Goodevening nairalanders. please I got this issue really disturbing me.
My boss wife, came to the work place and told our secretary(female) to please help tell her about the husbands activities at work. That she thinks she is losing her husband. Infact she was close to tears. she complained that her husband comes late every night, that he doesn't have time for her and her kids anymore. Infact she is done been spiritual, that she wants to go physical. she wanted the secretary to be her eyes and ears in the company. but we all leave by 5 after work. just our boss most times stays back. the secretary been close to me came for my advice today. honestly I told her to stay off the case. what's your advice if you were in my shoe

Stay off for she might loose her job for the wife must surely use her to make settlement with her husband

What if the secretary is the husband’s side chick?

To whom brain is given, wisdom is required...

Nebes:
What if the secretary is the husband’s side chick?

Exactly what on my mind

Adjustment will be the steps on the matter

In a case like this, if I am in your shoe this is an opportunity to increase my salary by agreeing i will keep an eagle eyes on her husband.

First of all I will use her complains against her by telling her husband she wants to eliminate him and take over he's business .

There for if he wants to leave to see another day, he should increase my salary so that I can protect him

Totilopussylick:
In a case like this, if I am in your shoe this is an opportunity to increase my salary by agreeing i will keep an eagle eyes on her husband.

First of all I will use her complains against her by telling her husband she wants to eliminate him and take over he's business .

There for if he wants to leave to see another day, he should increase my salary so that I can protect him

You've been watching too many thrillers

Totilopussylick:
In a case like this, if I am in your shoe this is an opportunity to increase my salary by agreeing i will keep an eagle eyes on her husband.

First of all I will use her complains against her by telling her husband she wants to eliminate him and take over he's business .

There for if he wants to leave to see another day, he should increase my salary so that I can protect him

lol.. guy you harsh oh

Nebes:
What if the secretary is the husband’s side chick?

exactly what I told the secertary .I told her to withdraw from the whole issue. its a two edged sword. Infact the wife to my boss could also be suspecting her and other ladies

Some women and mumu sense


She de send no one suspect

Biko let her stay off. If madam calls her, she should not sound unkind o...rather concernly say she closes and leaves by 5pm because she has a commitment to be somewhere by 5:30 every day...so she didnt see a thing. I deliberately added the bit about being somewhere everythday so madam wont try to get her to stay longer. Let her do her sleuthing by herself biko.

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sisisioge:
Biko let her stay off. If madam calls her, she should not sound unkind o...rather concernly say she closes and leaves by 5pm because she has a commitment to be somewhere by 5:30 every day...so she didnt see a thing. I deliberately added the bit about being somewhere everythday so madam wont try to get her to stay longer. Let her do her sleuthing by herself biko.

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Tell that secretary lady to mind her business...

She is paid to be a secretary not a spy ...

The secretary is the principal suspect .... Any shaking ... She's gone

dawnomike:
To whom brain is given, wisdom is required...

yes o

You gave her the best advice. She should stay off husband and wife affairs.
But I doubt if the secretary would listen to you. Females let's their emotions clouds their judgment most times

donleo92:
Goodevening nairalanders. please I got this issue really disturbing me.
My boss wife, came to the work place and told our secretary(female) to please help tell her about the husbands activities at work. That she thinks she is losing her husband. Infact she was close to tears. she complained that her husband comes late every night, that he doesn't have time for her and her kids anymore. Infact she is done been spiritual, that she wants to go physical. she wanted the secretary to be her eyes and ears in the company. but we all leave by 5 after work. just our boss most times stays back. the secretary been close to me came for my advice today. honestly I told her to stay off the case. what's your advice if you were in my shoe

One day, my former boss called me into his office and gave me a list of things to buy and dispatch to his numerous girlfriends. His friend was in his office with him and jokingly exclaimed "Ishi, so you are aiding and encouraging him??"

I replied "Sir, I see nothing, hear nothing and say nothing."

Tell the secretary the same thing. She is there to work, not intervene in the marital affairs of her boss.

Ishilove:

One day, my former boss called me into his office and gave me a list of things to buy and dispatch to his numerous girlfriends. His friend was in his office with him and jokingly exclaimed "Ishi, so you are aiding and encouraging him??"

I replied "Sir, I see nothing, hear nothing and say nothing."

Tell the secretary the same thing. She is there to work, not intervene in the marital affairs of her boss.

I was once in this same situation. I told the lady point blank that I will never be a catalyst of destruction in their home.

Ishilove:

One day, my former boss called me into his office and gave me a list of things to buy and dispatch to his numerous girlfriends. His friend was in his office with him and jokingly exclaimed "Ishi, so you are aiding and encouraging him??"

I replied "Sir, I see nothing, hear nothing and say nothing."

Tell the secretary the same thing. She is there to work, not intervene in the marital affairs of her boss.

you see nothing, hear nothing, and say nothing. Tell us you you received nothing like tips from him as well.

pocohantas:

No joke. This man has a new girl every other day. I kid you not

Ishilove:

One day, my former boss called me into his office and gave me a list of things to buy and dispatch to his numerous girlfriends. His friend was in his office with him and jokingly exclaimed "Ishi, so you are aiding and encouraging him??"

I replied "Sir, I see nothing, hear nothing and say nothing."

Tell the secretary the same thing. She is there to work, not intervene in the marital affairs of her boss.

How were you able to dispatch those things especially when u saw Nothing

Richy4:



How were you able to dispatch those things especially when u saw Nothing

Addresses and phone numbers

Stay clear of what is not your primary duty.

What will she do on finding out? Check who you want to marry before accepting his proposal to avoid all this type of stress.Don't mind her @op ,never participate in any form of separation between couples

Ishilove:

Addresses and phone numbers

donleo92:
Goodevening nairalanders. please I got this issue really disturbing me.
My boss wife, came to the work place and told our secretary(female) to please help tell her about the husbands activities at work. That she thinks she is losing her husband. Infact she was close to tears. she complained that her husband comes late every night, that he doesn't have time for her and her kids anymore. Infact she is done been spiritual, that she wants to go physical. she wanted the secretary to be her eyes and ears in the company. but we all leave by 5 after work. just our boss most times stays back. the secretary been close to me came for my advice today. honestly I told her to stay off the case. what's your advice if you were in my shoe

Don't do so. I was once in ur shoes. If she ask u, tell her u don't know.

If she backfires on y'all she won't be there to have your back or support you. Better stay out of it and face the work you're there to do.

Just tell her you close by a particular time and you are not privileged to know his movement thereafter

Richy4:
Maybe I'm over thinking it....But I think the wife is indirectly warning the secretary to stay away....That she's done doing it spiritual but will do it physical...But she didn't get it.

That could be true sha.
Kinda like appointing a possible thief the watchman.
Reminds me of when my sister always went late to school, they had to make her the gate prefect.

Mariangeles:


That could be true sha.
Kinda like appointing a possible thief the watchman.
Reminds me of when my sister always went late to school, they had to make her the gate prefect.

The principal was very wise..I can just imagine your Sister's face when her name was called. It must be really priceless to watch.. not to talk of all her friend's laughter at the Assembly.