Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

You have just spoilt my day. That in this age and time, someone on nairaland can have this mindset is sickening.

ABANGWABOI:


Shut up pls..
We all know that you went to the hotel for Hustle not any Job interview..
Awon Feminist wannabe Wailer..

Your foolishness is unredeemable. Maybe I would have come and slept in your house. Idiot.

DominusPrime:


The way some guys reason here baffles me. One even said the man did well for touching her because she must have been dressed like a slut.

Their reasoning tells alot the kind of life they live. That one must have assaulted several women and makes excuses for his nonsense.

Olosho with customer.

Can you imagine your reasoning!!!!���

Asquare84:
What is she doing in a hotel if not that she is a prostitute

Frustration and hunger is very real.
Look at people gloating over this.
Some are already defending the act.


Poverty is a disease indeed

Ceenachi:
Op
please can you tell the judges of social media how the lady was dressed.
Some of the sexual assault we are experiencing today is from we ladies, some will dress without undies while some without bra, some live to go naked in the name of fashion

Unless someone who never visited such places will think morality is there - ladies of nowadays hmmm I fear this our generation

37 likes and counting for such a terrible comment.

Imagine if a gay person or a very old and ugly lady touches/grabs a guys crotch because he/she saw a bulge

thats a valid analogy for your comment

Fashdeejay:
if she smashes my head, I'd be dead or incapacitated. Better to avoid confrontation with either a man or a woman....
Yet I am the stupid one!! Lmao... Grey lawyer...
Guess beating a woman makes you a man right Dude, help yourself man.... Don't raise your hand against a woman .... It is wrong on all fronts. Just a brotherly advice!! Live well and be at peace.

Just shut your mouth, you are not intelligent.

Your mode of dressing might have triggered the guy, thou, it's wrong to touch a lady's thigh that u don't have right on.
The guy might think u are of those sl*t* after realizing he left but ur rain of insults gave u a punch. He's wrong thou to punch a lady.
I would have love to hear his own side of the story.
Advice to the ladies
Dress decently
Indecent mode of dressing brings you evildoers

sulaak:


Prostitutes also have rights.

Whores should never be elevated.

I do not trust this gender and their victim story!
Only believe this gender after proper investigation is carried out!

Joezinho:


Until the police gets access to the CCTV footage, I ain't gonna be one sided. Believing a naija lady should be ranked as the 3rd most foolish things on earth.

I honestly agree with you. But some people will be quick to judge

KevinDein:

Almost like there's a history of women lying against men and trying to ruin their lives and people just aren't so quick to side with a woman again.

We are not believing Women anymore until sufficient evidence abounds. No amount of wailing and condescending comments from you will change that.
Deal with it.

If the assault happens in front on you, you still won’t believe it. You will want the history of their generations and forefathers past to be examined before you can determine what to believe. Because you’re a misogynist and if a woman gets hurt, it’s perfect for you.

No one on their right mind thinks what you or like believe counts for anything. I don’t know what’s giving you that impression

Ceenachi:
Op
please can you tell the judges of social media how the lady was dressed.
Some of the sexual assault we are experiencing today is from we ladies, some will dress without undies while some without bra, some live to go naked in the name of fashion

Unless someone who never visited such places will think morality is there - ladies of nowadays hmmm I fear this our generation

Sometimes when I hear people talk about a ladies dressing whenever a rape story is told makes me lose hope on our capacity as humans to think.

A rapist is a sick bastard that needs serious mental help. If the ladies are accused of indecent dressing, how about little children that are also raped? Where is their indecency in what they wear?

Elidrisy20:
yes now

I hope you get raped if you ever find yourself in a hotel for any reason

cococandy:
I hope you get raped if you ever find yourself in a hotel for any reason

them dey rape man?

Elidrisy20:
them dey rape man?

you will find out

DownChelsea:


Who is normalizing it?

There is already strict punishment for them as prescribed by law. But the law must 1st take it's full course in evaluating evidence, hearing both sides(which we clearly are not doing) and ensuring that the allegation is even authentic, Since is is not uncommon for ladies to falsely accused guys of things like these..


Now that we've noted the complexities THAT MUST be passed through before justice can be reached,



HOW ABOUT DOING OUR BEST NOT TO BE VICTIMS?

who is talking about the accusation someone made a perverted comment and I called him a pervert simple, you are the one making excuses for perverts.

