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If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 7:21pm On Jul 01, 2022
THINGS YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT YOUR PREGNANT WIFE.


Dear men, let's us discuss about PREGNANCY.

Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to the state of health of the mother and unborn child?

Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern for their pregnant wife or failing to adjust to some temporary changes!!!
It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.

Pregnancy is preparation to welcome a new member into the family.

Pregnancy is a journey, fun filled, amazing etc.

Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.
Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread
■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say, women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Most women are looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.
●While most women add up weight.
●Most women appear like burnt offerings.
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STILL YOUR WORK.....

Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you can't stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when you need to be extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding.
NOTE...
1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treatments women enjoy during pregnancy.
2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.
3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.
4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. You need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's your baby, you need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).
5) No rule book stopped sex during pregnancy, in short it's the best sef.... do it. It's not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. o sir continue the work that brings the pregnancy.
6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovely places you used to go together. #They_love_it...
Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.

A big shout out to all men who fully stand by their wives during pregnancy.

God bless you all.

women after delivery, ask forgiveness from your husband for being with you at the time of need because it is not easy.


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For more updates on knowing how to take care of your pregnant wife during pregnancy and even after childbirth, I have a free class for you where you will be lectured on the various dangers pregnant women face and how to naturally avoid them by an experienced medical practioner who has saved the lives of so many women during childbirth.

For interested Participants contact me via WhatsApp � 08145126603

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by MMWandali: 7:30pm On Jul 01, 2022
Have no choice but to put up with some of them

Hoping it will never get out of hand and become unbearably unreasonable
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 7:45pm On Jul 01, 2022
MMWandali:
Have no choice but to put up with some of them

Hoping it will never get out of hand and become unbearably unreasonable

Sometimes is always annoying because of the condition they are in but you still have to cope with them to have a beautiful pregnancy journey.

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by DaCharis2016: 8:07pm On Jul 01, 2022
Nice one. I like your write up.
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 8:22pm On Jul 01, 2022
DaCharis2016:
Nice one. I like your write up.

Thank you please share to create awareness.
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 9:12pm On Jul 01, 2022
Please read this if you're a woman, whether married or single.


The purpose of this post is to educate our women on the most prevalent cause of death during childbirth and natural healthy remedies to practice that will help prevent any future complications during childbirth.

I was doing research and discovered a saddening truth that has taken the lives of many African women especially Nigerians.

A joint report by W.H.O, UNICEF and world bank of 2015 reveals that about 58000 Nigerian women die every year due to childbirth and pregnancy related issues.

This statistics has made Nigeria come second in maternal death rate globally.

I don't know how true it is but you and I do know that those bodies mentioned above are world known organizations.

Without writing much, let's look at the major causes of this.
There are some causes of death during childbirth but the most prevalent one in Nigeria is "loss of blood".
Of course loss of blood isn't possible if there's no injury. These injuries can be caused by either of these two things.

Vaginal tear
Episiotomy.


Vagina tear or Episiotomy, which is basically a surgical procedure (an incision made in the perineum during the second stage of labour – the pushing stage – is generally associated with problems, some of which include:

Prolonged pain due to the tear or cut.

The new-born could be deprived of attention as the mother is often in pain.

The problem of incontinence – loss of bowel control such that she often gets stained or even often urinates or passes stool involuntarily, even in public.

Problem resulting from suturing, when it is carelessly performed or managed. A woman who was given an Episiotomy was said to have been using hot water on it. She had to return to the hospital for another suturing.

Long absence from sex which could make the man to start looking elsewhere.

The financial waste in trying to manage the condition.

The psychological trauma, and more.

Apart from the body damages resulting from these cuts, the huge amount of blood that is lost is a major reason for the high Maternal Mortality (Death) Rate in the Country.

Now, can all of these be prevented naturally? Yes they can. In fact many who attended our free classes on WhatsApp have delivered using this lesson without having any injury even during their first baby delivery.
I would love to continue writing but I can't make this post any longer. Everything you need to do in order to avoid this Episiotomy has been compiled in one course which I would love you to get for yourself.

However, join this free WhatsApp Class

08145126603
and learn more about this. It's free and won't take much of your time.

Our target is to achieve a tear/episiotomy-free delivery, and by that help promote the right self-image and body balance of the women after vaginal births in order to also keep her fit for her husband and baby.

