My friend's sister has stopped wearing trousers without her husband's knowledge. She is afraid she will go to hell is she continues.

Why would she go to Hell for wearing tousers?

If she is comfortable with skirts ,she should stick with them, but nothing is wrong with women wearing trousers.So long as they are women trousers because a mans trouser will look odd on a woman

What does that mean?
Aren't jeans made for men and women alike? Don't most Asian women wear trousers of some type?
Why would a woman go to Hell for wearing trousers?
Who would be foolish enough to think such a thing?

I tire o. The way she is carrying this her own born-again thing is tiring. She tried stopping make-up but her hubby gave her some serious warning. We are all christians, but a man is still a man. I just pray she doesnt push her hubby out sha

^^didnt you start a thread saying you never got a proposal yet?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=735101.msg8922039#msg8922039

have you gotten one now?

seriously, this internet is a two edged sword.

if you were serious about what you were saying in that thread, then you're really not being proactive about getting a man. Or getting someone who is husband material.

for example, if you dont have anyone who could hook you up personally, then you could have at least opened a thread in dating section detailing your request, instead of coming here to chatter about someone's husband being stolen because she doesnt wear trousers.

seriously, is this attitude for real?

i mean, i do like to give folks the benefit of the doubt but why do they keep proving me wrong.

^^^Are you for real?
Do you have a problem understanding threads ?If you do lemme break it down for you. Since you are obviously[b] slow[/b].
Firstly the two threads are not related in any way.

The first thread is not about me not having a man cos I got one already. Its a discussion on women who havent been proposed to.
This thread is me pointing out that someone is choosing to change her lifestyle against her man's wishes because she is afraid she will go to hell.
Lastly, I dont give a da mn about proving you right or otherwise.
Your opinion means less than two kobo to me.
I'm only replying your post cos its so silly it makes me laugh otherwise I would have ignored you since that's what your post deserves

Godmother wrote:

I tire o. The way she is carrying this her own born-again thing is tiring. She tried stopping make-up but her hubby gave her some serious warning. We are all christians, but a man is still a man. I just pray she doesnt push her hubby out sha

You're saying her husband demanded she use make-up?
What sort of a bully is that?
Hmmm.
Sounds to me as though she's found 'true happiness' in her new church.

No, what I'm saying is that she has been using make-up all her life. She dated her hubby five years and all this time wore make-up, all of a sudden she is making some radical changes to herself that her husband is not too please with. And they have always attended the same churches, even while dating. Thats where they met. And she hasnt changed church, just found a new pastor that she goes to from time to time who is telling her that wearing make-up and trousers will take her to hell

The challenge of marriage is that people change.
They change ideas and tastes and beliefs.
It's clear this lady is going one way and her husband doesn't like it.
Good luck to them both.

And I wouldn't worry unless the new pastor starts offering some 'hands on' healing sessions.

Godmother:

^^^Are you for real?
Do you have a problem understanding threads ?If you do lemme break it down for you. Since you are obviously[b] slow[/b].
Firstly the two threads are not related in any way.

The first thread is not about me not having a man cos I got one already. Its a discussion on women who havent been proposed to.
This thread is me pointing out that someone is choosing to change her lifestyle against her man's wishes because she is afraid she will go to hell.
Lastly, I dont give a da mn about proving you right or otherwise.
Your opinion means less than two kobo to me.
I'm only replying your post cos its so silly it makes me laugh otherwise I would have ignored you since that's what your post deserves

you'd better go through that thread of yours again and reread what you wrote.


eg

I'm not desperate though, just wondering.
I mean, I meet girls who have had like one or two proposals in their lives!!

ETC ETC. Not interested in going over details with you.

but i guess we're seeing why you're having problems getting proposals.

i think you really need to reassess your priorities because the same men in your locality who you say arent proposing to you, are the ones non-nigerian women are flying in to meet and marry right there in nigeria.


at this rate, you might resort to getting a "yeast" man, i dont doubt.

@ topic

if the husband tells the wife to resume using makeup, wearing trousers, etc, or whatever she was doing before, she better start doing it.

the bible itself says a woman's husband can invalidate a vow she made, and neither does any scripture support defying your husband in such a manner.

if the man is ok with it, fine, but if he's not, then put it on the back burner.

tpia, could you cite chapter and verse for what you've just written there, please?

the bible itself says a woman's husband can invalidate a vow she made, and neither does any scripture support defying your husband in such a manner.

I ask because the bible itself also states a woman shouldn't adorn herself, doesn't it?