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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Belafonte(m): 12:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: There are people who see nothing wrong in being a yahoo boy. In fact, many women say they want to marry God-fearing yahoo boys 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:47pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Belafonte:How e take concern me and how e take change the fact say single mothers dey marry everyday 5 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Belafonte(m): 12:50pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Even after the super scandalous MMM crash saga, there are Nigerians still investing their hard-earned cash in ponzi schemes. The desperate repetition of stupidity does not suddenly make it wise 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:56pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Belafonte: The only stupidity I see here is the one you are exhibiting. Return back to your cave and leave my mentions alone. 3 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Belafonte(m): 12:59pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Of course, you're entitled to your opinion. Return back to your cave and leave my mentions alone.This is like saying you wish today was 1999. It's powerless and silly 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Plut01: 3:07pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Belafonte:. . |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Andrew87: so basically you married a side chick/baby mama, a woman who the father of her 2 children did not deem fit to be his wife? Bro thats worse than marrying a divorcee 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:13am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Hammyaladin:But sir you have forgotten many men lost their mind at the site of ass alone |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:14am On Jul 18, 2021 |
babyfaceafrica:Why |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:15am On Jul 18, 2021 |
KingAzari:Hahahagajs |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 6:23am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:That's why we have to train our minds. To start with, see an ass as material for sitting. And also to push fat and pooo. This is the first step in freeing the mind. Hollywood, BET, Music and porn have given too many unnecessary value to a woman's ass. Which is not meant to be. You have to prioritize other things. Hang around people who don't water precious time in discussion women's from and back. See infact a woman with an average booty and boobs has no difference with there counterparts. Train your mind and assign value to goal. Go for holidays, hiking, reading a book. Save money for traveling to places like iceland, Florence and other places. Omo. There many important things to do in this God damn world aside prioritizing a woman's ass!!! But it's not going to be easy o. Justake sure you rise whenever you fall!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 11:06am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Any man who marries a single mother is stupid, has low self esteem, low self confidence, is not capable of getting good women, is not doing well in his life or some other personality/economic/social defect. NO man I repeat, No man! especially a young man who has his act together will marry a single mother, talk less one with 2 children. There are good looking, successful men that marry single mothers, but they are defective weak men, it's not always written one one's forehead!!! Back in primitive times, when a warrior takes over a town and kills a man he takes his wife and kills his children, it is not in the nature of man to raise another man's child. Even a lion that invades another pack of lions will kill the offspring of the other male lions. Any animal that conquers another male animal will take the female and kill the offspring. ONLY a defective man marries a single mother. it is against nature for a man to raise another man's child, talk less a woman the baby daddy did not deem fit or respectable enough to marry! No ifs or buts about it. You dont marry single mothers and if you dont want drama in your life, you dont marry children of single mothers either because, by definition they have grown up defective with an unbalanced view of life. The only possible exception in both cases if if the mother was married and the father died!!! |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by torqque7(m): 11:59am On Jul 18, 2021 |
johhnnie: Wow some humans can be very wicked sha..same hotel with husband and ex..my God,I fit vex kill person o cos I'd be so so mad..hmm Godforbid sha..but most times when things like these happen I blame the husband because there is no way he wouldn't have seen signs no matter how little,but he felt he could overlook it and she may change after marriage or because he is so desperate to have her he would do all he can to wife her. There was a story that one guy used money to snatch another guys girl and wanted to marry her and got approval from her parents because he was richer than her bf,she told him she wasn't ready for marriage but oga forced her into it,only for him and her to be seated during their wedding reception and she said she wanted to pee and left and was taking too long to return so husband went looking and caught her and her ex fvcking in the toilet,na so reception scatter o and during a family meeting she said she told him she never loved him but he kept pushing and forcing her so that was the result..so sometimes some of these men deserve this things. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:39pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
