabouts - two of them are said to have even died and buried at their respective abodes a few years ago. They practically and completely abandoned their aged mother - who was their surviving parent - while answering big names in the city, until she died a few years ago. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Nobody: 8:18am On Mar 22, 2021 |
cococandy:Are you blind to her lola wrecked the peace in okoye's family? The woman knows her fears.. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by emfy: 8:46am On Mar 22, 2021 |
cococandy:. I am from the east. my best frnd before I wedded is a Yoruba boy. no tribal sentiment. just nailing it on the head. just last week I heard of a family frnd wife(Yoruba woman) left the man(Igbo man),carried vital properties together with their only son(say 14years old). The man so perturbed,his bp increasing by the day. over 15life stories I can share. It often click when the Lady is Igbo and the man is yoruba . even my neighbor is a good example of all this yarning . had two grown up kids for an igbo man left the marriage. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by JovialJune(f): 9:40am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Juliusmalema: Explain in full details, how the lady catering for a jobless Igbo guy, is a flirt and wayward? The mother was nice at first until she was told the lady is Yoruba, that means she's a tribal bigot and a nonentity, I truly do not blame people that insult Igbos here, all of you are the same, just take a look at your stupid comment, are you not daft? 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Nobody: 9:55am On Mar 22, 2021 |
JovialJune: Let the girl go and marry from her tribe Abeg. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by JovialJune(f): 10:01am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Juliusmalema: Same way all of you want to die cos Davido didn't marry grandma looking chioma abi? Because this one is not a celeb she should go and marry her tribe right? Bunch of money hungry leaching fulls. 1 Like |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Nobody: 10:04am On Mar 22, 2021 |
JovialJune: And Lola that Peter married has wrecked the entire Okoye family. Meanwhile, Chioma already have her son and not Davido's son. So she has nothing to lose rather than send her son home to her real father which is Chioma father.. and then marry. Davido has no claim on the child, so what's the fuss. Davido should go ahead and marry a Yoruba woman. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by JovialJune(f): 10:17am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Juliusmalema: Oh so Davido should go and marry a Yoruba woman, but when he was with chioma, Igbo women were the best thing after sliced akuya, now reality don set in, you remember he's Yoruba, bunch of delusional confused entity The child doesnt belong to Davido, na so, I'm pretty sure na ADELEKE be him surname, when the boy grow up, pls tell chioma not to so much as smell adeleke's wealth since na her ppapa ejaculate into her, but as Davido be omoluabi, he would never sideline his son, we get sense like that, na the boy go come claim Davido, Very foolish shameless girl, dropped out of school just to cruise round with man cos of money, a Yoruba lady will never ever do something like that, we will never abandon school cos of man or money, we are not that stupid. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by JovialJune(f): 10:19am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Juliusmalema: And this Lola issue you people keep salivating on, una go tire one day, Peter and Lola will grow old together and die to the envious shock of all of you, best believe. 1 Like |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Nobody: 10:21am On Mar 22, 2021 |
JovialJune: let Davido marry his fellow Yoruba Abeg. Ifeanyi is our son. Davido didn't perform any marital rites on her mother's head. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by cooooooks(m): 11:26am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Your boyfriend has to make it clear. If he isn't clear to his mother, in your presence, that it is you or nothing, leave him. Parents, even of the same.tribw, could try to reject a potential spouse for whatever reason. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by Victoria938(f): 1:50am On Mar 24, 2021 |
If the Mum says stay Clear please do I know it not easy but don't forget that when you are married to a Man you're Married to his Family, And if they don't like you especially the Mum Please Run away from Him. God will Surprise you |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by FanOfMyself: 8:33am On Mar 24, 2021 |
JovialJune:Your hatred against the Igbos doesn't stop them from prospering. Every tribe is guilty of tribalism and it's best if we marry from our tribe. |
Re: How My Igbo Boyfriend's Mother Crashed Our Plan Of Marriage-Adeola by AlphaSoul: 11:22am On Apr 03, 2021 |
MyopicMods:This girl is naive! |
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