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My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by UnfairLife7(m): 10:15am On Jan 20, 2023 |
My pregnant neighbour has been so restless and sick having discovered she's carry twin This neighbour of mine is pregnant with 6 other kids. She has been finding it difficult to feed her family including her 6 children. Her husband is an electrician and plumber but he hasn't been getting job inorder to take care of his family. The children had been out of school for several years I live with my aunt who's a widow. I saw my aunt stressed out yesterday and worried and i was wondering what could be the problem. She was the one who told me about the woman predicament. My aunt has emptied her little foodstuffs because of this woman and her children. My aunt is just a poor widow who's managing herself and kids but she can't stand the sight of this woman and her children hungry. My aunt told me the woman's friend advice her to inject the pregnancy through abortion. She's six months gone and according to those her friends even nine months pregnancy can be aborted provided she has the money and her state of mind is willing to not forceful According to her friends, they felt that's the best decision she could consider due to her condition. She cannot even feed the ones on ground, they are not going to school and she's still carry twin right in her womb. She hasn't gotten any baby things. It was my aunt that took her for antenatal when the pregnancy was in 4 months stage. She has been so confused on what to do. My aunt wasn't in support of it though, same time she doesn't have money to support her and her children. Nigeria isn't saner climes where government support the less privileges. She will be having 8 children in total if she chose not to abort it. What will become the fate of these innocent children? How will she survive with these children in Nigeria? She fainted yesterday and was rushed to the hospital. It was confirmed that she has been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions. Her family and that of the husband had been so helpful according to her and it has really taken a toll on them. She even lost one of her uncle who has been supportive. This woman is sad, she's broken and shattered into pieces. I'm even scared of her life because she's not getting good medical attention for her condition. She doesn't eat well for herself and the foetus. I'm even bothered about her life, I sincerely hope all what she's going through wouldn't tell on her on the day of delivery. Please what's your advice for this woman and her family 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Shalommy(f): 10:25am On Jan 20, 2023 |
This matter CHOKE!! What was the jobless man thinking when he entered the woman's kpekus? Let him carry his cross jare. Chaii 125 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by dobnina(f): 10:28am On Jan 20, 2023 |
This is very painful and sad. She should have gone for family planning after the sixth child. Its too late to abort. She should stop thinking so it doesn't affect her health and the babies. God will surely come through for her and her husband. 123 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by UnfairLife7(m): 10:32am On Jan 20, 2023 |
dobnina:she was on family planning according to my aunt but it turns out that she was bleeding profusely and it was as a result of the family planning she does. She had to stopped it for her safety. I think it was those period she stopped the family plan she got pregnant 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by gaby(m): 10:34am On Jan 20, 2023 |
They are manufacturing them to get shipped out as slaves who'd end up getting abused and ultimately killed by their buyers in the guise of housemaids. Shameful and a disgrace. I wished I could get a chance with the useless man. 27 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Tk4all(m): 10:35am On Jan 20, 2023 |
I think she should go with the abortion option. 6 children in our present naija no be small thing. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Cutehector(m): 10:37am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Mchew.. The man knows he has six children, they decided to have unprotected sex again.. What did u expect? Cake to be born? Ok..can we set up a gofundme acc for her? 88 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by dobnina(f): 10:40am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Tk4all:Noooooooooooo. Abortion is risky at this stage. If anything happens to her, the husband will run away and the 6 children will suffer. Pls let her stay alive, give birth to the twins, hustle more with her husband and take care of all of them. 58 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Tk4all(m): 10:47am On Jan 20, 2023 |
dobnina:OK o The husband sef na nonsense person. How you go de give wife belle when you no get shishi? If this woman no gree give baba for night now, all this boys wey no know wetin the sup go begin talk anyhow. Its Well 71 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Zonefree(m): 10:58am On Jan 20, 2023 |
As long as the husband is alive, you and your aunt should stop worrying and interfering. When they were knacking, what are they expecting? Plasma TV 90 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Mindlog: 11:14am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Very irresponsible couple. They both had the option of vasectomy and hysterectomy but opted to go on a breeding spree. Their kids have been out of school for many years, which is even a security risk to the neighborhood as they would start out with petty stealing from their neighbours before transforming to something more deadlier, I wouldn't be shocked if the girls among them become sexually active at a way younger age.... all because of the stupidity of their parents. 73 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Nobody: 11:20am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Your neighbor and him wife dey craze why you dey disturb us for here with this nonsense talk. shey we follow them enjoy the fvck 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Kobojunkiee: 11:23am On Jan 20, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:1. What has Nigeria to do with the foolishness of your neighbor? 2. What does it matter what the women feels? Did anyone stop her and her husband from using protection /family planning before now? Focus on getting the Kids out from under such foolish parents instead. Is there child services that can come take them away or something? 3. The last thing the couple needs is your pity. Instead, they need to be made to realize their wickedness instead. Educate your aunt abeg so she can stop enabling them in their foolishness. It is the kids who instead need to to found a better home away from that wickedness that is their parents. 37 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Mindlog: 11:26am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Child services in Nigeria? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Nobody: 11:26am On Jan 20, 2023 |
