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Re: I Suspect My Wife by emmaodet: 2:27am On Jan 10, 2023
rickpat:
she truly misses him...but it's wrong for her to continue to keep in touch... honestly,they are vaccums only the deepest friendship can fill and marriage can never fill such vaccum...

confront your wife and let her discontinue the communication with the dude...

LIFE IS FUNNY, SOMETIMES WE DON'T MARRY THE PERSON THAT WE TRULY MISS...

talk to your wife buddy.. good luck

Life most times won’t give us what we want rather make do with whatever we have.
I also don’t like the environment am staying, I don’t like the country I am, I don’t like the job am doing.
I am not fully satisfied with the car am using nor the phone I am using but I have to thank God, be contented and make do with what have got not bitching or flirting around all in the name of Women marry who is ready and not who they Love.
Even if they get who they Love, it is just a function of time. You get bored with the person and start eyeing another person.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by emmaodet: 2:30am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

Lol

She is even gaslighting you on top.

Honestly, I think men need to start taking full responsibility of their homes or marriage because this bill sharing or financial help of women is causing see finish in relationships and marriages.

A woman can only alter that statement if she is contributing financially in the marriage and dare you to do your worst because she believes without her stipends, the man tend to suffer more financially.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Rollitout: 2:38am On Jan 10, 2023
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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Charlesochigbog: 2:58am On Jan 10, 2023
Bros calm down any body can miss anyone, do you check to see,if their are any further chart from ur wife phone, showing there are still doing any affairs,have you monitor her phone to know if they used to speak on phone every time, it possible to tell ur old school friend that you miss him or her,but always avoid anything that will give you heart attack,
Re: I Suspect My Wife by TBrown77(m): 3:31am On Jan 10, 2023
I hope the vacation to US will not be a platform use by the ex to perfect the cheating. May I ask, how will you feel if you found out that your wife CHEAT you with this same very guy? Yoruba says " ere kin laja mba egun see" lobatan

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by bitingcool: 3:34am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?


so because she is married. she cannot miss another human being again. even if he is a guy, can she not miss him? make she dey miss woman wey be lesbian partner then your BP go low. your wife is first and always a human being please. you talking, is there no female u miss? abegiii

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by donem: 3:39am On Jan 10, 2023
BigCowHornn:
Abeg make una no dey make me fear I just got married
smileyHe that runs away from reality, only postpones doomsday.

Besides this your Moniker cheesy

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Maski87: 3:46am On Jan 10, 2023
which woman will not miss a man with a very big cassava

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Ammmy: 4:39am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?
get out
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Blissguts: 4:51am On Jan 10, 2023
TimT:
Marriage is not for the faint hearted ooo....
Infact, marriage in this 21st century is more harder than before becoz of the issue of trust brought about by the advent of internet....
Any marriage that both parties "Read each other chat in their phone" may likely lead to end of the marriage...
I'm not saying u shouldn't check each other phones, but at least try to give each other some modicum of privacy...


Arise O Compatriots..........

I don't think there is privacy in marriage. Marriage is where your unclothedness shouldn't make you ashamed / fidget even the least. I speak in parable
Re: I Suspect My Wife by afamaustin(m): 5:10am On Jan 10, 2023
One of the reasons l don't go to my wife phone
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Emola12(m): 5:28am On Jan 10, 2023
Start to dey monitor the chat as from today going
Re: I Suspect My Wife by VEHINTOLAR: 5:29am On Jan 10, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

I got a divine instruction not to type what I had in mind for you,otherwise........,,,...! I can't believe it that a grown up,married man typed the gibberish you did up there !
Re: I Suspect My Wife by lildush(m): 5:44am On Jan 10, 2023
U may be on ur way to cater for someone's child or children. If u don't take action now.. take note of this
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Siscooh: 5:51am On Jan 10, 2023
Juicethekid:
it isn't proper, emotional attachment involved, don't overlook!

She just said it. Nothing will ever happen. Don't bother
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Tommydare(m): 5:58am On Jan 10, 2023
She might as well intentionally leave it there just to play mind games with the guy. She will prolly say the same thing you said. "If I have anything to do with the guy, do you think I will be that stupid to leave the chat?" Just to confuse the guy na.
ifihearam:
If your ex or old classmates tells you they miss you and you reply back with " miss you too' does that mean your wife should be worried?

