MightySparrow:
. You said he is your husband. Not our husband. Since he is your husband legally, culturally, and spirituality married fight for your home, fight for your children, fight for your family. If you are a christian I would recommend you watch Wat Room on YouTube. Take a decision in prayers. God answers prayers. If you do any stupid thing, you and your children would suffer it alone. The man will start another family.You can stop the nonsense on your knees. Polygamy is evil as well as being a single mother.

It affects children's psychology and emotional well being. Anyway, why can't you brace up and use the right weapon to get your msn back? Why won't you sit together and be happy with your children and husband?Learn how to pray and get your man back.
I look forward to hearing your testimony soon.

Lawalemi:
Pray

Formation10:
He is your husband call him and talk him about it,if he doesn't change report him to his family and see if his family is in support of it,if they are in support of it, the only way to get him back is by prayer

Invest4growth:
First I commend your write up on its being short and straight to the issue. I symphatise with you on the mental torture you are going through. You need to play their game with them. By this I mean you need to upgrade yourself by your appearance, flagrances, quality of food. You too must work on your husband to take you on regular visits to your families. Engage him regularly. Make yourself available for him. Pray for him.always. Send him text messages even voice notes. Make the home conducive for him to want to come. Join them to play the game with the objective of winning your husband back. Make him feel guilty for turning against you. Be happy always. No.fighting in your marriage. Focus on the goal of winning. Do not accuse him that you knew of his mistress. You up your game!

farmerking:
This case has gone beyond sitting down to fold your hands, this is war but not physical one, l mean spiritual battle because for your husband's side chick mother to be involve, it means they are ready either to push you out of your matrimonial home or kill you. So this is real war, you have to engage in prayer and fasting to scatter their plan and forcefully take back your home from home breakers.. The Lord will give victory, your home will not be taking over by stranger. The might God will scatter everyone of their evil plan against your life and family. In the name of Jesus Christ.

drololaaof:

Haa you are a wicked soul ,how can you advice to go and cheat .
The best she can do is to monitor and pray that God put sand into the side chik soup . Don't over react we do not know your character how you behave to your husband ,family and friends . It is difficult to judge by your complaints

nsesam:
Pls be prayerful. The devil doesn't like marriage

Karlifate:
Nigerian wives need to encourage their husbands, stop dressing like old women: be your husband's pörnstar, randomly send cute texts (online or offline) because he might be unable to pick calls at that point in time: This singular act will even endear him more to you, stop challenging his authority (especially in front of your kids & other third parties), pray for your home, stop keeping unprogressive friends
Etc...

Moneyline:
Just be praying for him to change

Kobojunkie:
Stop this nonsense abeg!

Namigotalktru:
Tell him about the girl so it is clear you know who she is. Tell his family.
call the girls mother and swear for her and her daughter and any offspring. Call your mother and give all their names make them start the prayer for “anybody that will be the destroyer on your marriage to him to fall die” Before all that secure as many assets as possible locate all land documents and transfer to your children’s name. Some men are so stupid they work with a good wife to make money then try to destroy destinies with olosho.

GistFullGround:
Pray for your husband, the "side chick" & Pray for the blessings of God so he will take care of you because God is not against a man marrying a second wife. Don't fight against God!

Karlifate:
Scroll along, if it's NOT meant for you.

Stop looking for trouble where there's none!

Kobojunkie:
Abeg stop with the foolishness! He is cheating and she is supposed to pray for him, why? Who send you that kain nonsense?

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, all you can do is decide for yourself whether you want to be part of the polygamous union that he has already forced on you — he already has at least one concubine, according to you — or whether you would rather divorce him and move on. I'm sorry but there isn't much else you can do.

Kobojunkie:
It isn't meant for any sane individual. Would you also take to praying if your wife was blatantly cheating on you? Why would you suggest that to anyone, even your own sister? No be the definition of craze be that?

Jesus Christ wey una dey pretend una dey believe said in case of adultery, feel free to get a divorce and remarry even. But here you dey advice another human being to sit and pray and turn herself into a porn star for the one who destroyed the marriage. NOnsense!

Namigotalktru:
■Is that where you stopped reading? Na una dey fail exam. If she could and wanted to she would have left already. If not she needs prepare and leave with something for her children when it’s time to pay school fees. Una awon online perpetually single feminists small girl with small god no go do transfer.

Karlifate:
■And who made you the spokesperson of the sane individuals You're just a daft kid. A wife's body is meant for the husband, and vice-versa. Quote me with another attention-seeking rubbish rhetoric.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not making any sense.

Asking her to pray when God said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God is nonsense.

sixtus3606:
■ lummy247 madam, please question him first (not violently), before applying the above advice.
■ Luckily, he might apologize and give up the habit (then there will be no need to apply the above advice).
■ God be with you.

Kobojunkie:
1. So, this man who is already sharing his body with another woman, is what? A good husband or an adulterous husband?

So, in your mind, while the man is busy sharing his body with anything with an innie out there, the wife is meant to stress her life by posing a porn star, preparing food, and also hiding her delusions by praying to God at home? Kai!

Namigotalktru:
■ Can you read? Did you read the first post or you just decided to come and make a nuisance of yourself in this thread? Are you the one we are advising? If it doesn’t apply why not go and do what you like with your single life? All the noise online in real life na your type and una mama be the side chick

Karlifate:
■ Another garbage. LMAO! 😂😂😂 When you're prepared for[b] sound intellectual discourse,[/b] quote me.

Namigotalktru:


Can you read? Did you read the first post or you just decided to come and make a nuisance of yourself in this thread?

Are you the one we are advising? If it doesn’t apply why not go and do what you like with your single life?

All the noise online in real life na your type and una mama be the side chick

Kobojunkie:
1. So, asking her to pray to a God who told you all almost 2000 years ago that He has no hand in your marriages is what you consider real life?

Namigotalktru:
■Maybe somebody swore for you. Maybe the wife of the person that is your sugar daddy don bury your destiny. That is your business. I am not addressing you. Frankly I don’t care what you believe or that you even exist. Go and stand by the roadside and do your work and stop disturbing people with your attention seeking. Is this your thread!All you these baby o lo shos with daddy issues no go let person rest then you wonder how you ended up where you are.

fm7070:
Ministry of 'Side Chicks' is blossoming because house wives are not renewing their mind and game.My advice to the OP. Focus of your deficiency - that is making your husband to feel relaxed in the arm of another woman. Your character, your home keeping, your children, how you honour him, etc

IyaebeTheGreat:
No husband will stress me in this life, that’s all I can say.

IyaebeTheGreat:
No husband will stress me in this life, that’s all I can say.