Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

until everything go north na then ur eyes go clear.

That Child you are about to abort na the future president of Nigeria. Send me a mail

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

Why do you got her pregnant when you know you cannot take responsibility?
Please don't kill that innocent child.
You never can tell: he or she may be your door opener. Where is your location? I need the child.

WrittyWritter:
Y would u even be sleeping with a side chick raw?
have u not heard of std?
abi u think say na only u dey bleep her?

Agba of all Agba's don talk. twale

Mylordmygod1:
i'm still young to cary a father responsibility, i won't be able to look after her

u don high ...u hear

My humble advise: leave that pregnancy Incase of your unknown future. The stress won't kill you but will pass with time. I am still regretting mine I did previously now No baby from my wife after 6yrs of marriage. That incoming baby might be the only one God destined for you. Pls leave it and talk to God to open way for you cos of Her. quote author=Mylordmygod1 post=109247872]Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

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Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

guy u better leave the baby make him come enjoy life wen u Dey fire ur brain no tell u dat u go soon enta one chance.Na prison u go land (mad man)

I am a prophet,I have seen that the baby is an IPOBEAST and he will kill you when he grows up and becomes an Unknown Gunman just like the one that killed his father in Abia state.

So abort him quickly

YOU MUST NOT KILL!

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..
You

Lmao...so we still get side girl friend problem no dey finish...And na this side one men the like practice all fetish and weird sexual fantasies....E go dey sweet una well...And you go dey pour inside without worry na

Condom is cheap and affordable, yet ....

Oga no kill person daughter o

This one weh no gree abort, na strong person o, he/she fit be future president of Nigeria...If una kill am we will not take it...

You ignored withdrawal.

You ignored condom.

You ignored postinor within 24-72hrs , now you are asking for advice..On how to kill future Naija president abii

Try it na

Op. fear God and resent your decision. Santity of life can't be compromise, for every blood spell the soul cry on to God and the wrath of God is a consuming fire.

You are stupid and an idiot, she is your side babe, how you could not use condone , that child will hurt you, if you kill the child
.

You and the man are stupid .





Auote author=Mylordmygod1 post=109247872]Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

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Idiot you are young to carry responsibility, but you are not young, to have sex ,
Blood is already on your head.


quote author=Mylordmygod1 post=109248074]i'm still young to cary a father responsibility, i won't be able to look after her[/quote]

I don't know if you can read up to this page nevertheless let me put my story down in case you come across it.

In the year 2013 I met an old sec. School classmate, she was in a very serious relationship leading to marriage in few months time, myself was in a relationship but e no reach marriage.
She came visiting & somehow sex happened and again fheum belle don enter.. Haah she shouted killing herself for getting pregnant to a small boy who was still in his 3rd while she was already done with NYSC and getting married to an already established guy.

Well she got some abortion pills from one of her friend even when i begged her to keep it, lai lai I was going to ruin her bright future and marriage since I still have a very long way to go.
I couldn't win the argument and alas she drink the drugs ooo even put the one wey dem dey insert. This happened in November, fast forward to January belle still dey grow even after having bleeding as a result of the pills, na so sister calm down come reason with me, broke up with her fiancee and moved in with me in school (kai this love thing ever) . Initially we were scared the baby was going to be deformed and we were mentally prepared for it. The month of July we went into that labour room awaiting our fate but mercy said No
She gave birth to the most complete and prettiest baby I have wished for.
Brother today that girl child is 7yrs, healthy, so pretty, very intelligent and smart, from the day she started school, she only took 2nd once, every other times she was the top.
I tell you the truth Sir I was never ready for that child but I loved her even when I have not seen her, we went through hell to bring that child up, I lost the very sweet love from my family (mom & dad ) I almost dropped out of school if not for the little savings she had then cuz my parents withdrew their support.

Today Sir everything has changed. I'm a graduate Arc. We're both married now with 3kids, the good news is that The Lord just gave us a bouncing baby boy last night. We living comfortably and ok. Those who said we will never make it congratulated me on our wedding day, the day I dedicated my car and my kids. My mom don't joke with us now, a day without her hearing from us is a day wasted for her. Jesus did this for us, He's still changing lives.

Don't let anyone talk you down, let your love for your unborn child be your strength. As for the lady who is your supposed side chick, life has a way of arranging destiny especially when you are specially loved by God. Hold unto God, mercy will say no

Righteousness2:
Abortion is Evil , Wickedness, abomination and Murder.

