onefourseven:
Hello Nairalanders

I just discovered that my biological Dad is from Ozu-Abam in Abia state (Ohafia or Arochukwu) I've never met him since I was born, my mom just informed me today after much persuasion. Please any Nairalander from Ozu-Abam who can help me trace the Egbuta family? His name is Emeka Egbuta and according to my mom, he died before my birth (which I highly doubt).

I've searched FB and sent a couple of FR to as much Egbuta as I could, all from Ozu-Abam. Please I need help guys.

Mods please send to FP, abeg help me gain more audience.

CC RoyalRoy
CC Seun

excellence44:

Take this to Twitter and tag popular influencers

Foodqueen:
And some single mothers will think they have it all figured out.

The heart always wants more.

AndroidAI:
What use is your father if I may ask? Unless he's Dangote, i see no reason to seek out a deadbeat father who couldn't fight to be in your life for all these years. He will end up being a liability to you and nothing more. People need to learn to move on!

anthonyuncle:
please look for him, it is important

onefourseven:


So Dangote is permitted to be a deadbeat father right? I don't think you know how manipulative women can be.

Whether he's a deadbeat or livebeat or a liability, ion care man.

Foodqueen:
And some single mothers will think they have it all figured out.

The heart always wants more.

Jman06:
For those looking for "anonymous" sperm donors.

Let this be an eye opener that the child would look for his dad when he grows up and you could get killed or hated if you fail to show him his dad.

Cc: Pocohantas

NoToPile:


Loool, I hope single mothers are learning, ensure the Father plays a financial role in the life of the child. Don't do all alone oo.

Don't do it all alone, laslas you might be accused of being manipulative by the very one you sacrificed all for.

pocohantas:


Lol. I think you need to get your brain checked and at least figure out what is triggering this obsession. Anyone that follows me or is familiar with my posts would know I DO NOT encourage single mothers/divorcees taking or keeping away a child from his/her father. I have NEVER encouraged that act. Before you Cc me next time, do get your facts right.

If I face you now, you would start playing victim and claiming I pick on you and my bitterness is unbecoming. Do well to stay away from me for your own good.

Merry Christmas in advance.

DaniDani:


Among all the ladies I know in this site, I find you so amazing. Many times you have been slyted, yet you return vitepurations with soft response.

I am your secret admirer and your fan.
However, I am not a SIMP and I am not simping.

pocohantas:


Lol. I think you need to get your brain checked and at least figure out what is triggering this obsession. Anyone that follows me or is familiar with my posts would know I DO NOT encourage single mothers/divorcees taking or keeping away a child from his/her father. I have NEVER encouraged that act. Before you Cc me next time, do get your facts right.

If I face you now, you would start playing victim and claiming I pick on you and my bitterness is unbecoming. Do well to stay away from me for your own good.

Merry Christmas in advance.

DaniDani:


Many times you have been slyted, yet you return vitepurations with soft response.

GloriousGbola:




Accurate Picture of pocohantas soft smile after bringing gun to knifefight / tank to gun fight / a10 warthog to ground skirmish

pocohantas:


Lol. It is Christmas, I am of my best behaviour this season.

NoToPile:


Loool, I hope single mothers are learning, ensure the Father plays a financial role in the life of the child. Don't do all alone oo.

Don't do it all alone, laslas you might be accused of being manipulative by the very one you sacrificed all for.

kodix:
Hmmm all this people that will always look for someone who don't even want them or even care.I wonder what u stand to gain sha

pocohantas:


I am even shocked someone is Cc-ing me on this. I would never understand why they do that. I have said it here that except you are a Linda Ikeji, you would crumble. Even Linda wanted the man involved but he refused.

Asides the fact that a child needs a balance of both parents, it is TOXIC to restrict the child’s access to the other parent. Sometimes they grow to idolise the absent parent. They would convince themselves they would have been better or stable adults if the absent parent was around.

I see SMs every other time on social media. Many of them end up begging for giveaway and playing the single mother card to evoke sympathy. Some end up dating married men. Some cannot get to their full potentials because they are playing dad and mum while working to feed this child (or children). Get the man involved! If he was a bad partner, was he also a bad father? They are two different things.

Samantha123:
Why look for a man who hasn't bothered to look for you and wants nothing to do with you

What if you find him and he denies you?

mariahAngel:


You know, mothers always have it worse.

If the Op's case were the other way around (not knowing his mum), the story would've been that his mother abandoned him when he was just a child (without caring to know what happened).

Justbehave:
Trash as usuall. Tell us you don't have a father.