leisuretym:


🤣😃🤣🤣😂

Imagine trying to force 3 people on me in this present economy, nah to Japa!😂😂

The mama is already feeling the economy heat, having to care for late sister kids in the village alone, she want to transfer the responsibility to the innocent man, na to run away , abandon all of them

DavidEsq:

Vawulence for vawulence 😂😂😂😂😂😂

DavidEsq:

My brother, imagine o😂😂😂😂 I don't why diz old peeps just think we don't have and na dem wise pass.

Stevenbright:


Maybe "Sense or Smartness" for "Sense or Smartness" because when some of us are doing wrong things to others, they will think they are being smart. But when same is done to them, they will now consider it as wickedness.

Zihno:



Chief, your wife is the problem. Tell her to her face that she’s the cause of all your wahala.


While we are all different, if I was in your position, I will also inform and involve my family so they know that my wife and her people are trying to kill me. Furthermore, I will explicitly tell my wife that any action to force or trick me into accepting responsibilities that do not belong to me is enough ground for divorce. If she’s so caring, she can move out, get her own place and care for the kids.

ArcFresky:
Stand your ground.
Just promise you will be Sending money to them to take care of the twins.

If they move in… your own don be

Zihno:



OP, ignore this nonsense advice. You have absolutely no business with the father. His actions do not concern you. Do not involve yourself with him. In fact, don’t call him or attempt to beg him to take care of his responsibilities. FACE YOUR FAMILY.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian Men are Ungrateful and Us*less.....All of them

leisuretym:


🤣😃🤣🤣😂

Imagine trying to force 3 people on me in this present economy, nah to Japa!😂😂

The mama is already feeling the economy heat, having to care for late sister kids in the village alone, she want to transfer the responsibility to the innocent man, na to run away , abandon all of them

Akunatakasi:
The way this country be .. person no suppose carry another burden 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 Omo the kind run I go run... Even my people no go know where I dey

Foodqueen:
You believe you aren't financially buoyant but your wife's family think you are ok.

Stand your ground.

I hate when inlaws have entitlement mentality.

Oboh662






I had to go read your other post about her lactating during your courtship

Are you sure, those twins aren't hers There is nothing we haven't read on here before.

Maybe you should go close to the suppose father of the twins, if you are in good terms. He might help you.

Foodqueen:
You believe you aren't financially buoyant but your wife's family think you are ok.

Stand your ground.

I hate when inlaws have entitlement mentality.

Oboh662


I had to go read your other post about her lactating during your courtship

Are you sure, those twins aren't hers There is nothing we haven't read on here before.

Maybe you should go close to the suppose father of the twins, if you are in good terms. He might help you.

leisuretym:


OP, find out if the twins are hers .
Do some investigation

Oboh662:




Thank you. The lactating issue was a medical condition she had received treatment and it had stopped. the twins aren't hers, our first child together is 6 months while the twins are 4 months. No I can't go close to him because I don't think it is my duty to do so , talking to him will not bring anything they should take him to welfare to force him to sign undertaking to ensure that he will be responsible for his 6 children.

Akunatakasi:


Nuisance like you are not welcomed in this kind of discussion.. matured people are discussing.. go wash plate

Oboh662:
Adnin do not push this to the front page

I've posted some weeks ago about my wife family wanted us to take over her late sister twins children she left behind, I have refused because I am not financially buoyant and it has caused a lot of problems between my wife and I even her family thinks that I am heartless for refusing to help these orphans.
Few weeks ago my wife junior called to say that my mother in law was sick and she want my wife to visit her and I have agreed for her to visit. She left for a week and when she returned back she said that her mother is seriously sick and she want her and the twins to moved in until she recovered. I've told her she can go back to her village and comes back while her mother recover and she refused saying it will be better for her to moved in with us because the environment is better than in the village.
I immediately knew that her mother is actually not sick and they had both plan for her mother to move in so she can leave the twins with us. I refused and I've told her I have no problem for her to go and stay in the village with her mother until she recover.she said no and she reported to her mother saying I don't want her to come in my house and she called me crying saying that I refused her daughter to take care of her and if she dies the blame will be on me . I just don't understand why my wife and her people want me to carry the responsibility that doesn't belong me. The children father is alive they don't want to bother him he is roaming free while they are on my neck to take these babies knowing full well that I am not financially buoyant and she alone won't be able to handle 3 babies at the same which mean she will also needs a helper maybe one of her younger one might have to come and stay with us to help her with the babies she will also become my responsibility.
I want them to leave me alone and focus on the children father and I just don't know what to do so they can leave me alone. I am sick and tired of this situations it has started to stress me..what do I do to stop them ?

Oboh662:
Adnin do not push this to the front page

I've posted some weeks ago about my wife family wanted us to take over her late sister twins children she left behind, I have refused because I am not financially buoyant and it has caused a lot of problems between my wife and I even her family thinks that I am heartless for refusing to help these orphans.
Few weeks ago my wife junior called to say that my mother in law was sick and she want my wife to visit her and I have agreed for her to visit. She left for a week and when she returned back she said that her mother is seriously sick and she want her and the twins to moved in until she recovered. I've told her she can go back to her village and comes back while her mother recover and she refused saying it will be better for her to moved in with us because the environment is better than in the village.
I immediately knew that her mother is actually not sick and they had both plan for her mother to move in so she can leave the twins with us. I refused and I've told her I have no problem for her to go and stay in the village with her mother until she recover.she said no and she reported to her mother saying I don't want her to come in my house and she called me crying saying that I refused her daughter to take care of her and if she dies the blame will be on me . I just don't understand why my wife and her people want me to carry the responsibility that doesn't belong me. The children father is alive they don't want to bother him he is roaming free while they are on my neck to take these babies knowing full well that I am not financially buoyant and she alone won't be able to handle 3 babies at the same which mean she will also needs a helper maybe one of her younger one might have to come and stay with us to help her with the babies she will also become my responsibility.
I want them to leave me alone and focus on the children father and I just don't know what to do so they can leave me alone. I am sick and tired of this situations it has started to stress me..what do I do to stop them ?

Oboh662:



Thank you. I didn't want to involve my family for this matter but the way things has now escalate , I have to involve them I will talk to my parents today.

DesChyko:
Is there a guarantee that the 'serious sickness' will disappear if she comes to your house? You already have a stand and I applaud it

Since they are so interested in pushing the death agenda forward, remind them that the cost of moving a corpse home is #100k or even more. 😏

DesChyko:
Is there a guarantee that the 'serious sickness' will disappear if she comes to your house? You already have a stand and I applaud it

Since they are so interested in pushing the death agenda forward, remind them that the cost of moving a corpse home is #100k or even more. 😏

Fiscus105:
You too be faking no money and cashless policy to prevent her and others coming to ur house nah.