There are people who stopped being 100% honest because someone made them look like fools for being transparent.

There are people who stopped being good and loyal to friends because someone special disappointed them in their darkest hour.

There are people who stopped being faithful to one lover because someone broke their hearts and did so savagely.

There are people who stopped being generous or big-hearted because someone paid them back with evil.

There are people who stopped trusting anyone because someone betrayed them with a kiss. Etc.

We can all relate to these experiences.

The moment you allow people change you for the worse, they win, you lose.

The best trophy you can give to those who treated you badly and unfairly; those who took your virtue for granted is to become like them. The moment you say 'I've had enough being the good, considerate and kindhearted person. I'm done with being honest and generous', you have simply handed them the trophy. They won!

You cannot judge humanity, a population of almost 8 Billion People by the foolishness of one person, even two.

You cannot deprive humanity of your kindness or honesty or virtue because someone decided to be a jerk. Billions of people around the world still hope for someone like you. Don't lose YOU!

Bitterness eats up its container. Vengeance consumes its host. Unforgiveness destroys its carrier.
No one is worth losing your 'treasure' over.

Whoever treats you badly and coldly for being true to you and real doesn't deserve you. He or she is weak. Becoming like them is a compliment to them. Don't give them the satisfaction.

Someday, if you don't falter; if you remain consistent, you will be validated, justified and compensated right before the eyes of those you almost became. Those who thought they won.

Don't lose you. Humanity's fate hangs on it.
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