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How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by viyon02: 3:28pm On Jun 23, 2021
Not everyone do like to relates with every member of the family relatives, for example I have some relative I don't want to relate with at all, infact I see them as potential enemies, but the fact is they are your family member. But how do distance from them without hurting them?
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by Ngenge(m): 3:54pm On Jun 23, 2021
Give them a phone number you hardly picks, don't attend any event you know they will come or always wear your facemask
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jun 23, 2021
Don't let them know your house, keep blacklisting every no they call you with
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by crackhaus: 4:38pm On Jun 23, 2021
If you consider them potential enemies whom you don't want to relate with, it means you don't like them.
Why then do you still care about what might hurt them?

Just do you...
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jun 23, 2021
Your best bet is to move far away: another town, state, country.
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by armyofone(m): 5:22pm On Jun 23, 2021
*potential enemies *

Try not to give people potential power to sleep in your head o.
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jun 23, 2021
Live peaceably with all men.

Are they willing to relate with you? If not, let them be. However you can call once in a blue moon to check on them. So they don't suspect you're avoiding them.

Be subtle as a dove but be wise as a serpent.

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Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by GboyegaD(m): 5:46pm On Jun 23, 2021
Why not just give them a cold shoulder? They will pick your message and move on.
Re: How Do You Handle Some Relative You Don't want to See? by anthonyuncle(m): 11:19pm On Jun 24, 2021
relocate to either ikorodu or badagry

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