You better know that she doesn't care about how you feel or if the relationship works or not. Such kind of girls doesn't put the future into consideration. So many of them have lost good men because of this. It's a sign of desperation and just to tie the nut their problem. Girls like this hardly make good home.

So if any man is ready to marry them they jump into it without any consideration. Such marriage doesn't last or comes with too many problem.

Making sense somehow sha

It's funny what guys are going through just to get laid, this same sex I'm running from.
This life no balance o

Oga my wife and I abstained from sex till after our traditional and wedding... We have no regrets. @ the person below, I dey bang am for atleast forty five minutes each time and she dey cum steady... Na her testimony and my own I share so.

Afamsi:
Oga my wife and I abstained from sex till after our traditional and wedding... We have no regrets

you are not not we.

This life no balance.

What is in sex? I can't understand.

amzee:
CONDOMS ARE FOR SMALL BOYS.


REAL MEN ARE PROTECTED BY GOD

Na so....For future,hope you no go come create thread for nairaland to begin solicit for help on how to buy diapers for your unwanted baby cha

Sonnobax15:
Na so....For future,hope you no go come create thread for nairaland to begin solicit for help on how to buy diapers for your unwanted baby cha

Man is ready anytime,anyday and anywhere.
As long as there is God,wetin mama and baby go chop no go hard us.

Everyone is now a marriage counsellor and a relationship coach ....It looks like relationship is now a one way traffic.. if it doesn't work out for MR A, It is compulsory it will not work out for MR B.

Many waited and they are happy for it and vice versa. Knowing how to discern is the most important thing.

If all women decide to open their thighs for all the men that came to propose relationship or marriage, there would be no woman left in this world with a presentable private part. In fact, your (own) woman's private would be as wide as a septic tank.

When a woman says no to sex, just know that a man somewhere is good with that decision. You're angry but someone somewhere is happy with her decision to keep a low or zero body count

Just say you're looking for sex


Relationship coach isonu

So what’s your opinion on body count?
To have or not to have?
Because you sound very confused.
Do you want women to sleep with any man that comes their way just to make y’all happy but at the same are upset because women are having sex?

fineboynl:

You better know that she doesn't care about how you feel or if the relationship works or not. Such kind of care doesn't out the future into consideration. So many of them have lost a good men before of this. It's a sign of desperation and just to tie the nut their problem. Girls this hardly make good home.

So if any man is ready to marry them they jump into it without any consideration. Such marriage doesn't last or comes with too many problem.

cococandy:
So what’s your opinion on body count?
To have or not to have?
Because you sound very confused.
Do you want women to sleep with any man that comes their way just to make y’all happy but at the same are upset because women are having sex?

lol. It’s called blackmail. Blackmailing a brother to marry you is nothing but desperation. How do girls expect a man the met to marry them just like that. If marriage is that easy why they are not married before getting to 30.

fineboynl:
lol. It’s called blackmail. Blackmailing a brother to marry you is nothing but desperation. How do girls expect a man the met to marry them just like that. If marriage is that easy why they are not married before getting to 30.

So what’s your opinion on body count then?
Answer

cococandy:


So what’s your opinion on body count then?
Answer

they already have body count. Nothing is there anymore. What do you expect from 28 years old girls who started having sex at 14.

fineboynl:
they already have body count. Nothing is there anymore. What do you expect from 28 years old girls who started having sex at 14.

Well that’s xtupid no offense. It is asinine to believe that because a woman has had consensual sexual relationships with someone before you, they must say yes to you as well. Having sex does not mean she has no right over her body anymore and must agree to everyone who comes her way.

It’s your entitlement and ego speaking when you believe that if someone else got a yes, then you deserve a yes as well. She doesn’t owe you her body.

Which leads me to ask, why are you interested in them if there’s nothing there anymore? Do you not like yourself?

If you can’t have a relationship without sex, find a woman who is okay with sleeping with you. There are thousands.

Don’t be fixated on the one who said no just because you believe you’re entitled to it.

cococandy:


Well that’s xtupid no offense. It’s is asinine to believe that because a woman has had consensual sexual relationships with someone before you, they must say yes to you as well. Having sex does not mean she has no right over her body anymore and must agree to everyone who comes her way.

It’s your entitlement and ego speaking when you believe that if someone else got a yes, then you deserve a yes as well. She doesn’t owe you her body.

Which leads me to ask, why are you interested in them if there’s nothing there anymore? Do you not like yourself?

If you can’t have a relationship without sex, find a woman who is okay with sleeping with you. There are thousands.

Don’t be fixated on the one who said no just because you believe you’re entitled to it.

