Hi all
Am currently dating a younger guy,but my Conscious is telling me other wise I mean am only 5years older than him,is it that bad

No its not bad. How old are you and how old is the guy ?

That will not be bad at all; provided d guy is serious.

age is jst number okay is not a sin atoll

Am 30 and he's 25 and thanks for the reply

No its not a sin. He's a full blown adult by 25 yrs old. Hope ure not training him too much on the bed.

Lollook on the bright side atleast he will be gaining some experience

Lucky bastard

No its not, when it comes to love nothing is bad it just it would not look good between the 2 of you.

What matters most is what you guys feel for each other.

you are asking if its a sin not based on moral aspect of the r/ship but solely based on the age?

My sister,

don't let anyone deceive you. you know what you are doing is wrong, that is why you asked. you are probably asking to get supporters behind you.

its bad in some sense. Ask yourself these questions

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[li]You are 30, and you know where you are heading, is he in the same frame of mind?[/li]
[li]women don't always respect anyone they know they are older than even if some months old. will you obey him if he say "site down here or there"?[/li]
[li]what is the future/plans of this relationship(marriage wise or just for fun)?[/li]
[li]Am i with him because of things that will quickly fade (handsome, hard working in bed, popular, buoyant etc)[/li]
[li]Can you honestly present him, to you parent and they will be ok that at least he's mature enough?[/li]
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When asking for advice on sensitive matters, don't ask on the Internet unless you know the person(s) individually, a good 10yrs old could as well be giving you advice and you being 30 will take it.

Thinks twice before you make silly mistakes

Peace

Yeah its important but most likely nowadays you can see couple are not at the same age, men maybe older than the women or women are older than the boy.

avosoft:

don't let anyone deceive you. you know what you are doing is wrong, that is why you asked. you are probably asking to get supporters behind you.

What planet is Avosoft from?
These are two adults: One aged 30, the other 25. What wrong with them having a relationship? She hasn't even mentioned going to bed with him. Or is that what you were against?

avosoft:

[list]
[li]You are 30, and you know where you are heading, is he in the same frame of mind?[/li]
[li]women don't always respect anyone they know they are older than even if some months old. will you obey him if he say "site down here or there"?[/li]
[li]what is the future/plans of this relationship(marriage wise or just for fun)?[/li]
[li]Am i with him because of things that will quickly fade (handsome, hard working in bed, popular, buoyant etc)[/li]
[li]Can you honestly present him, to you parent and they will be ok that at least he's mature enough?[/li]
[/list]

All these are fundamental issues to be dealt with in any relationship. It is not peculiar to this case in any way.
Would you be comfortable if the boy was older?