snowdrops:

call him. maybe he is the shy type.

Scash:

no snowdrops, i dnt think hes d shy type. Besides, he hasnt given me his no, we still on d fb level

snowdrops:

this is the 21st century girls. making a move on a guy does not mean you are cheap or bugging him. there is nothing unlady like in that.

you can send a brief mail, like hi. and see what happens.

sweety saying hi aint bad but obviously the poster wants more than that after all I my self I'm a feminist and seriously abeg don't misquote me where did I say it was unladylike? I knew someone will misquote me, I have existed among enough males old and young to know that most times making the big move is not such a bright idea, then fine She should state what she feels, I mean she should ask him why he's like that, I had a friend who was like that too and I sent him an email ASP i told him I was gonna delete him from my friends cos I was tired of being the one to initiate conversations, So poster send him a mail and try to know what's up

Natasha,,:

^^he doesn't love her

snowdrops:

thats harsh. they only txt for th first time yesterday.

really, but he doesn't I wanted to clear out something now, some people always comment after misunderstanding the poster she didn't say the guy loves her

snowdrops:

1. there wasno reason for you to mention love first of all as it is uncalled for.
2. why are you now questioning OP rationale for starting the thread? you are turning the debate on its head.
3. this is not an argument. dont get worked up unnecessarily

lmao snow its obvious you are the one getting worked up, Dave said if the guy truly loves her he would text  clearly he misunderstood the poster all I was trying to do was to make him understand and you decided to take it upon your self  

Scash:

d guy dosnt love me. Hell, i dnt even think he likes me, maybe indifferent. Wld send a 'Hi' and crosss my fingers,

Scash:

d guy dosnt love me. Hell, i dnt even think he likes me, maybe indifferent. Wld send a 'Hi' and crosss my fingers,

Scash:

d guy dosnt love me. Hell, i dnt even think he likes me, maybe indifferent. Wld send a 'Hi' and crosss my fingers,

Natasha,,:

lmao snow its obvious you are the one getting worked up, Dave said if the guy truly loves her he would text  clearly he misunderstood the poster all I was trying to do was to make him understand and you decided to take it upon your self  

snowdrops:

so you mean, he has to call her everyday to show he is not disinterested

gosh like seriously duh, don't push it, Dave made a statement and I was putting him on track Jeez  and please just end it cos you keep misunderstanding me , I said he doesn't love her does that mean he can't love her in the future??  just allow the car to pass before you cross the road 

Natasha,,:

gosh like seriously duh, don't push it, Dave made a statement and I was putting him on track Jeez  and please just end it cos you keep misunderstanding me , I said he doesn't love her does that mean he can't love her in the future??  just allow the car to pass before you cross the road 

snowdrops:

@ Natasha,,

everybody is different. so is every friendship/relationship. what worked for you may spell disaster for another.

i am only wishing this does not turn out to be the best boyfriend OP never had.

please guy don't take this thing to far, what I said was a normal thing for her to do I mean don't you get it? The guy doesn't know her, she added him up. and hopefully they are suppose to get chatting like friends should, now they've only talked once and Op is worried , which she shouldn't cos their friendship just started or have you forgotten there's time for everything, I didn't fall in love with my ex on one day and don't tell me about love at first sight . and yes we are having an adult discussion  

Natasha,,:

The guy doesn't know her,  

Scash:

i kinda need u guys help. Thers dis guy av lykd for quite some tym nw. We dont speak. But yesterday we did,  Via txt on fb. JUST told him i'ld love to b his friend and he was all cool about it. Said he was honored n admired my courage n dt no problem, all i needed to do was to keep in touch n he would too. Now dts wia my prob lies, i hoped he wld txt today bt obviously he was waitin for me to do so. One, dnt knw aw to do dt without going lower than i already av. Two, i dnt even knw wt to say,  Do u get? So pls ideas. I like dis guy diiieee