cooooooks:
In her parents' house. Where are her parents?



Lool. You want to scar the "poor boy" for life.

cramps is no body's mate. Thank God my family members know say I lazy wella. Any body wey try this one eh

Plead:

Why would you expect them to contribute financially when you don't do house chores or cook? This is the problem I have with most hypocritical folks these days. Y'all want to be traditional and liberal at the same time.
Just pick one part, if you're liberal then find a liberal woman and live a liberal life.

Don't say you don't want to do house chores or cook because you're a traditional person but you want your wife to assist you with bills (which is untraditional).

Fuckthamods:

Lucky you... The ones like her are 1 in a million. Make sure you love her, but her ordering you to the kitchen shouldn't be overlooked. Thanks

and the person behind this moniker may not be older than 23 but sure, he has an opinion on how a man should treat his wife.

Lollittaa:

that's the delusion with which these NL alpha male narcissists deceive themselves. They want a traditional wife with Liberal mindsets.

Amalekki:
Not managing situations like this with sense and love is the reason why we hear stories of some rich guys blanking out cousins/family members. You never know what happened in the past when they were still in their formative years and forced to rely on family members. I just hope the OP is not capitalising on her cousin's situation to 'cut him down to size' just for her own satisfaction since his own immediate family are currently struggling. I say this because I have seen this play out in the past within my extended family.

Lollittaa:

and the person behind this moniker may not be older than 23 but sure, he has an opinion on how a man should treat his wife.

Lollittaa:

that's the delusion with which these NL alpha male narcissists deceive themselves. They want a traditional wife with Liberal mindsets.

cooooooks:
Ding ding ding.

These alpha guys should know that they are heading for early death with the stress they bring on themselves.

Imagine wanting to be in 100% charge in this modern day. School fees and rent alone go give you hypertension.

The worst, as a brother to sisters and friend of ladies, these guys are mediocre toasters who have no game and just say weird stuff like "baby, you know I like you"; five minutes after meeting a gyal. Mtchew

pocohantas:


You are getting me wrong. If one person has to cook, it would most likely be me. Not him. He Nothing wrong with my mindset.



Isn’t it?

wunmi590:


At least you know how to clean, some slayqueen don't know what it is even called, but they would be the first to request for pounded yam

cococandy:


You just assumed the girl can’t get rich too?

Xtupid stereotype

MSGAMBLE9:
when a woman calls dude "real men", then know you are a "Big Wimp"...


Nonsense.

sharone21:

Wrongest mentality... Women even see men who help out a lot as being more sexy...
Funny enough na men of no class usually carry this issue of helping women for head.
Real men don't argue this even when they are the BREAD WINNERS.

Kobojunkie:
Why do you believe males can only learn from males? That very myopic thinking is part reason why the monkey probably ended up an eejit to begin with.

Bluette:

I addressed the OPs concern. I never mentioned males learn from males, try to read in between the lines and not just vomit out your hate. The OP's mother couldn't talk with him, neither is the cousin learning by what he saw the mother doing.
Then the question is How can he be convinced that the male child can help with chores? By seeing other males doing it. It's a simple logic. The cousin mother failed in that aspect, and now he's in a strange environment and he brought his mindset with him. He isn't a baby you can beat or continuously shout at. He's a mature man. So he learns by watching and through counselling. Btw I'm a woman and am not apologetic with what I commented. I have a friend like that, all his life, his mother does most work, but his views changed when he went to live with his brother, he saw his brother helping the wife and kids, he learnt through that and was able to ask some deep questions from his brother. He saw the same gender as his, doing what he considered an abomination. He was shocked and he spoke up and was counselled. Simple. If he continuously see the girl child doing the work, please what change will that bring...nothing. He has been seeing it since inception. So I know what I'm talking about. Thanks.

Kobojunkie:
What you term simple logic is actually sexist enabling of the problem. He already looks down on women as it is. So,if he chooses not to learn from Op and her OP, he could easily be sent back to his parents for them to either reprogram him or handle him on their own.