9jaRealist:


Here’s free counsel…
You shouldn’t touch any stranger at all without their consent.

If you do and they insult you, just apologize and move on…
You do NOT have a “right” to touch a stranger without consent at all - and certainly not on the laps!
>

You're blowing it out of proportion ooo.

There's contact, and there's assault/battering.

The mannerism is where the line is drawn.
People tap people to call their attention...but there are decent/societal acceptable touch/tap/contact that does not amount to assault.

Dictionary meaning of assault, I believe, is what the law uses...except they want to misinterpret the English language.

miketayo:


who is talking about the accusation someone made a perverted comment and I called him a pervert simple, you are the one making excuses for perverts.

So how do we hear from him now to even know his side of the story?

We can't just follow one narrative blindly. Naaa
That's my humble point.

Revolution2022:
She might even be a runs girls.

Stop accusing someone you know nothing about. This is a fallacy of argumentum ad populum.

Angels that loves surprises will be more interested to settle on Nigeria cos Nigeria is a massive Drama.

Emmypure:


Stop judging with emotions curse don't work in this part of the world, if not all our politicians and police for don die finish.

Guess you don't know how many of their children have died back to back. I did not curse you. I only wished your hoe daughters what you wish the daughters of others. I actually expected an AMEN from your dirty gutter mouth.

cococandy:
you will find out

okay

Digmygold:


Guess you don't know how many of their children have died back to back. I did not curse you. I only wished your hoe daughters what you wish the daughters of others. I actually expected an AMEN from your dirty gutter mouth.

Ode, so you want to tell me that nobody has ever died in your family?

elantraceey:



My foolishness is unredeemable. Maybe I would have come and slept in your house. I am an Idiot.

Is your poor mom and idiot too ??

sisisioge:
Wahala! A whole Eko hotel....the guy must have been high on drugs. He must be one of those money miss road politicians or yahoo boys! Next time Eko Hotel will pay attention to avoid being drag into bad publicity....hian!

@ your personal text " honestly it's not that deep"

Biko what is not that deep? Talk to me, I hope it is what I'm thinking?

kioski:
It's such a shame that in 2022 we still have people like this who have their fathers' mindset that hotel is synonymous with prostitutes. May God bail you out of your abject ignorance.

Actually hotels in this part of the world is synonymous to prostitute though it ought no to be so. Sometime some of you woke or learned friends without experience should understand the environment you are. I can't stand in ajah bus stop and be pressing my phone even if the police station at Ajiwe is just a thrown-stone away from ajah under-bridge..first thing first my safety at all cost even I know the police is paid to protect me but we know the history.

There is nothing wrong if anyone says any woman you find at the hotel are prostitute. No be him fault, nah the environment and what he has seen most times that he has base his judgement and which is 90% true. If nah lie take a stroll toward any hotel around you in Lagos and state otherwise. That's why I escort my female friends to the hotel whenever they have a job in any hotel in Lagos.

Fact hotel are not synonymous to prostitute but in this Lagos, what I have seen Hotels are synonymous to prostitute and you as a woman if you find yourself in such place threat carefully.

U mean Nigerians, Aaaaah i am not among the Nigerians demanding for justice ooooh. Count me out now. Troublesome witchcraft ladies tormenting guys up and down, knowing fully well that the law supports them. Rubbish.

Joezinho:
Chimamanda Adichie once said, "..We must be wary of the dangers of a single story.."

Then the hotel shouldn't have any problems releasing the CCTV footage. Or is there any danger in that?

Jephyard:


Actually hotels in this part of the world is synonymous to prostitute though it ought no to be so. Sometime some of you woke or learned friends without experience should understand the environment you are. I can't stand in ajah bus stop and be pressing my phone even if the police station at Ajiwe is just a thrown-stone away from ajah under-bridge..first thing first my safety at all cost even I know the police is paid to protect me but we know the history.

There is nothing wrong if anyone says any woman you find at the hotel are prostitute. No be him fault, nah the environment and what he has seen most times that he has base his judgement and which is 90% true. If nah lie take a stroll toward any hotel around you in Lagos and state otherwise. That's why I escort my female friends to the hotel whenever they have a job in any hotel in Lagos.

Fact hotel are not synonymous to prostitute but in this Lagos, what I have seen Hotels are synonymous to prostitute and you as a woman if you find yourself in such place threat carefully.

Next time u enter hotel, just go ahead and start touching women on their thighs in order to woo them