My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

Did you beat her?if yes then I don't blame her parents for hiding her from you.

Why did you marry at the first place?
Compare when you were a bachelor and now.
The stress in relationship is too much. Talk more of having a bad day at work only to come home and meet someone frowning her face.
I no fit marry abeg

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Still trying to figure out what"Craching" means...


And lest I forget, Mr Nacoss25, let me take you back to a thread you created on 29th June, 2021

https://www.nairaland.com/6625830/how-discipline-wife-disrespecting-me

Everything has its own breaking point. Even rubbers too have elastic limits.

u for stay as bachelor.

Iyaebe:
Did you beat her?if yes then I don't blame her parents from hiding her from you.

noise!

Jeon:


u for stay as bachelor.

noise!

Op is it craching or crashing....this your noise they somehw.

Hmmm

This marriage has been replete with complaints from the get-go.

Are there no family members or elders living around you?

Find mature people (couples) around to counsel you...

Do not make social media people your inlaws...

Come and be giving us half-baked stories. Mtchew.

Iyaebe:
Did you beat her?if yes then I don't blame her parents for hiding her from you.

O.P answer this question.

From your previous posts, you started complaining about the marriage very, very early.
I think both of you need to sit and talk.
Early stage of marriage is not always easy, but if you and your wife work together, you will overcome the challenges and have a happy marriage.

Gradually crashing doesn't mean it has crashed.
You can still save your marriage. But you can't do it alone.

It takes two people to make a marriage work. If one party isn't interested, the other party should move on.

This is the guy who locked his wife out of their apartment and slept at a hotel while she spent the night on a bench lol! Your pettiness has finally paid. Don't forget it was you who paid her bride price and paid for the wedding so she has nothing to lose. I hope she teaches you a lesson you'll never forget! I hope she keeps the shop and bags herself a thug for protection

Very incomplete story!!!

First question: wetin you do wey make her run?
Second question: how old is your wife?
Third question: na this be the first time wey she dey leave house?
Fourth question: how peaceful was your home?

If you fit answer all these questions, I go give you reply on what to do next.

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

From your previous threads I can clearly see why your wife left you.

https://www.nairaland.com/6625830/how-discipline-wife-disrespecting-me

Your wife knows you are a foolish hegoat. She only married you because of the small change you had. So did you beat her this time around or what

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually craching.
I and my wife some issues 2 weeks ago and ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

GOD is trying hard to save you but you still want to die, give that woman space and try to find out what they're hiding

Iyaebe:
Did you beat her?if yes then I don't blame her parents for hiding her from you.

Never you listen or quote this idiot

This not easy to accept but many guys think they can control and tell women what to do.
Unfortunately the girls are no longer dumb and stupid but far smarter now.

Op u need to work on urself b4 having her back in ur house.
My candid advice

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually craching.
I and my wife some issues 2 weeks ago and ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

I had like to hear from your wife because from findings you have not been providing for her, you abuse her and you are always arguing with her over little things

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually craching.
I and my wife some issues 2 weeks ago and ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

What exactly do you intend for us to do with this?

Iyaebe:
Did you beat her?if yes then I don't blame her parents for hiding her from you.

I did not lay my hands on her neither did chase her away

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually craching.
I and my wife some issues 2 weeks ago and ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

You have still not told us the real reason why she left home and is hiding from you

Nacoss25:

I did not lay my hands on her neither did chase her away

Then sort yourselves out,you should try resolving issues without parental Interference.

that one na your problem

That woman suppose don run leave you since na .. abi you don forget how you lock her outside,she slept @d bench all night while you Dey hotel.. let the marriage end make una both rest.

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually craching.
I and my wife some issues 2 weeks ago and ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

This your grammar alone can crash your Marriage.

Omo I'm not married so I deem myself unfit to advice you .

Are you going to pretend that you did not lock your wife out and force her to sleep outside on a bench while you were enjoying a bed in an air-conditioned room?

Hmmm after reading all your other posts of books of lamentation about your marriage, I can boldly say that your marriage ended long ago. For example, you knew that your wife love skimpy dress, even from the wedding pictures u posted here, It could be seen that she wore a skimpy dress under the wedding gown, all I have to say to you is this,

If the marriage ain't working out, just let it go, don't force it, before you go vex kill her one day or she vex poison you, you both ain't compatible