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How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Lukgaf(m): 7:38am On Jul 15, 2022
Shayk Dr Sharoff was asked for how long can a man travel living his wife. Below is his response:


It must not be more than four months. It must not be more than four months in as much as you do not want your wife to become wayward. A person who travels to England, neglecting his wife because of his work for four years, what is this? What kind of money do you want that requires you to neglect your wife for four years? For this reason, according to the Sharee’ah, it is permissible for a woman to take the issue to the correctors. Four years will be counted and after that if the husband is yet to arrive, she will do iddah (period of waiting) for four months and ten days; it will be assumed that the husband is dead. She will have to marry another husband, but this does not imply that her husband’s property will be shared. She will be asked to marry so that she will not become wayward. The property of the husband will not be shared until his age is calculated to have reached seventy, eighty, or ninety years. This is because it will be assumed that his colleagues would have been dead at about seventy, eighty or ninety years. The age to be used depends on the view of the corrector.

However, four years is required to make the wife free, but if her husband arrives after her waiting period, according to the Sharee’ah the man is still her legal husband on the basis of the initial marriage contract since it is (now) evident that he is not dead. If she had married a new husband before her initial husband arrives and she is yet to pack in, she still remains the wife of the initial husband. That is it.

A husband should not leave his wife for more than four months except if his wife approves of it. If her husband travels for twenty years and she approves of it, there is no difficultly in as much as she does not engage in illicit affairs. This is so because if one wishfully rejects his/her right, one cannot be censured for it. That is it.

What if she had packed into the house of the new husband?

The scholars say if the initial husband desires her, he will have to remarry her with a new contract. That is it.

What if she has become the wife of the new husband?

The new husband will divorce her so that the initial husband marries her with a new contract.

What if the new husband decides not to divorce her?

If he decides not to divorce her, that’s the end. Things have changed.
[SOURCE: Q&A session of the tape, “Idile Musulumi”]
Transcribed by Aboo Aaishah Al Odeomeey

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Rashduct4luv(m): 8:45am On Jul 15, 2022
Alhamdulillah for the light of Islam.

We are in the anti-islamic era where civilisation has crept in to our norms and tradition. Women don't see themselves as women any longer.

See as Islam give justice above.

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by AntiChristian: 8:50am On Jul 15, 2022
Part of why I love Islam.

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by x123xlolls(m): 12:35pm On Jul 15, 2022
Islam is a complete way of life, simple, easy. grin

JAZAKALLAH FOR THE ARTICLE



People of hate and ignorance will soon rush here and spill the trash as usual.

Don't hurt or Abuse/Hate any non-Muslim, Try and educate them instead.

That's how Muhammadu (pbuh) treated them.

#OneLove

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Higgies(m): 12:49pm On Jul 15, 2022
Masha Allah.

Perhaps that's why four months is the maximum calling by tabligh jammah on the path of Allah.

May Allah accept all our ibaadah.

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by tamdun: 1:00pm On Jul 15, 2022
Alhamdulilah

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by citygarden(m): 1:17pm On Jul 15, 2022
Alhamdulilahi, very details and educative.

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by JFT24(m): 1:26pm On Jul 15, 2022
MashaAllah

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by geesilver(m): 1:29pm On Jul 15, 2022
My Question: what if both party cannot hold themselves but due to the nature of their respective work they are always separated for more than four months. What is best advisable to do.......
Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:45pm On Jul 15, 2022
Lukgaf:
Shayk Dr Sharoff was asked for how long can a man travel living his wife. Below is his response:


[SOURCE: Q&A session of the tape, “Idile Musulumi”]
Transcribed by Aboo Aaishah Al Odeomeey
So much wisdom in Islam this is what is destroying western nations in the name of I can do what I want, Now there society is threatened, God will destroy them from within..

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by x123xlolls(m): 1:49pm On Jul 15, 2022
geesilver:
My Question: what if both party cannot hold themselves but due to the nature of their respective work they are always separated for more than four months. What is best advisable to do.......

@Lukgaf see question....
Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by emmanuelbrown26: 2:06pm On Jul 15, 2022
Blood thirsty religion

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Richie8701(m): 2:34pm On Jul 15, 2022
405,56 hours and 53 minutes
Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Mightymanna(m): 2:38pm On Jul 15, 2022
Nothing is left behind by Islam complete guidance from the creator

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Desperado14: 3:16pm On Jul 15, 2022
This religion is the problem with Nigeria at the moment.

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Kingzeez10: 3:25pm On Jul 15, 2022
Desperado14:
This religion is the problem with Nigeria at the moment.
Wahala ti e niyen.

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by Lukgaf(m): 7:58pm On Jul 15, 2022
x123xlolls:


@Lukgaf see question....

If they both consent to this and can protect themselves from Zina and other vices while away from each other, then it is not a problem. Wallahu ahlam

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Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by merits(m): 9:46pm On Jul 15, 2022
or=AntiChristian post=114748146]Part of why I love Islam.[/quote]


Islam is the way of life.
Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by merits(m): 9:49pm On Jul 15, 2022
AntiChristian:
Part of why I love Islam.

Islam is the pure way of life.

Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by ike007(m): 11:49pm On Jul 15, 2022
Why are you terrorist even marrying self.. aren't you bloody idiots promised 72 Virginas in heaven. Those smelly bit he's you have as wives here are going to be whores to other men in heaven....
Re: How Long Can Husband And Wife Live Separately In Islaam? by ANTllSLAAM: 6:57am On Jul 16, 2022
Muhammad has so many wives against the maximum of four allah recommended, so he lived separately with many of his wives for a very long time

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