perambulator: I couldn't even waste my time reading this trash 3 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by baby124: 2:21pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Your wife needs to wake up and make sure her kids are not a burden on you. A single mum who remarries should make this her priority, not always looking for another man to carry her burden. She will keep making the same mistake with any man she meets. These days having 2 kids of your own is not a joke, not to mention taking on 2 kids that came into marriage and you are yet to have your own. She made those kids with that man, if he chooses to be unfortunate, sadly she has to hustle to lessen OP’s burden. OP try your best to help, you married her with kids, 70% chance the responsibility will fall on you two. May God enable you both. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ABANGWABOI(m): 3:58pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
johhnnie: Did you forgive her and brought her back or you moved on fully from her and separated ?? No vex.. I wan know.. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ABANGWABOI(m): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Vireani79: My guy... Continue dealing with her emotionally .. hurt her back and never forgive that idiot... That gender, they can't take a quarter of what they dish out to men.. I would always bless God for the day I discovered nairaland.. na me dey manipulate them now and not the reverse.. Infact I play all their games on them, Mind games, Reverse psychology, Emotional manipulation, Shaming etc.. You need to see how fvcked up they are when I bring those their traits against them.. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by MIKOLOWISKA: 5:38pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Romanoff:but they will forgive her for chasing their father away. Nonsense. This is why men should avoid single mothers and baby mama's. Irresponsible women everywhere |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Vireani79: 5:42pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
ABANGWABOI: Omo no mercy |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ThaThinka: 5:52pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
phorget: Abi o. This must be a reason some guys out there are afraid to have anything other than s*x to do with single mums: the ex factor. I'm learning. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88: no doubt a single mother yourself |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Adadioranma79(f): 9:15pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
You know you really don't have to say anything, you can just skip this trend instead of showing how pained, unaccomodattng and emotionless you are, you actually cried more than the bereaved. I can imagine how suicidal most of your friends would have become cos they cant share their inner pains and challenges with you Captain all knowing DirtyGold: |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:09pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Belafonte: I swear the Stoopid OP wrote this trash and thinks everyone is senseless like him.. A boy of 8 that has been separated from his father for around 2 yrs or so.. Hated his father when he was around 5-6 yrs old for not marrying his mother..?? What does he understand about life at such age.. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Andrew87(m): 9:23am On Jul 21, 2021 |
Incandescent: @least yours was helpful.. thanks |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Zabiboy: 1:11pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Belafonte:WORD ... Bros mi ...my manchi ... Better oil dey your head, No Cap .. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Zabiboy: 1:20pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Andrew87:Brotherly, forget the name of moniker's bashing you, rather look deep into the message they are passing bro.. I know say deep down, you know say you don fvck up... You are being used bro, No cap ... Nothing like love.. The earlier you regain your freedom, the better for you, it's up to you bro |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 10:19am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Andrew87: Sorry this is coming a bit late, but I feel I should share this with you. There is an American record producer. He has produced and written for Frank Ocean, Beyoncé, Donald Glover, Vince Staples, and Earl Sweatshirt, among others, he was born in November 1991, of igbo descent and currently his networth is around $10million... Google can give u the rest. Let me tell u a short story about him; His biological father decided to marry a second wife because he felt he had arrived; his first wife who struggled with him became nothing in eyes after 2 kids (Micheal & his sister). He subjected the first wife to all sorts of abuse, emotional, verbal, physical , even supported his own siblings to tag the woman bad just to justify his selfish reason of flirting, he basically frustrated her to make her leave.. In the end,, she couldnt take it anymore, she left with her 2 kids... The man told everyone she had runaway from her matrimonial home without telling them the part he played; with all the lies he was able to convince his siblings to help him marry the second wife. The marriage was talk of the town(traditional just like the first wife); the second wife was very beautiful, fair, hour glass figure, the envy of other men. The first wife continued to struggle for her survival with her kids, abandoned by everyone in her husband's family but