If she had ulterior motives she would have deleted it.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Jossymekoos10: 5:59am On Jan 10, 2023
rickpat:
she truly misses him...but it's wrong for her to continue to keep in touch... honestly,they are vaccums only the deepest friendship can fill and marriage can never fill such vaccum...

confront your wife and let her discontinue the communication with the dude...

LIFE IS FUNNY, SOMETIMES WE DON'T MARRY THE PERSON THAT WE TRULY MISS...

talk to your wife buddy.. good luck


Thanks for your comment sir
But no matter who you marry
You must at a point miss other people
The responsibility is on you to caution yourself and to know that you are not an animal
You must control yourself and stick to your choice
Of course this can only be done with the help of the Holy spirit

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Collyno82(m): 6:14am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?
WE lost this one
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Joeyfizzo: 6:16am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?
she is wrong. She Shud cut all ties immediately
Re: I Suspect My Wife by SuperBlack: 6:20am On Jan 10, 2023
rickpat:
she truly misses him...but it's wrong for her to continue to keep in touch... honestly,they are vaccums only the deepest friendship can fill and marriage can never fill such vaccum...

confront your wife and let her discontinue the communication with the dude...

LIFE IS FUNNY, SOMETIMES WE DON'T MARRY THE PERSON THAT WE TRULY MISS...

talk to your wife buddy.. good luck
Your kind is truly Rare on Social media, I love your wisdom and your understanding
Re: I Suspect My Wife by bluebay(m): 6:24am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure
Hey hey bros, slap her eye burst instantly. Better slap. That’s a fucking red flag.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by JAGS001(m): 6:25am On Jan 10, 2023
Sorry sir but bringing your matter to nairaland is a suic*de please get advise else where nairalanders will only use something serious bothering you to catch cruise most especially your relationship or matrimonial issue.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Osobi32(m): 6:27am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure
I will advice you take the matter very seriously and make sure she stop any form of communication with the guy else.....Hmmm! Oga it takes nothing for a woman to cheat oooo.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by teadrake(m): 6:31am On Jan 10, 2023
Softmirror:



grin LOL...SEE WHAT THIS ONE IS SAYING?! IT'S NOT MATURITY BUT STUPIDITY OF THE HIGHEST ORDER. D

IT IS VERY CLEAR THAT YOU DON'T TRUELY LOVE YOUR WIFE AND YOU ARE A VERY WEAK MAN. IS IT YOUR WIFE'S EX THAT ALSO PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR WIFE? WOMEN LOVE WEAK MEN LIKE YOU!!!
This is uppercut my brother!!! Police should arrest that man on behalf of the men's association.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Father4all: 6:33am On Jan 10, 2023
Bro shine your eyes. I'm sorry to say this, the guy will fu*k her when the need and time arise.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Oceanjagaban: 6:40am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?
Them dey knack o
Re: I Suspect My Wife by danhans(m): 6:43am On Jan 10, 2023
rickpat:
she truly misses him...but it's wrong for her to continue to keep in touch... honestly,they are vaccums only the deepest friendship can fill and marriage can never fill such vaccum...

confront your wife and let her discontinue the communication with the dude...

LIFE IS FUNNY, SOMETIMES WE DON'T MARRY THE PERSON THAT WE TRULY MISS...

talk to your wife buddy.. good luck
Hat is just it
Re: I Suspect My Wife by IamtheTruth1(m): 6:45am On Jan 10, 2023
chimeremodlyn:


Abeg you guys should shut up already. Must everywoman cheat with her ex. What are you guys even saying? Haba

I just hope you ain't 40 yet.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by JABB(m): 6:47am On Jan 10, 2023
NEWBIN:
Beat her blue black
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Franklydes(m): 6:51am On Jan 10, 2023
Juicethekid:
it isn't proper, emotional attachment involved, don't overlook!
you too correct. Your head dey there
Re: I Suspect My Wife by jojothaiv(m): 6:54am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure
Don't fall for that.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Franklydes(m): 6:54am On Jan 10, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?
No form gentle man or civilised husband with this matter. If this happens and you not aware is also means she is getting tired of you and wants something different and viola this guy came through so brother act fast and wisely

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