Over-pampred Kids are very troublesome and Stubborn - Especially to those parents who usually do the over-pampring on them in the name of LOVE.
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A parent who claims to love the kid won't even correct the kid, because the kid is a kid.
The time the kid becomes stubborn and troublesome, the parent would start to compare and complain

This is typical of those:
“I love my baby.. I don't want my baby to cry... If my baby cries, it tears my heart apart.”
...
The baby had reached FOUR YEARS, and the baby is still a baby.

Of course they are

BluntCrazeMan:
This is typical of those:
“I love my baby.. I don't want my baby to cry... If my baby cries, it tears my heart apart.”
...
The baby had reached FOUR YEARS, and the baby is still a baby.

Exactly. Pain is a natural, necessary human phenomenon. Depriving your child of learning from pain by setting boundaries and correcting deviant behaviour will end in tears for both parent and child

One thing I really hate.
If I will ever have children,if you Bleep up the way I go take kick you ehn,
Unless maybe na female child sha but as for stubborn boys,I've got their medicine.
The mother will only vex but nothing will stop me from teaching the kid a bitter lesson,
Nonsense!

The consequence of permisisive parenting style.

SeaTrade:
One thing I really hate.
If I will ever have children,if you Bleep up the way I go take kick you ehn,
Unless maybe na female child sha but as for stubborn boys,I've got their medicine.
The mother will only vex but nothing will stop me from teaching the kid a bitter lesson,
Nonsense!

Kick your sons when they are not balls, haba!

BluntCrazeMan:
Over-pampred Kids are very troublesome and Stubborn - Especially to those parents who usually do the over-pampring on them in the name of LOVE.
..
A parent who claims to love the kid won't even correct the kid, because the kid is a kid.
The time the kid becomes stubborn and troublesome, the parent would start to compare and complain

That's how over pampered wife and girlfriends gets stubborn. Which proves that women are like children at heart

Crunchyg3:

That's how over pampered wife and girlfriends gets stubborn. Which proves that women are like children at heart

You're very correct..
Many men learnt this lesson above the very hard way.
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“I love my wife, I love my wife..” And very soon, the man is having a very stubborn woman in his house who constantly challenges everything he says.

BluntCrazeMan:
You're very correct..
Many men learnt this lesson above the very hard way.
..
“I love my wife, I love my wife..” And very soon, the man is having a very stubborn woman in his house who constantly challenges everything he says.

You are right, who no know no go know

No thanks to wannabe kind and wannabe libertarian parents.

Train up a child in the way he should go when he grows up he will never
depart from it. Any child you fail to train will someday bring shame and
disgrace to you the parents.

Don't worry.....there's no money for pamper's again

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nah so.. we all know that but really I don't beat kids .. may God help me

Last born

So true... Those kids grow up to be spoilt and stubborn.

They always want their opinion to be the final say in a gathering not considering the aspect of other people's view just because they have been getting away with while at adolescent and teenage stage.

Gush.... Them no dey hear correction or accept say they are wrong.

Not far from truth

The problem is they are the ones that will now grow up and start behaving like special fools.
They will talk loosely,talk and act as if they don't have parents at all,just bunch of idiots without home training.
You will see the way some of your mates and people you're older than talk and you will just keep wondering if their parent actually inculcate any proper training in them.
Well me no get time for any half brain slowpoke
Anything wey you think you be,you be am for your pocket and your father's compound.
Talk to me anyhow and you will see crazy!

Spiritual strength and courage are needed for our spiritual warfare and suffering.

Those who would prove themselves to have true grace, must aim at all grace; and put on the whole armour of God, which he prepares and bestows.

The Christian armour is made to be worn; and there is no putting off our armour till we have done our warfare, and finished our course.

The combat is not against human enemies, nor against our own corrupt nature only; we have to do with an enemy who has more than a thousand ways of beguiling unstable souls.


The devils assault us in the things that belong to our souls, and labour to deface the heavenly image in our hearts. Wow.

We must resolve by God's grace, not to yield to Satan.

Resist him, and he will flee. If we give way, he will get ground. If we distrust either our cause, or our Leader, or our armour, we give him advantage.

The different parts of the armour of heavy-armed soldiers, who had to sustain the fiercest assaults of the enemy, are here described.

There is none for the back; nothing to defend those who turn back in the Christian warfare.

Truth, or sincerity, is the girdle. This girds on all the other pieces of our armour, and is first mentioned.

There can be no religion without sincerity.

The righteousness of Christ, imputed to us, is a breastplate against the arrows of Divine wrath.

The righteousness of Christ implanted in us, fortifies the heart against the attacks of Satan.

Resolution must be as greaves, or armour to our legs; and to stand their ground or to march forward in rugged paths, the feet must be shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace.

Motives to obedience, amidst trials, must be drawn from a clear knowledge of the gospel.

Faith is all in all in an hour of temptation. Faith, as relying on unseen objects, receiving Christ and the benefits of redemption, and so deriving grace from him, is like a shield, a defence every way.

The devil is the wicked one. Violent temptations, by which the soul is set on fire of hell, are darts Satan shoots at us.

Also, hard thoughts of God, and as to ourselves.

Faith applying the word of God and the grace of Christ, quenches the darts of temptation.

Salvation must be our helmet. A good hope of salvation, a Scriptural expectation of victory, will purify the soul, and keep it from being defiled by Satan.

To the Christian armed for defense in battle, the apostle recommends only one weapon of attack; but it is enough, the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. It subdues and mortifies evil desires and blasphemous thoughts as they rise within; and answers unbelief and error as they assault from without.


A single text, well understood, and rightly applied, at once destroys a temptation or an objection, and subdues the most formidable adversary.

Prayer must fasten all the other parts of our Christian armour. There are other duties of religion, and of our stations in the world, but we must keep up times of prayer.

Though set and solemn prayer may not be seasonable when other duties are to be done, yet short pious prayers darted out, always are so. We must use holy thoughts in our ordinary course. A vain heart will be vain in prayer.

We must pray with all kinds of prayer, public, private, and secret; social and solitary; solemn and sudden: with all the parts of prayer; confession of sin, petition for mercy, and thanksgiving for favours received.

And we must do it by the grace of God the Holy Spirit, in dependence on, and according to, his teaching.


We must preserve in particular requests, notwithstanding discouragements. We must pray, not for ourselves only, but for all saints.

Our enemies are mighty, and we are without strength, but our Redeemer is almighty, and in the power of his mighty we may overcome.

Wherefore we must stir up ourselves. Have not we, when God has called, often neglected to answer? Let us think upon these things, and continue our prayers with patience.

O. P you've said it all. Kudos!

G

Ok noted

Okay.

Naso my landlord dey Pamper him pikin till d boy turn full time tout

Gdv

BluntCrazeMan:
You're very correct..
Many men learnt this lesson above the very hard way.
..
“I love my wife, I love my wife..” And very soon, the man is having a very stubborn woman in his house who constantly challenges everything he says.

You're afraid of being challenged?, only tyrants do.

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Thats true

Make dem continue to pamper.... They will fast and pray latter