not hers. God saw her heart and smiled on her, she won American visa lottery 5 years later and moves to the states with her kids,,, 1 year later God brought a wonderful man her way, she was 40 when they had their first kids (twin boys). He adopted her kids and they became a family Fast forward to 2020, the first daughter was given out in marriage to her american fiance by her adopted father, the son Mic is already made, he uses his spare time to teach his twin brother basketball. The father back home never had any child with his new bride till date, he lost everything , he retired to the village and lives off cash gifts while the wife is in the city helping her ministry not minding the age; his life which appeared bouyant initially, began to retrogress , he is critically ill, even his own siblings barely take care of him. Dear OP, God sees the heart of everyone, no matter what we tell people, if your heart is good towards your wife and her kids irrespective of their mistakes, I encourage you to do your best for them. Ignore the man whether he brings funds or not... Even the bible says he that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.... When those kids make it in life , for all you know they ay be the source of your own breakthrough. Many good women have left their homes, to leave not because they are bad, but because the men refused to live responsibly as husbands and fathers" remember even the bible supports separation where infidelity is involved. Do your best for them, it does not have to be expensive, support your wife with what you have she will know how to manage with the kids. Dont hold back any good towards her and the kids because for the love you show them ,heaven will reward you... I believe my story drives the point I tried to make..I know so much because I am part of that family , we all grew up together in Festac. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ariesbull: 10:46am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Andrew87: U no get sense ...Na Toto dey confuse you ....u dey drag another man kid.no go Ben your own If Na me I for don arrest you ....mugu |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Andrew87(m): 1:09pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Thanks bro.... Sorry this is coming a bit late, but I feel I should share this with you. There is an American record producer. He has produced and written for Frank Ocean, Beyoncé, Donald Glover, Vince Staples, and Earl Sweatshirt, among others, he was born in November 1991, of igbo descent and currently his networth is around $10million... Google can give u the rest. Let me tell u a short story about him; His biological father decided to marry a second wife because he felt he had arrived; his first wife who struggled with him became nothing in eyes after 2 kids (Micheal & his sister). He subjected the first wife to all sorts of abuse, emotional, verbal, physical , even supported his own siblings to tag the woman bad just to justify his selfish reason of flirting, he basically frustrated her to make her leave.. In the end,, she couldnt take it anymore, she left with her 2 kids... The man told everyone she had runaway from her matrimonial home without telling them the part he played; with all the lies he was able to convince his siblings to help him marry the second wife. The marriage was talk of the town(traditional just like the first wife); the second wife was very beautiful, fair, hour glass figure, the envy of other men. The first wife continued to struggle for her survival with her kids, abandoned by everyone in her husband's family but not hers. God saw her heart and smiled on her, she won American visa lottery 5 years later and moves to the states with her kids,,, 1 year later God brought a wonderful man her way, she was 40 when they had their first kids (twin boys). He adopted her kids and they became a family Fast forward to 2020, the first daughter was given out in marriage to her american fiance by her adopted father, the son Mic is already made, he uses his spare time to teach his twin brother basketball. The father back home never had any child with his new bride till date, he lost everything , he retired to the village and lives off cash gifts while the wife is in the city helping her ministry not minding the age; his life which appeared bouyant initially, began to retrogress , he is critically ill, even his own siblings barely take care of him. Dear OP, God sees the heart of everyone, no matter what we tell people, if your heart is good towards your wife and her kids irrespective of their mistakes, I encourage you to do your best for them. Ignore the man whether he brings funds or not... Even the bible says he that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.... When those kids make it in life , for all you know they ay be the source of your own breakthrough. Many good women have left their homes, to leave not because they are bad, but because the men refused to live responsibly as husbands and fathers" remember even the bible supports separation where infidelity is involved. Do your best for them, it does not have to be expensive, support your wife with what you have she will know how to manage with the kids. Dont hold back any good towards her and the kids because for the love you show them ,heaven will reward you... I believe my story drives the point I tried to make..I know so much because I am part of that family , we all grew up together in Festac.[/quote] 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by AlphaSoul: 1:37pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
perambulator:Lol... Hot volcanic lava. |
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