MedicH:


and you don't think there is any reason for her to stop abusing her husband?

Lizzyolatunjs:

He said he forgives after we make up and I always believed him

1forall:
He'd not save any screenhots if he didn't feel offended so, stop mouthing off and more importantly, stop quarrelling.

Gentlerespect76:
You should always know how to circumcise your tongue. Obviously you are hurting the man too much with what you say; and soon you forget as you don't take it to heart. We men ehn, you kill us with your tongue. Just change and everything will be fine.

Lizzyolatunjs:

This is good. Thanks

eminex:


Lol... The content of the mouth off lasan...

Mariangeles:


So, she shouldn't address the issue right?
Should she bottle it up, and let it eat her up inside or should she play the same game her husband is playing?
What person would feel safe with a spouse with such calculative character?

MedicH:


and you don't think there is any reason for her to stop abusing her husband?

frozen70:


If you follow a woman's mouth, you will return her to her parent[b][/b]

MedicH:


Sending her home is the best approach unless a man has agreed to put up with abuse and manipulation. Been there done that.

A lady I was dating joined me in an eatery where I was about to eat, the food there costs 1500 a plate, I told her let us go to a cheaper on where we can eat 1k and I can buy two for us, she asked if I can't pay with my card.

I was already going to my car so we can go somewhere else and on the way she was still complaining about that, mentioning how i do not spend on her, which I interpreted as subtle manipulation, and that was it for me. I took her home and blocked here everywhere she thought it was a joke.

Men should stop condoning these manipulations, me i do not.

frozen70:


Go to that your post a read my post, I made a comment there

Back to the topic

How many will you marry and keep sending him to her parents

MedicH:


Sending her home is the best approach unless a man has agreed to put up with abuse and manipulation. Been there done that.

A lady I was dating joined me in an eatery where I was about to eat, the food there costs 1500 a plate, I told her let us go to a cheaper on where we can eat 1k and I can buy two for us, she asked if I can't pay with my card.

I was already going to my car so we can go somewhere else and on the way she was still complaining about that, mentioning how i do not spend on her, which I interpreted as subtle manipulation, and that was it for me. I took her home and blocked here everywhere she thought it was a joke.

Men should stop condoning these manipulations, me i do not.

Mariangeles:


Just like that? That was just too drastic.
You seem too[b] impulsive[/b].

Lizzyolatunjs:

I am bothered . This is supposed to be my husband and father of my kids whom I should trust a gazillion times over. He has hurt me and I forgave . Never kept receipts so why this from him?

MedicH:


that is not the issue now. worst a man can do is to hit a woman because she may die in the process as we have seen but hey me as a man i also have a thing called mental health, i no be stone. The era of be a man don end, me i de cry well well even in public so i try to keep that sanity safe and secured.

Mariangeles:


Just like that? That was just too drastic.
You seem too impulsive.

Lizzyolatunjs:
Hello my fellow nairalander family and friends. A silent member, please help me all. I always saw people bringing family issues here until I personally fell into same trap today.

Please my people am at crossroads and I need advice, bring it all on pls. I would like to know why my husband of 10years would save chats , screenshots of our whatsapp messages when we quarrel and I mouth off to him. I mostly dont even go back nor remember such episodes. However I just said let me check his pictures randomly and lo and behold screenshots of all our personal messages? We have kids together and there has been cheating on his part in the past. I have forgiven and forgiven but seeing my messages saved as screenshots broke me.

We have good chats too but I didnt see any of that so it was specifically done. Elders and colleagues please help me out. Thank you all

Lizzyolatunjs:
Hello my fellow nairalander family and friends. A silent member, please help me all. I always saw people bringing family issues here until I personally fell into same trap today.

Please my people am at crossroads and I need advice, bring it all on pls. I would like to know why my husband of 10years would save chats , screenshots of our whatsapp messages when we quarrel and I mouth off to him. I mostly dont even go back nor remember such episodes. However I just said let me check his pictures randomly and lo and behold screenshots of all our personal messages? We have kids together and there has been cheating on his part in the past. I have forgiven and forgiven but seeing my messages saved as screenshots broke me.

We have good chats too but I didnt see any of that so it was specifically done. Elders and colleagues please help me out. Thank you all

Cutehector:
I dont like marriage..

Munzy14:


Not everyman tolerates BS o.

Onye zuzu o, awusa ya ka akwa ochie..

With that kind of woman how that man go take grow and progress..

Iyaebe:
please tell me the new name of the telegram group, pleaaaaase I won’t tell anyone