Hello fellow nairalanders,pls your candid advice is needed.

My friend went out with his fiancee to buy launch for her.While they were going,a man approached his fiancee and offer to buy drink for her without the guy's concert.The girl picked a can of malt and gala and the guy paid.The girl went back to her fiance who in turn asked her who the man was.She said she didn't know that the man just approached her.The man after paying for the malt called the girl to have side talks with her,the girl stepped out a bit with him.My friend was standing watching the two of them.From his observation,the man was asking the fiancee to go a bit far for more discussions but the girl refused.My friend who felt disrespected watching this drama in his presence walked up to the man and excused him and went out with the fiancee.

My question now is:is my friend wrong for excusing the man and went away with the fiancee or should he ought to have left them or if you are in my friend's shoes what would you have done?

Your friend did the perfect thing like a gentleman, a lot of guys would have probably resorted to violence or exchange of words. An adage in Yoruba says "oun t'a ba fi sile l'ewure n gbe" this in eglish means " whatever we leave unattended to will be carried by a goat".

First qtn, why did the lady oblige the man buying her those stuffs. I tot the two of them went out for lunch. So she preferred a stranger's malt n gala to whatever her fiancé will get for her. As much as I would want to blame the man, I think the girl have case to answer if I were to be in your friend's shoe.

Tell your friend to dump her sorry arse fast. A word is enough for the wise!

That girl is rude to not even acknowledge the presence of her fiancee ---