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Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Kobojunkiee: 11:28am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Mindlog:Na hope I get say something like that dey to rescue those poor souls. 4 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Karleb(m): 11:33am On Jan 20, 2023 |
I have no pity to spare here. Irresponsible people. 4 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Mindlog: 11:56am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: In summary, Nigerian children are not protected from neglect and abuse. They tend to get needed intervention after some social media noise over an incident as preventive measures are almost non-existent. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Houseofglam7(f): 12:06pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Their business |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by NaBanga: 12:20pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
There are wealthy families who would love to adopt newborn babies. It might be tricky to find one because of evil people. However it's possible she can meet a family on her own. Abortion at this stage is possible, but it's not advisable due to the risk of the mother's life. After she gives birth she should definitely go for a permanent sterilization. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by DBestDoc(f): 12:29pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: My advice is for them to enroll the other 6 children in a public school. There’s no reason why those children should be out of school considering the fact that Public schools are FREE. About her pregnancy, she’ll be fine. She’s already used to and enjoys being broke and hungry. No problems at all. 6 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by UnfairLife7(m): 12:37pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
DBestDoc:I also suggested she put the kids in public school but i overheard her sometime discussing with someone in igbo saying public school, Nba. Meaning she doesn't want her kids to attend public school She was even saying she doesn't have the money to get them uniform, sandals and writing materials 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by ibechris(m): 12:43pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
So many men have self-destroyed themselves in this country that u can't explain. Yes,u are poor and still birthing more children, no be juju be that. It is shocking to hear things like this. Good luck to her. As u lay ur bed,na so u go lie untop am. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Holla911(m): 12:53pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
The husband should be arrested and flogged for being stupid. Why bring into this wicked world children you can't cater for ? He is a wicked and foolish man. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Richy4(m): 12:53pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
She shouldn't be stressed..She is a dutiful, good and fruitful wife...The husband is a virile and 'electrifying' man... both of them can handle it no matter what...Make them carry go ' 11 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Tokskob2008: 1:02pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
I just don't get why we Africans like to reproduce like pigs and the worst is there's nothing to feed the piglets with..... 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Rechargeam247(f): 1:41pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Children are God's gifts but hey, you need to take precautions. They should find other sources of income, that's just the way out. They have a family of 12 to cater for. |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:52pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Let her give birth and then handover the children for adoption, simple as ABC. Let her Search for TTC groups or pregnancy groups on Facebook, join the groups, then post her predicament. There are so many childless women in those groups who would be happy to adopt her babies. Also tell the woman that she is endangering her life giving birth to plenty children. Why do you blame the government? Is it the government that tell people to breed plenty children? She birth 1-6 babies and is now in the 7th pregnancy. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Foodqueen(f): 2:05pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Hmmmm |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Ulunne777(f): 2:47pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
When she knew the family planning had Been removed,she and her husband should have halted sexual relations until a suitable one is pit in place. I once offered to take someone like her to family planning,I didnt see her again.Imagine a woman going to her 1st daughters house for omugwo with her own baby. She should release the babies for Adoption.Thats the only remedy. 5 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Richy4(m): 2:57pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: Those days have gone dear... It's now Good and well trained Children are God's gift...so many children nowadays are potential menace to the society If they were not well trained.. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Neighbour Has Been Restless Because She's Carrying Twin by Mindlog: 3:22pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Ulunne777: It is nothing new in some communities. Way back I had a coursemate in the Uni, his nephew is older than him and 2 years ahead of us in school. My coursemate's mother' was pregnant with him when she went for omugwo for her granddaughter/his niece. So both nephew and niece are older than their uncle. The shock that went through me! 6 Likes 4 Shares |
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