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Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by mutter(f): 7:00am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Many men have issues with erectile dysfunction.. What some call impotence. At age 40 it affects 40 percent of men at age 50%. Most men cant bring themselves to talk honestly about it instead the try to shift the blame on the wife and surround themselves with side chick's to camouflage their inadequacy. Women are left feeling they are undesirable and the problem comes from them. As a couple age they should develop new strategies . It does work if both are willing to communicate and work on it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMphSQvziLY 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by SeaTrade(m): 8:36am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Actually,most times its the woman who has become undesirable. A man in his 40s will definitely have a wife who is in her late 30s and most times,these set of women aren't in their best shapes in Nigeria.Big belle,fat face,varicose vein on leg and thighs,stretch Mark's,bushy genitals,old unnactrative face,etc.. Who wouldn't develop ED with such a person? Put the same man with a sharp smallie and before you say jack,prick don reach Jericho. Haven't you wondered how most married men in their 40s have side smallies?If they had ED with these ones then what's the point of having them in the first place? Should tell you that the ED disappears at the sight of fresh youthful breasts Women should fix themselves abeg. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 28, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Honorable off your mic please. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Chapter1vs6(m): 10:10am On Apr 28, 2021 |
SeaTrade:This table you are shaking 8 Likes
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Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by iamyemiakins(m): 2:23pm On May 22, 2021 |
SeaTrade:You have a point but be calming down 5 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Jman06(m): 8:16pm On May 22, 2021 |
SeaTrade:Bros, with this your comment ehn, making heaven will be difficult for you. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Hathor5(f): 9:16pm On May 22, 2021 |
SeaTrade: And the excuses and blame shifting came right with the first reply. Oblivious of what ED actually is this one went ahead and blamed the entire nation. Let me blame Buhari on top of it. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Hathor5(f): 9:20pm On May 22, 2021 |
@mutter Very important topic but I do not see how we can bring men to open up about it and seek help if needed. Very few (very confident/mature) men can do this. There is no issue more delicate than this. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by mutter(f): 9:31pm On May 22, 2021 |
Hathor5: That is so true. It also really helps if the wife can help the man to come out with it by making him understand that there are other ways of satisfying her and removing the pressure and fear from them. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Hathor5(f): 10:11pm On May 22, 2021 |
mutter: For this to happen she must know he has ED. Many wives don't know and many men live in denial instead of seeing a urologist. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by adadike(f): 2:12am On May 23, 2021 |
If the man won't talk about it, then the wife should raise the discussion lovingly and respectfully or read about it and see what changes she can help with. Patiently waiting for men above 40 to come and air their opinion so we can learn and save for the future 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by mrwonlasewonie: 2:18am On May 23, 2021 |
You're so rude . SeaTrade: |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by femmoy(m): 3:15am On May 23, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Bros you nailed it up....truth and fact at the same time. Ladies please try and take care of yourselves so as not to tag us as men with ED because almost all men are guilty of having a side smallie,now if we actually have ED then what's the point of having a smallie? Ever wondered why? |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by babakb: 5:43am On May 23, 2021 |
femmoy: Stop justifying cheating and sexual immorality Wives are not the reason why men have smallies out there, this is just a morally bankrupt generation that is perverted, men that should be mentors to the mothers of tomorrow would rather turn them to their whoores. Pathetic. 22 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by babakb: 6:40am On May 23, 2021 |
mutter: The truth is most of the men having ED in their 40s are cheating husbands, it's a mind thing, they only married to bear kids legitimately and when that is done they go back to their Randy life style. The prayer point for you women now is not to ignorantly marry a cheating husband, even the other ways you're suggesting, the side chicks are the ones enjoying it. I'm 38 and surrounded by men in their 40s, most of them aren't suffering ED, they just don't desire their wives anymore and it's not the women's fault, they are just cheating husbands. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by MsAllison(f): 8:20am On May 23, 2021 |
adadike: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Hathor5(f): 8:36am On May 23, 2021 |
femmoy: All men in your environment. Birds of the same feather ... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Hathor5(f): 8:37am On May 23, 2021 |
babakb: Most men would never let you know they suffered from ED. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by sisisioge: 8:39am On May 23, 2021 |
Actually, matters relating to sexual incompetence in men are quite testy for them, they would rather not own up to the fact. Take Seatrade for example, he had echoed the minds of these men forgetting to state that when the guy sees the said smallie, he answers the call of attention briefly but remain unable to stay alert for a sizeable length of time. They usually will do for 2 seconds and be at ease despite all the lolly popping and calisthenics display of the poor girl . Money and tripping is what they use to compensate the poor smallie who would then have to source for another soldier to pacify herself. Why not kukuma have the conversation? Whether your choice of ears is madam or smallie, just have the conversation biko. How may she help you 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Cannicus: 10:24am On May 23, 2021 |
Hathor5: Because most women, and even men, would make fun of them. Removing the stigma from ED is the first step to healing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Twoclans(f): 11:51am On May 23, 2021 |
SeaTrade: 3 Likes
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Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by YourCoffin: 11:57am On May 23, 2021 |
Where in the world have you seen a woman handle a man's burden? Men would rather discuss it among themselves because that's the only way they can get a solution. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Hathor5(f): 1:56pm On May 23, 2021 |
Cannicus: Very true. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by babakb: 5:48pm On May 23, 2021 |
Hathor5: Natural ED is rare, most ED are caused by Chronic Diabetes and Pile, or if the man is a pervert that no longer desire his wife. He goes out and sleep with side chicks then come back home tired, even if his wife is seducing him his **** won't respond. |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by fashionnisir(f): 3:21pm On May 24, 2021 |
My wife, i have some thing to discuss with you you see, i have ED what they call erectile dysfunction. Please i want you too tell me other ways to satisfy you. please i dont want any of her hear to no about it and dont start following those small small boys ooo or else |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On May 24, 2021 |
femmoy: I wonder who’s looking out for the women whose husbands are in their forties and no longer desirable. Y’all keep preaching desirability to women but when told to keep same energy for yourselves, you start lying to yourselves that men are visual creatures and women are not. Hence the men don’t need to work on their physical appearances as long as they have money. Have y’all considered that the wives of these men may have their own money too and do not need the men for their money? what then will she be getting out of the relationship with an unfit, unkempt middle aged, average man who cheats on top of all those inadequacies? Women have really suffered . 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by femmoy(m): 5:36pm On May 24, 2021 |
cococandy: Don't know the exact reply I need to give you but anyway your comment is funny. |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Teespice(f): 9:05pm On May 24, 2021 |
I laugh in Spanish. Women are the cause of men having Erectile dysfunction. Chai. After placing laptops on your laps, wearing that very tight boxer that you say makes your bum and dicck more pronounced, drinking beer like a mobile brewery, smoking like chimney, you will still say that women are the cause of men having ED. Whatever makes you lot sleep at night. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Amaso99(m): 9:19pm On May 24, 2021 |
SeaTrade:break this table abeg |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by cococandy(f): 9:38pm On May 24, 2021 |
Many guys would rather chew Alaba market jeans than accept responsibility for things that happen in their relationships. If you’re a woman in a relationship with the typical naija dude, know that everything is your fault Before the matter is even tabled, accept responsibility on their behalf and move on. Teespice: |
Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by Teespice(f): 9:57pm On May 24, 2021 |
cococandy: Abi nau. Even when they feel less motivated, still a woman's fault. It is well. |
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