Join the class here 08145126603

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 9:35pm On Jul 01, 2022
DaCharis2016:
Nice one. I like your write up.
Thank you please share it to create awareness.
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by LadyD22(f): 5:08am On Jul 02, 2022
Healthtalker:
THINGS YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT YOUR PREGNANT WIFE.


Dear men, let's us discuss about PREGNANCY.

Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to the state of health of the mother and unborn child?

Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern for their pregnant wife or failing to adjust to some temporary changes!!!
It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.

Pregnancy is preparation to welcome a new member into the family.

Pregnancy is a journey, fun filled, amazing etc.

Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.
Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread
■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say, women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Most women are looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.
●While most women add up weight.
●Most women appear like burnt offerings.
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STILL YOUR WORK.....

Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you can't stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when you need to be extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding.
NOTE...
1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treatments women enjoy during pregnancy.
2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.
3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.
4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. You need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's your baby, you need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).
5) No rule book stopped sex during pregnancy, in short it's the best sef.... do it. It's not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. o sir continue the work that brings the pregnancy.
6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovely places you used to go together. #They_love_it...
Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.

A big shout out to all men who fully stand by their wives during pregnancy.

God bless you all.

women after delivery, ask forgiveness from your husband for being with you at the time of need because it is not easy.


Copied

For more updates on knowing how to take care of your pregnant wife during pregnancy and even after childbirth, I have a free class for you where you will be lectured on the various dangers pregnant women face and how to naturally avoid them by an experienced medical practioner who has saved the lives of so many women during childbirth.

For interested Participants contact me via WhatsApp � 08145126603

Pregnant women can be scary , I just have a feeling my problem would be good , the bread and okrio kind
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 6:27am On Jul 02, 2022
LadyD22:


Pregnant women can be scary , I just have a feeling my problem would be good , the bread and okrio kind


Yes indeed they can be that's why is good for one to have the knowledge about it earlier.

Yours will be a good experience.
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Omini247: 6:38am On Jul 02, 2022
Tell the women to also stick and have patience with their husband when they loose their job or have a major set back in there businesses

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by JoyousFurnitire(m): 8:44am On Jul 02, 2022
Madam I read it as if you dey vex and you dey shout undecided

That number 5, sex Kwa? Make pikin go drink sperm undecided

Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 9:28am On Jul 02, 2022
JoyousFurnitire:
Madam I read it as if you dey vex and you dey shout undecided

That number 5, sex Kwa? Make pikin go drink sperm undecided
JoyousFurnitire:
Madam I read it as if you dey vex and you dey shout undecided

That number 5, sex Kwa? Make pikin go drink sperm undecided

Awwwwn pikin no co drink sperm ooooo rather it will even make the woman have an enjoyable experience during pregnancy ��

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 9:31am On Jul 02, 2022
Omini247:
Tell the women to also stick and have patience with their husband when they loose their job or have a major set back in there businesses

Definitely we still have good women out there who will stand through any storm and trials time with their husbands.

Our outmost prayer should be for God to direct us to the right partner.

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by KingMack(m): 12:12pm On Jul 02, 2022
Op lemme drop this for you

Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by halaqasa: 12:54pm On Jul 02, 2022
E Be many things walahi

But on God

E go be
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2022
KingMack:
Op lemme drop this for you

I appreciate it sir chicken should be added to it too ooooó ����

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2022
halaqasa:
E Be many things walahi

But on God

E go be
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Definitely it will be with by on our side

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Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by KingMack(m): 2:48pm On Jul 02, 2022
Healthtalker:


I appreciate it sir chicken should be added to it too ooooó ����


May be when I come to Uyo wink
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by real691(m): 2:57pm On Jul 02, 2022
We appreciate motherhood.
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jul 02, 2022
I always avoid pregnant women cheesy
Most of them can be very annoying, demanding and emotional embarassed
Naturally, in few years time, I would be one too embarassed
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 4:08pm On Jul 02, 2022
Maryjane001:
I always avoid pregnant women cheesy
Most of them can be very annoying, demanding and emotional embarassed
Naturally, in few years time, I would be one too embarassed

Awwwwn is time you start Loving them oooo
Pregnancy is another beautiful experience all you need to is understanding them and making them feel loved as well.

Yours will be a lovable journey too in due season.
Re: If You Have A Wife, Sister Or A Mum Read This by Healthtalker(f): 7:10pm On Jul 02, 2022
KingMack:



May be when I come to Uyo wink

Thank you sir

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