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Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by KevinDein: 9:37am On Dec 21, 2021 |
Saintmary:Lmao Babies in adult bodies can't take responsibility for anything. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by ImaIma1(f): 9:47am On Dec 21, 2021 |
Lamanii22:. Not just bad but disturbing and really hurtful. So I decided to remain a daughter inlaw instead of trying to be a daughter. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Saintmary(f): 9:58am On Dec 21, 2021 |
KevinDein: When it comes to human interaction, it's not all black and white. Lots of factors affect the outcome of a person's behavior. It can be temperament It can be environment Hardly do I see anyone who sets out to be evil in their lives, to know that what they're doing is evil and to continue doing it. I have not seen. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by ImaIma1(f): 10:50am On Dec 21, 2021 |
Lamanii22: I will follow my mum's footsteps there. She hardly ever visited. And minding her business was a skill she practiced well. If you don't involve her, she won't involve herself to avoid see finish. Sometimes it was even annoying because you would want her to say something but she'd be quiet. Two things she used to say: *She'll let us pick our spouses ourselves and marry from whatever tribe. So that we won't disturb her with our problems but solve any issue that may arise ourselves. *She doesn't sleep in inlaws houses. I want to have my own life and with my husband, and most importantly, have my own money. So that I won't make my children's families my business. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by MufasaLion: 11:18am On Dec 21, 2021 |
Saintmary: Your submission is wrong. It's full of false assumptions. Women tend to be more closer to their kids, it's natural as the father is mostly not wired to be too soft on kids. Moreover, irrespective of how much a father bond with kids, the woman will always be their emotionally for them unlike the father, hence the reason they bond more with mothers. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Saintmary(f): 11:31am On Dec 21, 2021 |
MufasaLion: My post was about the relationship and bond between a man and his wife, not the bond between the man and his kids. The bond between men and their wives are, in majority of cases, too weak. For this reason, women overcompensate by loving their kids too much. Please read slowly. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by kunmisola(f): 1:12pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
If I can come back to this world, I will choose to get married to this same family I am married into and also have the same mother-in-love. She is a selfless person who put other people's welfare ahead of hers. When I gave birth to my daughter, I had to stay with her for 9 months thereabout and if you see the way she took care of me, it is as if I came out of her bosom and even after I left to go back to my husband, she call me every single day. Mama lodidi, you are the answer to my mother's prayers for me to have a good home and a good family and I promise to be the daughter you never had. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by GboyegaD(m): 1:12pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Very possible. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Lamanii22(f): 4:08pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Hmmmm |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Lamanii22(f): 4:09pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
kunmisola: Awwwwn this is beautiful |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Kobojunkie: 4:11pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
missimelda01:I like that option better. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Saintmary:To an extent, I agree with your assertion and this because I have seen that it's typically women who are not busy in their own lives - not pursuing dreams and desires of their own - that are more prone to this typical MIL behavior. However, I don't believe it is the MILS husband to blame. A woman is a fully capable individual with complete faculties of her own |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Kobojunkie: 4:21pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
MufasaLion:The statements in bold is also a false assumption on your part. Fathers, like mothers,can too choose to forge a strong bond with their children, a bond just as powerful as that of the mother or even more. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by ImaIma1(f): 6:23pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
kunmisola: Wow! I'm teary 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Hathor5(f): 6:24pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
kunmisola: This is beautiful and inspiring. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Saintmary(f): 9:05pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Of course every human is to be accountable for his/her decisions, but if it comes to love, hmmmmm. That feeling makes us irrational. P. S. Every woman should have a life, pursuits and goals. That will mitigate the effects of these little cycles we find ourselves in. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by DonroxyII: 8:30am On Dec 22, 2021 |
Saintmary:You are Reasonable. Keep Up the vibe. God helps. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love And Not Fight Your Mother-in-law by Chiquitq(f): 6:40pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
I am happy for you. If I speak about my own mother in law experience, you would think I made it up and where you believe, you would think I am exaggerating. Maybe one day, I would write about it. |
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