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Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Advocate500: 2:47pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
I no you are been economical with the truth, something happened between your wife and your biological mother and you decided to side,always bear in mind that your mother is your mother no matter what, the wife you so much love today can be your greatest enemy 2morow, find a way and make peace between your mother and your wife and find out what made your mother said what she said. Make no sense to believe that step mother is more reasonable than your biological mother. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Foreseer: 2:58pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Beremx:bro, take am easy. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Alaefulu(m): 3:01pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Omo,nawa oo things dey occur oo |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by arthurwillia(m): 3:06pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609: Lol how did you marrry somone your mum hate, you Dey motivate me aje |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by dalass(f): 3:07pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609: What you sow is what you'll reap... If you want to experience not being to visit your children/ grandchildren, then don't allow her... It's not fair to her at all |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by henryUN: 3:09pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609: The first time in my whole life, will I hear that they is such a good step mum. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by President2001(m): 3:14pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
That's red signal, please pray about it because you need to protect your family don't put your wife in Sadness |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Lazenby007(m): 3:20pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609:Becareful man! The heart of a man is very deep and deceitful. As for me,I don't know what you will do about the situation but your mother is still your mother. Your mother can't just wake up and start hating your wife. What did your wife do? Tell us first. Thank you |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Beey(f): 3:21pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609:Am not surprised that your stepmom is taking care of your wife. A lady brought her mom here in the US for the mom to help take care of her children as she was in nursing school. She said her mom would never cook or clean. She’d scatter her dirty clothes on the floor. It was one day when the lady’s husband had to fix the roof in his mother in laws room. He had a roof technician with him. Only to find dirty underwear’s all over the woman’s roof. The lady said that her mother in law was so nice and helpful but had to let her own mother return to Nigeria due to the stress the mother was causing her. Long story cut short, any woman who lacks sympathy especially after another woman has just lost a child, must be a person with a very dark heart. If your mom didn’t love and respect your wife in the past, is it now that things will change after coming to your home for a month? I don’t want to sound judgemental because I don’t know what your personal relationship with your mom is like. However, like many have said, it’s okay to love people from a distance. You can take the kids for a visit but let someone keep an eye on them all the time if you don’t trust your mom. I pray that you’ll receive healing and your relationship with her will be restored. One has only mother regardless of whether she has mental illness, is crippled or a witch. A mother is irreplaceable. Try workout your issues with her even if it means involving the elders , religious leaders or even a therapist. You’ll never have another biological mother. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by edosignature(m): 3:32pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
It is better to be safe than never. You did the right thing. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Munzy14(m): 3:33pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609:Sorry man! You found yourself in that situation of being with a woman you love, whom your biological mother hates. Good you didn't let your mother's actions and inactions discourage you. Love her from a far distance due to the length she went to wishing her death . After the Omugwo thing, just pay her a visit..And do normal remittance to keep the motherly love alive. Some mothers cross the line a lot |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by West2019(m): 3:35pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
PeaceJoyLove:God punish your and your prostitute mother . where are you in Lagos believe me i will clear you and that hopeless mother off just tell me where to meet you i don't talk much . |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by HRMK: 3:35pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
yes,its right to keep her off!unless u want to create serious problem for ur wife!! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by timefarm(m): 3:36pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609: People can change. She might have seen the foolishness of her actions. So dont just cast her out, reconcile. You might want to visit her personally first to find out why the change of disposition towards you and the wife. Her response should give you a clue to what is happening. But that your step mum, I dont really understand that part. Hope she is really good to you as she appears. Better watch. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by West2019(m): 3:37pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
just tell me where to meet you, your news will come over here next week |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Mariangeles(f): 3:39pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609: Your mum's attitude explains why you have a step mum. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Jhayeahsam01(m): 3:39pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Yield to the advise given to u here boss This place na our family house |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Queenstores: 3:40pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Where is your old thread link? Francis609: |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Munzy14(m): 3:42pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Madam kedu? Waiting happen? I was wondering whether ma i gba la gala from ebe a What happened? |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Holluwhakemmy(f): 3:47pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609:and your mum didn't aware that she's in your place? |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by pikechukwu6(m): 3:48pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Plainly tell her a NO answer to her request instead of telling lies before man and God...No invite problem to your house if she wished your wife death. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Starz825(m): 3:48pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609:Your step mum .. Abeg Sha be careful of both of them.. Both your mum and your step mum... I don't know what's wrong with our mothers..you dey fight person no mean say make you wish her death na..haba.. Meanwhile I doubt if you are Yoruba... Because...your mama no dey with you ..wetin your step mum con dey find for there...... |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by GistFullGround: 3:50pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Your duty is to your wife & children. Your wife cannot be happy knowing that your mom, who wished her death will come spend sometime in your house. Your mom could be missing you as a child or she could be of no use, when she comes. Words do matter in life, once spoken, it cannot be taken back. You have to balance your happiness. No need to lie that your wife will not be around. You have to be bold and let her know what she said long ago. So, for this reason, she cannot be a part of your family! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Nobody: 3:50pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Solvelink:STORY, IT MIGHT EVEN BE EYE SERVICE... ME NO TRUST ANY STEP MOTHER FOR MY LIFE... HIAN!! |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Mariangeles(f): 3:51pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Munzy14: A di m nke oma. Thanks. My phones decided to gang up on me and eff me up, so ma si ka m were ohere ahu gbaara nga oso...I was tempted to not ever log in again. Happy Sunday. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by nizelgirl(f): 4:00pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Reading through your previous post I'll say keep your wife very far from your mother. May God bless your step mum. Her kind is rare. |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by ailenmen: 4:05pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Don't understand, u are supposed to be closer to our mum! Y stepmom ?. Don't u think some tin is wrong some where ? Find out , some tin went wrong some where !. And I believe she said it out of annoyance. Ur mum suppose to be d one, not ur step mum. So be careful |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by ailenmen: 4:09pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Ur mum can not harm u or ur family , some tin is wrong .it's ur mum that suppose be there ,not ur step mum |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Mariangeles(f): 4:11pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
jesmond3945: The question is has she repented from her wicked ways? Is she remorseful? Did she ask to be forgiven? |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Francis609:you don't have to lie in this situation, tell her the exact reason why you don't want her close...the issue is not whether you want to turn your house into a war and enemity zone filled with bad energies.. rather the question is " can you handle the bad atmosphere that will come with your mum's visit ? " For me, let her come when the children her in primary school... If I may ask, what even lead to the discussion of her coming ? |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by MadamOk(f): 4:31pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Please is not bad they way you are handling it It is for the peace of mind of your wife Mother I/L drama is the least I can have in a relationship or marriage |
Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Exceed15: 4:35pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
What other warning signal are you waiting for? |
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