I please an urgent reply from matured minds and christians too. I am a christian and a pentecostal for that matter, then there is suitor that is asking my hand in marriage. He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic. And i have told him to join me in my own church but he refused and said that he's whole family is catholic that he cant compromise his faith. I love this guy, pls what do i do?

OnyinyeGod:

I please an urgent reply from matured minds and christians too. I am a christian and a pentecostal for that matter, then there is suitor that is asking my hand in marriage. He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic. And i have told him to join me in my own church but he refused and said that he's whole family is catholic that he cant compromise his faith. I love this guy, pls what do i do?

Marry your Pastor.

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No dont marry him, marry me, I am not Cat[b]HOLIC[/b], I am alco[b]HOLIC[/b]

OnyinyeGod:

I please an urgent reply from matured minds and christians too. I am a christian and a pentecostal for that matter, then there is suitor that is asking my hand in marriage. He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic. And i have told him to join me in my own church but he refused and said that he's whole family is catholic that he cant compromise his faith. I love this guy, pls what do i do?

Is it the same guy that impregnated your friend

Am not a roman catholic cos am not in rome neither do i go to catholic church let me ask u a question what is wrong with catholic people are u saying they are not christain
The word catholic means saint so all christain are catholic but not roman catholic,we are in nigeria not rome
Is like saying the name of my churh is christain church that does not say that other churches are not christain
But let me advice u if u kno u cant go to catholic church dont marry him cos there will be misunderstanding sooner or later for me my wife cant go to any other church from the one am going i can marry from any church but the day u say i do,u have no choice than to do what i want

So a Pentecostal cannot marry a Catholic, a Muslim cannot marry a Christian, an Irish Protestant cannot marry an Irish Catholic and even some churches discourage their congregation from marrying outside their church. All this just proves religion dose not unite people it divides people

Poster, how old are you?

OnyinyeGod:

I please an urgent reply from matured minds and christians too. I am a christian and a pentecostal for that matter, then there is suitor that is asking my hand in marriage. He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic. And i have told him to join me in my own church but he refused and said that he's whole family is catholic that he cant compromise his faith. I love this guy, pls what do i do?

No, you dont love him

OnyinyeGod:

He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic.

How is that a problem?

Well, u dont have to marry him. U can always wait for a male in YOUR church to marry you.

Same happened 2 me,but i wil tel u wot ma pastor told me,, wot matters is being born again in catholic we also have charistmatic followers of GOD,while in some pentecostal we stil get fornicators.wot realy matters is ur relationship wt ur GOD.make sure spouse is a born again n nt a fanatic.

OnyinyeGod:

I please an urgent reply from matured minds and christians too. I am a christian and a pentecostal for that matter, then there is suitor that is asking my hand in marriage. He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic. And i have told him to join me in my own church but he refused and said that he's whole family is catholic that he cant compromise his faith. I love this guy, pls what do i do?

Is it not the same God you're serving

Wahala.

What will happen to you if you marry him in a catholic church?

. . .and tomorrow, they will claim 2 worship the same god. These are churches that use the same bible,recite similar prayers etc and yet, they act like rival cult groups. Religion has NOTHING good to offer mankind (except the benefactors). The day religious people start to reason rationaly, that's the day religion will cease to exist.

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^^^

Just made me read all that junk, first correctly saying the right things by querying if Catholics are not Christians too, only to put his foot in it by revealing his hyprocritical yansh that the woman has to toe his line.

The irony, psffft.

I tot u wer going 2 say dat the GUY u luv and want 2 MARRY is a MUSLIM.mchweee
If he cannot compromise his CATHOLIC faith and u cannot compromise your PENTECOSTAL faith.oya now make una part wayss.
Wat if he accepts to follw your faith and after your marrige he goes bck 2 catholic,what will u do?u better make up your MIND

BTW i dont see anytin wrong wit a CATHOLIC marrying a PENTECOSTAL.Heavenly race is PERSONAL.All u nid do is 2 bring up morally upright children.finishh
as far as im concerned, u dont ve a problem if this is d only problem u ve wit d guy

Pentecostal, catholic, bishop, etc. Who gives a damn about all these factions these days, go the extent that it can determine who one marries! What a bunch of nonsense! If you love and care about each other, that's what should matter.

No wonder we have so many problems in Nigeria.

If you refuse to marry him, then you will have to wait for another guy,(Wonder how many years it took you to find this guy).
You gals of nowadays thinks husband full town like b4,"A bird at hand worth 2 birds on a tree "
Girls are at time very stupid ? Imagine even between christian, there is church segregation !!
What will happen if it were marriage BTW
!. Christian and Muslim
2.christian and traditionalist
3.Christian and peg an
4. Christian and cultist
5. Christian and Talibans

How are about voodoo's, jaw's ,buggist, Hindu, etc

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