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Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 2:03pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Hello, I need your advice on this situation. I currently stay in a 3 bedroom apartment in Ogudu, and work in Ikoyi axis. My current rent is 1m and the landlord is about to increase it to 1.2m from next year. However, I just deposited 30% payment for a 3 bedroom flat Sangotedo and the owner said I can move in while I spread the balance. My concern is, I want to relocate to the new apartment in Sangotedo but the traffic going to work borders me. Is it better to rent it out? How is security and light in Sangotedo axis? I am really confused on what to do as my current rent is coming to an end. Please I need your suggestions. |
Re: Please Advise Me by olamidedivotee(f): 2:10pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
I read everything you wrote, and I understand you very well, what I will advise you to do is to check the next comment. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by ahnie: 2:40pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Ok. Please check the next comment below mine 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by yomi007k(m): 2:49pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
You have the following options; 1. Pay N.1.2 millon for the 3BR in Ogudu. 2. Move to Sangotedo and readjust your life with the traffic situation. 3. Move to a cheaper apartment type e.g 1 BR,2BR. 4. Make more money. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by Kajaard: 2:53pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
BornToSucced: You want to live in Sangotedo and continue your work in Ikoyi? I laugh in swahili. I hope you are ready for the stress from traffic and the ill health both physically and mentally that will occur? You better renew your Ogudu rent or look for a cheaper accommodation on the mainland. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advise Me by Biglittlelois(f): 2:58pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Must you live in a 3 bedroom flat if you are not a married man with kids? There are cheaper houses at Lekki for a room and parlour, go for it. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 3:09pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
yomi007k: Many thanks for your suggestions. I appreciate 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 3:10pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:Thanks Ma. I appreciate |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 3:11pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Kajaard: Many thanks. The traffic has been my major concern. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 4:35pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
From lekki to Ajah under bridge is 2hour journey nowadays. Not to talk of Ikoyi to Sangotedo. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by Kobojunkie: 6:10pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
BornToSucced:You didn't bother to check this before you rented a place in the area? |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 8:39pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I didn’t rent, I bought a flat there. |
Re: Please Advise Me by Kobojunkie: 8:41pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
BornToSucced:You bought a flat without checking the area to know if it is suitable for you? Well, I don't know what to say. I typically don't buy things without doing thorough investigation of my own is what. |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 12:54pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
More suggestions please |
Re: Please Advise Me by frozen70(f): 1:01pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: If you are ready to leave home by 4am daily, including the risk, and you will save some money from the rent in sango Calculate all together. If you are not saving up to 200k by relocating to Sango. Just remain in Ogudu and look for houses around the neighborhoods Living in a cheap house or area, paying more on transport is not a good idea Besides, you didn't mention if you are a family man with children or not |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 5:25pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
frozen70: Thanks. I am not married. The reason I want to move to Sangotedo is that, I took a loan to buy the 2 units of 3 bedroom apartment and I want to reduce my expense on rent by moving into the apartment. Beside, the estate is a good estate with Mobile Police security and I drive too. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 5:56pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Assumptabeke(f): 6:01pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
You work in Ikoyi and you want to reside in Sangotedo?....Why not move to areas like Sabo Alagomeji, Yaba or even Onike. Transport will be cheaper and you're less likely to experience traffic on your way to and back from the office. You can even get a 2/3 bedroom apartment within your rent budget. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 6:04pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Klass99: Thanks dear. Your response is motivating. Yes, the road construction is causing heavy traffic. Do you reside along that axis? 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 6:06pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 6:09pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Threads like this tickle me because I’m mentally trying to imagine what the distance is, this one everybody is shaking head for you. OP I want to ask why didn’t you purchase the apartment in an area closer to your job but I suppose I already know what the answer is. Anyway congratulations and good luck. Consider that you would need to be paying back the loan on the apartment while also paying rent if you choose to live somewhere else. Look at your finances and decide accordingly. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:10pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: 1. Why do you have a three bedroom apartment as a single man? 2. If traffic is/was a concern, you wouldn't think of relocating to Sangotedo; that's frying pan to fire. 3. I rather buy a house to live in or resell than rent. Except you want it as a steady income for life. If you want to rent the Sangotedo house, then negotiate with your landlord or more to a room and parlour (more advised). 4. If you want to do Sangotedo, then get ready for the serious traffic to & fro, the wear & tear on your body and car, quality of life, productivity etc. Goodluck. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by AutoChick4U(f): 6:24pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced:That journey and stress aint worth it cos y'all definitely shorten your life span. You can get a cheaper accommodation close to ur workplace and simply rent out d house in sango at least its a good investment. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Klass99(f): 6:25pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 6:32pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Klass99:Okay. I now have one neighbour |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:34pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: You both would be hi fiving in traffic With time, you will be used to it. |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 6:35pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
cococandy: Thank you. I am happy you know the bolded. Your last point is why I am strategizing to reduce my rent expense. For those that ask why I didn't get an apartment closer to my workplace, I just couldn't afford it at this time. I am a start up |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:36pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Klass99: @bold: Very true though. What you get in proximity to the office, you lose in facilities and amenities with ridiculous prices. God help us in Lagos o! |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:37pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: But you can get a smaller apartment cheaper than your current rent. Except you use all three rooms? |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 6:39pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne: |
Re: Please Advise Me by BornToSucced(m): 6:43pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne: I can't find a cheaper apartment where I currently live. I think my current apartment is even cheaper compared to other compound in the area. I use the 3 rooms......... |
Re: Please Advise Me by bukatyne(f): 6:46pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
BornToSucced: Brother mi, hi-five pelu klass ninu traffic lo sure ju |
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