*11 RED FLAGS FOR WOMEN IN COURTSHIP AHEAD OF MARRIAGE*


1. A man who is not comfortable leaving his phone without password around you. My dear, TRUST is built and earned over time with such little things.

2. Avoid any man who still talks about his ex girlfriend or flings and still do love and romantic chats with her. Cheating and Secrecy would be inevitable from such even in marriage...

3. A man who is wilfully stubborn and rejects rebuke.

4. Marrying a man whose source of income cannot be explained and is not a miracle from God. My dear, he might as well be a Gigolo, a Political thief, or a Fraudster yet to be exposed.

5. A man who can't say sorry to his woman when he offends her and would allow an offence to alter his obligations to her. You may be pushed into a quick separation to find another that understands the principle of love from a man and submission from a woman.

6. Avoid the Man who insults you and your family at the same time. Marrying him might turn you into a wrestler or Voice Amplifier...

7. Run from a Man who cannot have a free week of no cursing while driving or outside his house, or keeps late night not work related or does not believe in dignity of labour.

8. Run from a man that's supportive to a lady for a selfish reason.
He will verbally run you down sooner or later.

9. Run from a man who hides his vices from you and extols his virtues only. You are supposed to build and correct each other in love or you may develop emotional breakdown sooner or later.

10. Avoid a Man that has no boundaries with women.
You will find some nasty things about them in marriage (including dirty video calls and chats) and ask yourself why you came this far with them.

11. Most importantly any man that does not see the need to read God's word daily and make it the foundation of his thoughts, words and deeds as well as if he doesn't see both of you working for God as one.