Candidlady:
Hmmmm


you stabbed someone to death cuz of "argument"

how do people stay in a toxic relationship? Asin it baffles me!

i rather have a monkey pet than date any man be you rich/poor/handsome/ugly/short gbola/long gbola/fair/dark/short/tall.

rest in peace BAW

lilvicky68:
But snake and monkeys don't go together..

Candidlady:


lmao!

me as a snake wil gel with a monkey

you "guys" are just something else! Cant imagine a guy layin his finger on me!

Candidlady:


lmao!

my own snake wil gel with a monkey

you "guys" are just something else! Cant imagine a guy layin his finger on me!

Candidlady:
Hmmmm


you stabbed someone to death cuz of "argument"

how do people stay in a toxic relationship? Asin it baffles me!

i rather have a monkey pet than date any man be you rich/poor/handsome/ugly/short gbola/long gbola/fair/dark/short/tall.

rest in peace BAW

Candidlady:
Hmmmm


you stabbed someone to death cuz of "argument"

how do people stay in a toxic relationship? Asin it baffles me!

i rather have a monkey pet than date any man be you rich/poor/handsome/ugly/short gbola/long gbola/fair/dark/short/tall.

rest in peace BAW

UndauntedYOCA:


Lol, about 5 years ago, I saw a post perhaps on Facebook from a guy who needed 'advice' on behalf of his friend, his friend and his fiancée had had a bit of altercation and the friend slapped her, the lady quit the relationship and left.
Now, the friend told his mum what happened and the mum told him that the woman wouldn't make a good wife simply because she couldn't take 'small correction slap', ah!!! Which one be correction slap now? The friend decided not to apologize and his mum saw nothing wrong even though he could have been the one at fault.
In 100 level, my roommates and I were having a discussion on violence in relationships when my bunkmate decided to gist us about someone she knew. These guys were engaged to be married in about a month or so. On one of the visits to her fiancé's place and while doing the dishes, she broke a mug, his favourite mug
She told him what happened when he arrived from his workplace and the next thing he did was to slap her! She removed the engagement ring, dropped it, removed her slippers, dusted them and left him for good. He went to apologize but she never went back to him.
I had a.floormate in 100 level back then who loved a certain guy I knew, we were all in 100 level o but this guy dey beat am steady, he'd embarrass her and do all sorts but na she go still dey beg and buy him gifts, chai! They were together for more than a year sha. I don't know if they broke up or not and I didn't bother asking her, the guy was an acquaintance of mine but I always advised her to leave the guy, she no gree listen. Omo, she go sit down dey cry everytime.
Some people just don't know how to leave toxic relationships.
I might be wrong or not entirely right but I'd like to believe that for some people, they become so clingy and desperate to be loved as well as stay in toxic relationships because they don't love themselves.
Some aren't from loving homes and they're badly affected and seek love and validation from people even if they're abusive.
Some people think they don't deserve love and so when they're in one, they become too attached no matter what goes on in the relationship.
Some stay in toxic relationships because some find it difficult starting afresh, especially the ones who have become so abused to point of it resulting in low self-esteem.
If you know much about narcissistic people, you'll know they're tricky individuals who know how to manipulate their lovers or victims into believing they're the real problem and not them. A narcissistic person might say something like ' you know I love you but you just have a way of making me lose my mind... Why do you like to frustrate me? I've warned you not to question me, warned you not to do this/where this/ say this..." Etc. They have a way of pushing projectintt their true thoughts and identity on people/lovers.
Some people stay because the people they're with are dangerous and might harm them if they try to leave.


The society also has a way of making some people stay in toxic relationships and by society, I mean friends, family members etc. Sometimes they aren't aware of the turbulence that exists in the relationship though.

Some stay because they believe they can't exist independently, some stay because of social status, what they have to gain. I read about a lady who was being beaten by her man and every time he did that, he'd apologize with a bigger or better gift than the last time he beat her. She was afraid to leave because he had rented a store for her mum, her sibling was in a private university courtesy of her darling abuser.
Some stay because they have absolutely no one or place to go back to.
There are numerous reasons I believe some people stay but I'll stop here biko.

Siggynigeria:
If it's not Kenya or SA, where else will it happen...

Siggynigeria:
If it's not Kenya or SA, where else will it happen...

Siggynigeria:
If it's not Kenya or SA, where else will it happen...

lkillbrokehoes:
Acting like Nigerians don't do worst, nonsense

Hintona:


Yes. Nigerian men do worse.

Anyway it's 'worse' not 'worst'