like I said before tell him to join your church, and pray loud to pple's hearing during mass.

[kilasos] i think they dont want ur union with him. try see their facts.tell them to stop beating arround the bush.

Hi Kilasos

I know it's your birthday since I got it stored in my notebook. Thank God it's your birthday and I pray that Better things would cross your path, May Your Desires in Christ be fulfilled and May you live long to fulfil His plans for your Life.

Happy Plus One, and Happy Birthday.

Long Life and Prosperity.

God Bless You. and how about your Marital Issue! It is well, Hope in God, and He'll bring it to pass.

All the Best

i met a guy who is catholic,drinks alcohol andwould nt mind sex(though i made it clear ,tat is no go area.)iam 2 yrs older than him.we served 2gether and we hav a great relationship.he cares alot abt me,always puts me into consideration in all he does,he is husband material but my problem is dat i am scared cos my idea of an ideal partner is quite different.no sex , no drinking of alcohol,non catholic,older than .me but now am so into him.inshort am confused wat shld i do .advice me

beautybos:

i met a guy who is catholic,drinks alcohol andwould nt mind sex(though i made it clear ,tat is no go area.)iam 2 years older than him.we served 2gether and we hav a great relationship.he cares alot about me,always puts me into consideration in all he does,he is husband material but my problem is that i am scared because my idea of an ideal partner is quite different.no sex , no drinking of alcohol,non catholic,older than .me but now am so into him.inshort am confused what shld i do .advice me

Drinking is a part of life, its nothing to be worried about as long as he doesnt abuse it. Sex is mandatory, forget all the fornication jargon and age is nothing but a number as long as he doesnt act his shoesize(heard that from a female lol). Stop being so damned naive.

Actually the problem with you females is that y'all go into every relationship looking for "husband material" while the guy just wanna have some fun and if it develops into something else, great wateva. If y'all think like dudes y'all won't be so damned confused all the time.

beautybos:

i met a guy who is catholic,drinks alcohol andwould nt mind sex(though i made it clear ,tat is no go area.)iam 2 years older than him.we served 2gether and we hav a great relationship.he cares alot about me,always puts me into consideration in all he does,he is husband material but my problem is that i am scared because my idea of an ideal partner is quite different.no sex , no drinking of alcohol,non catholic,older than .me but now am so into him.inshort am confused what shld i do .advice me

Beautybos!

Marriage is not a child's play, I'd suggest you sincerely seek God's face about it. Marrying someone out of His will can be disastrous. Pray about it and choose wisely! You've scored the guy lesser than your expectation of an ideal husband, Then why go for him I think the red signal is obvious but you're trying to take no cognisance of it.

I'd rather say beware! cos marrying a wrong fellow could come along with the engagement ring, wedding ring and suffe - ring.

Just take your time to pray more and don't be too emotionally about it.

All the best.

ha ha ha , pardon myu sarcasm, but do such things still happen in the 21st century.let them know that God would not decide a life partner for any one, its ur life gurl! am i too hard?

@olrotimi
It does happen, He is still the God of the past, present and the future.

He's promised to direct and order our steps and that is, if and only if we permit/invite Him. It's a matter of choice, because He won't force His will on you, But I'm pretty sure, He'd direct us, if we do ask Him to.