https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgVJbCO-ffc

A lady has revealed that a man trained her in school with the promise that they will get married but she no longer feels the need to honour the agreement.


She said he paid her school fees and hoped to have a big wedding and kids with her when she is done.

However, now that she is a working class lady, she does not see the need to marry him because he is not her type and she does not love him.


She wants to break up with him but her family warned that he may harm her, so she is scared of telling him that she is not interested anymore.

The lady wondered why she must be compelled to be with someone who helped her even though she does not want him.

In her words; ”Are we really forced to stay with men because they took us to school when our families couldn’t? He paid my fees when I was a student and now he wants a big wedding and children. i don’t even like him. Reality is I don’t enjoy doing anything with him. Sleeping with him feels so forced. I’m on a pill because I don’t want his children.

When I saw this post, I remembered the advice my grandfather gave me at my Uncle's wedding while we were sitting close to each other next to the Music Band. The music was so loud I couldn't hear what he said.

When will men learn a lesson?

There has never been any return from investing in women.

These people only think of themselves, they don't even care about your mental health.

Only assist a woman, not with the intention of her becoming yours afterwards.

KINGS, learn a lesson.

Go ahead and marry the man you love, I'm sure you'll regret it one day.

Ungrateful element

Mumu people everywhere

Witchcraft.....u had to wait till u ddnt need him anymore...

Just pay the man the dollar worth of his sponsorship with interest. On second thought, you value the sxx involved and make deductions to balance account

I bet such men do see ladies who are already graduates but would prefer to gamble on paying for the schooling of a lady who is not his wife with the belief she would marry him, ignoring the reality that when most of such ladies graduate, they outgrow the man.

Don't waste resources on such!

tommy589:
Just pay the man the dollar worth of his sponsorship with interest. On second thought, you value the sxx involved and make deductions to balance account

And the wasted time too. Shikena

Fake story

No man should make any emotional investment in a woman!!!
Also,this is the difference between care and love!!!
While care is the attention,affection and help given to someone in love with another person if the other person has no love then the love is not balanced because they only see it as care!!
Since women are emotionally beings,you see how they can swing from one direction to another!!!
It is clear that she never loved him but only accepted his care.
He could have found out that care is not LOVE OOOO

Assisting a wooman with the hopes of getting positive returns is like hoping to fill up a basket with water.

The man is a SIMP irmc

You neva liked him but you liked the money he was given you. Big Ode. Secondly, you are on pills so as not to get belle I pity ur womb and not u.

But the schooling and taking care of you wasn't forced abi?

You know how much it cost to do things like that and you play that man's spirit!!!

Hahahaha

When a pussy meets a bigger dick, a smaller dick will be forgotten for the bigger dick to Live!!!!

I am still angry with myself and my family for going against my principles of not being in relationship that involves over-investment on my part of listening to their nonsense about 'helping someone' or that such a person (younger woman) will learn and adjust.

People rarely change and most of our women are a liability; even when you raise them up from their low point, their focus is on their family and friends that could not provide for them in the first place.

One will think that one good turn deserves another but our women will go the opposite way - when they come into money, they become rude and unmanageable. Worst still, they want to keep their new money and run the man into the ground.

It is not worth it to invest for love! Also, better to marry close with a one's income and upbringing bracket

The same story Everytime.
This is the highest point of LEECHERY

She doesn't like him but she likes his money

One day my mother calls me and says "never send any girl go school, if her people no send am go school find another woman marry" that advice saved me from these scam women play.