Very stupid question.
@op, where is it stated in the Bible that a husband should not do doggy style with his wife?

I feel disappointed with this question.

Blessedmercy8:


Ok, thank you Sir.

So it only takes a "pastor" to tell you how to live your life? If he had said it is on missionary, you would have gone home and fight your husband if he wanted any other style?

No wonder Nigeria is in the shape it is today. Grey matter going to waste.

Did bible tell you the style to uphold

Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

His forefathers didn't drive cars or use android phone.Let him be wearing rags,go the bush and hunt,and not use phones cos his forefathers didn't.Dont mind that yeye poster

I hate hypocrisy to the core honestly.Those sex styles are referring to that was created by porn is totally off point.People were using those styles wat before time before the advent of internet.Majority of movies including porn were real life happenings that was acted on TV.If same sex was as old as Abraham times,so Wats Ur point.Husband and wives have the right to practice whatever sex style they like.Nigerians like to be holy but the nation is getting terrible everyday.Rubbish

Octopusssy:

I'm not scowling o. My face is calm despite my irritation

I can imagine.

Blessedmercy8:


Who's fighting who?

Did you not see how everyone avoided the question and instead have been attacking me and sounding defensive?

I know your type. Always quick to to bash without reasoning out a post.
A simple question, what do you guys think? And everyone including this one is calling me a hypocrite for having an honest opinion.

Buzz off

It's people like you that makes Christianity look like a joke, I believe you are not married and don't have kids yet, when you get married and you are say 7 months pregnant, when you can no longer like flat on your back then you would understand, the only style I believe is a sin is the anal one because it suggests homosexuality which is detestable in the eyes of God and at the same time it's awful health complications. God doesn't care how you do it as long as you do it within the confines of the Bible instructions. Sex outside marriage is sin and how a husband and wife do it is not anybody's concern,missionary style is not mentioned in the Bible as with all other styles, they are all good to go, provided it doesn't cause any harm to any partner no problem.

dazzlingd:


No I'm not, maybe your hubby

No be my hubby talk say Jesus be gay, na u talk am, so therefore, na u Jesus dey diick.

Oceemo:
And who told u foolish hypocrite Pharisee that u are born again see how u are displaying all sort of bitterness on a Sunday morning with your stupid and myopic question

Leave this one I pity her future husband, na this kind of people I dey avoid for church like plague.

Is there any passage in the Bible where men were asked to choose a style for sex?

But na for marriage counseling and couples retreat them dey ask this kind question not public domain like that

Owologbo:


First, why would you go to church and be discussing sex style?
Is it that y'all lack meaningful things to discuss or what?
Since you think other styles are learned through watching of pornography? who taught those pornographers those style?

In having sex, you can be taken away by excitement and perform styles you have never seen before.

As in, of all things is sex styles they are discussing in church, and judging from her answer,I believe she's not yet married and as such is not even supposed to be there, back then when I was still single my church do not hold marriage seminars with youth or singles especially when things like sexuality is being discussed, most times they take it outside the church, and it's strictly for couples.

Blessedmercy8:


Please rest abeg!

Blessed mercy you are not yet married and as such not qualified to be there let alone contribute, if it's in my church you will not be allowed, and topic like this should only be discussed among married couples in the church away from youth, teenagers and children, it's called marriage seminar it's strictly for married couples which I believe you are not and my church usually hire a venue for it and only married couples are allowed.

Jovialjune1:


No be my hubby talk say Jesus be gay, na u talk am, so therefore, na u Jesus dey diick.

At least your husband says he loves Jesus, didn’t he say so? And you love him too, don’t you. I bet you guys do threesomee together

That means I no be Christian all this years..pls what
is missionary

Blessedmercy8:


What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

Your reply justifies what I said about you. You are a rigid extremist. Whatever doesn't feel right to you is a sin and shouldn't be done by any other person; just like BH who believe that western education is forbidden and are forcing the belief on other people.

Octobertwentysix:






As in, of all things is sex styles they are discussing in church, and judging from her answer,I believe she's not yet married and as such is not even supposed to be there, back then when I was still single my church do not hold marriage seminars with youth or singles especially when things like sexuality is being discussed, most times they take it outside the church, and it's strictly for couples.

You said your church. This is my church. We clearly don't have same doctrines.

By the way, it was a family weekend celebration and questions were entertained from all sect of the family. The fellow who asked this question is a newbie and she took permission by first asking the pst if she could ask such a sensitive question and was given the go ahead to ask. So it's not like that is what we sit in church to discuss all the time.

Please next time, take the pain to read through before commenting because it's obvious you didn't read the post. You just want to comment for the sake of it.

