ellaV:
I am married to a man for 6 years with two kids to a man who doesn't want to set a business up for me,give me money for upkeep,or give me money to start my Masters...this is someone that has millions as savings and I borrowed 20k from access bank since last year March he can't give me money to pay...I decided to work, 3 months to the work,I was dropped I did my findings,someone came to testify negatively about me to my boss and that was it...I apply for jobs,a contradicting mail will be sent to the company and i won't be calledi,I graduated with 2:1...my husband buys my phone and it's only him that has access to my mail,i asked him if he did that he said no, but I know it's him...as am talking to you know everyone in my area has light since 4 days ago because we use prepaid meter,light has finished, he is not moved that we are in darkness? He traveled for a job since 5 days ago and he don't care,there is so much I want to say but let me not bore you...I feel unproductive and stucked in this marriage, pls what should I do? I went to church and I was told his mum is in the water kingdom and tied him to herself that he only listens to her and whatever I say means nothing, all he does is sleep with me , that's all, if you knew me when I was single , you will be in awe to see me now...what should I do pls?

Pierocash:
intensify your prayer. Seek counselling from your pastor.

ellaV:
I talked to my pastor he was called but never showed up,he told me I was wasting my time

Pierocash:
then I advise you visit another church like winners, or MFM. That your pastor is not a serious pastor.

If you are in Ph, I can recommend one for you

ellaV:
pls recommend

MadamVanessa:



So if you quite such a stupid marriage, what will happen?

Iyaebe:
Did he cage you?If no,then you are the one holding yourself back from been productive. This is what you get when you absorb things you won't be able to take in relationships but begin to complain in marriage. I'm sure he treated you same way in your premarriage days but as an independent good woman wey you be,you proved yourself to be a marriage material.Its not too late, grab him by the balls to perform his responsibilities or you go out there to take charge of your life.

ellaV:
it's easy to say

Pierocash:
are you in Ph?

MadamVanessa:







I have been there before my dear, I quit it myself even when he pleaded , I still go ahead with the process in the court.

No useless Idiotic nonentity of a man can make lose my sanity.

ellaV:
yes

Pierocash:
Where in Ph,so i can know how to direct you?

ellaV:
send me your no pls pm

Richy4:

<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe....

<<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating..

Richy4:

<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe....

<<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating..

ellaV:
well it's true cos he always goes to her for advise instead of me his wife, whatever she says it's what's he will do, so tell me why I should not believe it's true

Richy4:


So because your Husband goes to his mother for advise, that's what made her a marine kingdom candidate?

ellaV:
you should be single...this write up is for people that are married and are the responsible type, thank you

MadamVanessa:







I have been there before my dear, I quit it myself even when he pleaded , I still go ahead with the process in the court. Dont folliw this advice oooo. God bless you

No useless Idiotic nonentity of a man can make lose my sanity.

Richy4:

olusam4:
Pray more dont go to any pastor. Pour ur mind to your maker he will surely rescue u

ellaV:


I have been praying, but it's looking like the more I pray the more he gets worst, a lady Neighbor of mine I told my problems to told me to follow her to ijebu that my case is moi moi... am seriously thinking of going because I have suffered alot