As a Servant of GOD ALMIGHTY, I warn you! Do not try it! Do not add Murder to your Fornication.

If you go ahead after this warning to do, Mark my words! IT WILL LAND U IN JAIL!

pls do not wish death for that poor girl, pray for her

Pls I can connect u to family that can take care of u

Pls I beg you, take responsibility, do the needful as in right thing. Don't endanger the life of that poor girl. See the baby as a gift from God and move on

May ur girl children have reason to practice abortion often … say amen then type it

kelz2205:


Oh!! Shut up!!

Oshey god of Ibarapa!! Giver of children and deviner of fertility..

If u don't GTFOH!!

Baby wey the girl never born … easy nah .
I can’t accept a child just like that sef.. I must know if the father is not a cultist , drug user , internet fraudster and other info

1Sharon:


Can he bring the baby to you?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What's wrong with you tho?
Keep the baby and don't abort it..
Why on Earth would you wanna abort a baby..

That baby is already deformed, they tried aborting (medically) before

Bakakeyz:



That baby is already deformed, they tried aborting (medically) before

I do understand tho..

KIDfurniture:
If you succeed with this plan of yours.. I promise u this u will never hear the sound of a new baby in your house hold ever again.

You will never have one again in this life.

When you were fornicating you didn’t think it would lead to pregnancy abi. Walai u willl never have one again

Abeg ee this is too much, life doesn't always work that way will you help him cater for the one is about to abort now?

side gfrd?not real gfrd?and avin unprotected sex with her?what a stupid thing to do!how are u sure the foetus is not already deformed?keeping it is a risk just as aborting it is a bigger risk!this shuld av bn done by a qualified gyny at an early stage!!

Nigerians are too emotional when it comes to abortions always failing to think outside the box.

OP it is quite risky to abort a pregnancy at 4 months in Nigeria if you wanted to have an abortion why didn't you both do it earlier?

As long as no one here telling you not to abort the pregnancy has given you a practicable solution they have no right to condemn you, na who wear the shoe know where e dey pain am

Laws are not always moral abortions occur almost every day in Nigeria the government should be realistic like Benin republic and legalise it instead of subjecting women to the hands of quacks

ariesbull:
don't go and commit murder... It is called infanticide


Stop it r

Go and learn the meaning of infanticide, it only happens when a baby has been born (infanticide) not while it is in the womb. Abortion is not infanticide.

Going through the thread the advice given to the OP were just given out of sentiments and nothing practicable

If you can not take care of kids don't have them and bring them into this world to suffer

Gospel2Day:
How Satan makes human beings this heartless and wicked is beyond me.
You want to kill a living soul because you were irresponsibly sharing your community peni.s with everything in skirts.
See, there is a possibility that you will end up killing two humans tomorrow, both the unborn baby and your sidechick.
Why not accept the consequences of your sinful pleasure seeking and man up to your responsibility and take care of the pregnancy?
A generation of murderers can kill anything and anyone for their convenience.
It is such a shame.
You have to repent and confess the sin of even attempting to kill the unborn foetus before using drugs.
What a godless set of humans!

But abortions didn't start today so why are you blaming this generation?

Provide a practicable solution for them and stop the condemnation.

1Sharon:


In normal countries abortion is actually a safe procedure. It's safer than having a baby.

Nigeria is not a normal country.See them shouting don't abort but abortion occurs daily in a country where it is supposed to be illegal.

Country of hypocrites.

Leonbonapart:
God have mercy on your lost miserable soul

Hmmmm

FreelanceRebel:


My mother attempt to abort me, some 30 years ago but failed. now I am her caregiver.
Don't give bloody advice.

A friend of mine died....he got his girlfriend pregnant and was forced to keep the baby,he doubled his hustle and started okada work...he had an accident 6months after the child was born and he lost his life.

30years ago is not today...ur mother will throw you away with the way things are dis days,care giver kor

Ladyhippolyta88:


Go and learn the meaning of infanticide, it only happens when a baby has been born (infanticide) not while it is in the womb. Abortion is not infanticide.

cool yourself

ariesbull:
cool yourself

Abortion isn't infanticide, take the correction and move on no need to attach what doesn'concern me to your reply.

Abortions will continue to happen until the right things are put in place to reduce a need for it and even at that abortions will still happen for medical reasons too