Blessedmercy8:


What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

It's your type of Christians that I avoid the most, people like you have zero knowledge of the Bible, you don't study your Bible extensively, a good Bible scholar is open to knowledge and is teachable but you are just rigid and not open to learning you opened a thread asking for people's opinions when they gave you their answer because it's not what you had in mind you just concluded that everyone likes bad things. Na wa for you o.

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

So on judgement day, if God ask me what have I done with my talents make I come dey look abi? Abeg talk for yourself ooo

Octobertwentysix:







Blessed mercy you are not yet married and as such not qualified to be there let alone contribute, if it's in my church you will not be allowed, and topic like this should only be discussed among married couples in the church away from youth, teenagers and children, it's called marriage seminar it's strictly for married couples which I believe you are not and my church usually hire a venue for it and only married couples are allowed.

Madam married ( like you win a trophy being married), calm down. We know you are married and every single will get married someday. Not a big deal.

Now you need to calm down and stop being all over the place. No where did I mention it was a marriage seminar but because you just want to be heard at all cost for no reason you failed to see where I said it was a family weekend celebration and every member of the family was made to partake in the discussion by sharing their experience.


Calm down.

triple996:
Try every style u want as far as it's not anal..........islam

You are totally wrong

Blessedmercy8:


You said your church. This is my church. We clearly don't have same doctrines.

By the way, it was a family weekend celebration and questions were entertained from all sect of the family. The fellow who asked this question is a newbie and she took permission by first asking the pst if she could ask such a sensitive question and was given the go ahead to ask. So it's not like that is what we sit in church to discuss all the time.

Please next time, take the pain to read through before commenting because it's obvious you didn't read the post. You just want to comment for the sake of it.

No vex, but then things like sexuality should only be discussed among couples and since it's a family weekend as you say there should be sections for couples, youth, teenagers and children, and you my dear being a single sister have nothing to say cause you are not yet MARRIED, you don't have any business with bedroom matters.

Jovialjune1:
I think Op intentionally creates controversial threads for validation, attention, boredom, and loneliness, especially loneliness, reading all her threads you can see she has no life outside nairaland, if she doesn't create threads of her looks, she must create threads of her twin, or her every lifestyle, and this is someone in her early 40s

What a sad life.

Oshey forensic expert, 2 seconds and OP's whole life has been profiled and analyzed.

Blessedmercy8:


What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

...gone through your responses even up to page 10 and you don't come off as a "mature" Christian and you bring in the "holy" inside this kind talk.

My take: So God is creative and Nature is proof. The Creator loves variety and practically, a playful and moderately creative couple will come up with these other styles...

If a busybody pastor came to discuss this issue with me and my espoused, I go use body language shut am up.

Octobertwentysix:







It's your type of Christians that I avoid the most, people like have zero knowledge of the Bible, you don't study your Bible extensively, a good Bible scholar is open to knowledge and is teachable but you are just rigid and not open to learning you opened a thread asking for people's opinions when they gave you their answer because it's not what you had in mind you just concluded that everyone likes bad things. Na wa for you o.

Mrs married, you're still not getting it. Always hijacking a post without first digesting the context. Where in the post you quoted does it imply that I want people to speak my mind.

Please stay far because you get things twisted a lot. So for your sanity, avoid threads like this cos they are too complex for you.

How did you know that our forefathers aren't doing those styles? How many of them did you have encounter with?
Whatever you do with your husband or your wife in your bed room as long as you are not hurting one another is non of anybody business. Gay, lesbian, raping... has been in existence since the time of Bible so also those sex styles even among the believers

Person suppose break bottle for this op head.

The already doing it including snake and monkey �

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

Your write up is full of assumptions. Simple research would have made it more meaningful.

Boomboost:


...gone through your responses even up to page 10 and you don't come off as a "mature" Christian and you bring in the "holy" inside this kind talk.

My take: So God is creative and Nature is proof. The Creator loves variety and practically, a playful and moderately creative couple will come up with these other styles...

If a busybody pastor came to discuss this issue with me and my espoused, I go use body language shut am up.

I never told you I'm second in command to Jesus but for no reason everyone is just feeling intimidated by my comments due to their dark conscience.

I'm still a work in progress and until Jesus Comes the holy spirit will continue to work on me to get me to perfection. I'm not there yet but definitely will, some day. So don't feel intimidated.

NO.

It is a practice copied by Whites from Apes especially Gorrillas, Chimpanzees, Orange Utan and Baboons.

I don't think it should not be encouraged.

Heffalump:
Very stupid question.
@op, where is it stated in the Bible that a husband should not do doggy style with his wife?

I feel disappointed with this question.

You should be disappointed.
What style did you call it?
Does that not make a you a dog?