I'm not entitled to it and sex means nothing to me, I am one of the few men who don't see sex to be anything. Maybe we are lucky. It better they say I don't want to have sex and I will take it that way, other than I must marry them before sex. Who does that? Definitely not mean. They are old newpaper which are use for akara and aboki suya. And theyshould be paying men to date them not the otherway round. They are much more younger women to date if it's sex.

fineboynl:
I'm not entitled to it and sex means nothing to me, I am one of the few men who don't see sex to be anything. Maybe we are lucky. It better they say I don't want to have sex and I will take it that way, other than I must marry them before sex. Who does that? Definitely not mean. They are old newpaper which are use for akara and aboki suya. And theyshould be paying men to date them not the otherway round . They are much more younger women to date if it's sex.

You saw all that, knew all that and still went for them. Why?
Your only disappointment is because you figured they would be easy to bed but that didn’t work out how you planned, hence your complaints.

cococandy:


You saw all that, knew all that and still went for them. Why?
Your only disappointment is because you figured they would be easy to bed but that didn’t work out how you planned, hence your complaints.

lol. Like as I said it not about the sex. Not every guy is crazy over sex. But the act to blackmail some one with it is to lame. For a person like me it's something to make a joke out from. I am older and sometimes find myself taking to old lady as well. And this act is so common with them. It's not because they are decent it holy but because they want to marry

My point is if I needed sex I will go for younger women and it's very uncommon for younger women to see this.

People have standards. If you don't meet theirs, simply walk away.

I can never date or marry a woman who wants premarital sex.

Trying to blackmail women who don't want premarital sex is ridiculous. Go for your spec and stop stressing yourself. It's very easy to get your premarital sex spec, go into a brothel and get one.

But if you didn’t need sex, their decision to not have sex won’t bother you? Would it?

Since you’re older too, do you consider yourself old newspaper only good for wrapping akara and aboki suya? Or is that a description you only reserve for women? Why would any mature woman give you her time since that’s how low you think for them?
They can see through you and your BS

fineboynl:
lol. Like as I said it not about the sex. Not every guy is crazy over sex. But the act to blackmail some one with it is to lame. For a person like me it's something to make a joke out from. I am older and sometimes find myself taking to old lady as well. And this act is so common with them. It's not because they are decent it holy but because they want to marry

My point is if I needed sex I will go for younger women and it's very uncommon for younger women to see this.

fineboynl:
lol. Like as I said it not about the sex. Not every guy is crazy over sex. But the act to blackmail some one with it is to lame. For a person like me it's something to make a joke out from. I am older and sometimes find myself taking to old lady as well. And this act is so common with them. It's not because they are decent it holy but because they want to marry

My point is if I needed sex I will go for younger women and it's very uncommon for younger women to see this.

Stick to those who are willing to give you sex and those who are unwilling should not make you angry to the extent of creating such thread...... they lose nothing by not having sex with you, you are not their saviour.

cococandy:
But if you didn’t need sex, their decision to not have sex won’t bother you? Would it?

Since you’re older too, do you consider yourself old newspaper only good for wrapping akara and aboki suya? Or is that a description you only reserve for women? Why would any mature woman give you her time since that’s how low you think for them?
They can see through you and your BS

I cannot be a newspaper when alot of women wanted me to marry them. So I would say I am hot in the market. There a lot of men who are desperate to marry maybe such kind of girls will be lucky to find them. But one thing for sure the marriage will be a disaster waiting to happen. In my school of thought such kind of blackmail marriage is a one chance.

Ok

greenie77:


Stick to those who are willing to give you sex and those who are unwilling should not make you angry to the extent of creating such thread...... they lose nothing by not having sex with you, you are not their saviour.

it doesn't make me angry I'm only advising our men from my wealth of knowledge and understanding of women. Alot of guys don't know shit.

fineboynl:
it doesn't make me angry I'm only advising our men from my wealth of knowledge and understanding of women. Alot of guys don't know shit.

No matter a woman's body count or none, she can still say NO. A man who is uncomfortable with her NO, should keep walking like Johnnie Walker.

.

InTheCloudySky:
Omg, what did I just read? The way some of you dudes on Nairaland twist things can cause somebody's jaw to completely dislocate from their face. You will just take one thing and turn it upside down, compose nonsense and think you're actually convincing. Secondly, your attempt at arguing against a woman's personal choice for herself like it's any of your business is absurd, more so when your points are devoid of both logical and rational sense.

Thank you. I was stuck on *palm face* from beginning to end

The internet is a playground for social rejects

Double0h7:


Thank you. I was stuck on *palm face* from beginning to end

The internet is a playground for social rejects

stop