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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 6:56am On Apr 08, 2023
sisisioge:


You're surely going through hormonal blues. Pele. I hope this doesn't become a huge scar in your life. Biko go see a doctor for proper assessment of your pregnancy or non pregnancy. It will be crazier if you end up with an infection, incompetent uterus or congenital baby.

It is insane to have done it without a reason in the first place....meaning, you also need your mental state checked. Something is causing you to act unnaturally. It is really well fa.

Thanks for helping her out, Angel in Human Skin.


God Almighty Blesses You.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by transient123(m): 6:57am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

I can understand your plight. The did is done, reason you don't flirt with whosoever except your husband, close shop until you are married.

Nevertheless, seek for God's forgiveness, you might be lucky He does accept it, say no to fornicationr in the name of "wokism", nothing woke about opening your legs except to your husband, it's shameful and sinful....lastly, just know you ain't different from Bokoharam, bandit or ipob and other dreadful terminators of lives, a murderer is a murderer no matter the guise he or she does it. Sha seek absolute repentant and never go back. Salam!

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Gunayo(m): 7:02am On Apr 08, 2023
joeeee240:


But why will a girl want to remove her baby when her partner is supportive?
Because he is not the father of the child. Trust them at your own peril. Also she still want to continue to enjoy more sex with other men that's why she doesn't want to settle down now.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by anthonyuncle(m): 7:08am On Apr 08, 2023
Oksman:


Which forgiveness?

for the murder committed

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Omoze12: 7:09am On Apr 08, 2023
Yea this phase too shall pass

Please don’t think
Thinking is only a waste of time

I pray God gives you the mind to bear this.

It’s not easy to go through this and still remain sane, you will not give birth to a deformed child baby girl ❤️

Trendygurly:

I hear !! Thanks for the suggestion.
But I wouldn’t want to put my family in mystery the way I’ve put myself!!
I’ll bounce back
This phase shall pass
I’ll testify
Bookmark this !!
I’m not the first to feel this way and I won’t be the last!!

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Shinor(m): 7:12am On Apr 08, 2023
[quote author=Tayorshd2 post=122345400]Have once made such mistake too and it's Abt 11 years ago ..

But recently God just answered my prayer again by giving me a male child but most of my friends that they gave birth then ehn thier children are now Abt 11/12 years but mine is just 2months old baby 😢😭

Am not really happy with it but what can I do ?

So because your friends kids are 11 and 12 years old and yours is just 2 months old you are unhappy?
What if you have not given birth at all up til now how would you feel?
Why do people like comparing themselves to others ? While your friends kept their pregnancy, you aborted yours. Now you are unhappy that their children are older than yours. You're such a bitter soul.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by DevilSignature: 7:20am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
Wait make I call righteousness2 for you
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by iLoveYouToo(m): 7:25am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly you write like someone I know, maybe it’s you

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by popcykaylah(m): 7:26am On Apr 08, 2023
See a doctor to have you examined .he or she will ask you to do a scan again ,so as to avoid bleeding or damaging your womb.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by SaintLucia: 7:28am On Apr 08, 2023
Abortion is a sin especially when carry-out without any justification.

Always seek forgiveness from God.

Do away with people that will not add value to your life especially if you are one of the obidiences and surround yourself with progressive minded people.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by dinachi(m): 7:28am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
That is what feminism does to a female soul. Stop, una no he hear.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Nobody: 7:28am On Apr 08, 2023
SisterAnn:
You also hate the truth. Too much for one person.

You are trolling someone that is going through mental breakdown... You seriously need a psychiatrist
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Teymanhenry(f): 7:28am On Apr 08, 2023
if you are not ready to have a baby you can always make a choice early enough. You can use drugs 💊 like misoprostol and misoferm which combo is 95% effective. Well I personally believe it's better to prevent bringing a child to a world where you ain't ready to take every responsibility on and wait until u are ready. Meanwhile, God didn't give you that pregnancy, remember you got it outta wedlock, so Keep Him out of it. I'll advice you go for a test in a hospital so that you can know what's actually happening to you and you can be ad iced on what next to do by a professional

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by DestinyNigga: 7:34am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
You will get over it. There's nobody without sin. Just ask God for forgiveness. You will be fine.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Cutehector(m): 7:41am On Apr 08, 2023
Lmao...women..seeking online sympathies so they can feel good for their mischief. Mchew.


Your boyfriendd even begged you to keep the baby, as normal, a woman will always be loyal to her feelings. You went ahead to kill a baby to feel alright.

It backfired, you now came online to garner sympathies to feel alright too., not caring about the feelings of the baby you killed, the man who begged you to keep the baby.

And then we have simps who will be like..aww sorrrry, you will be fine, nobody is a saint, bla bla bla. Goats.


See eh, fear woman.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by vikstandon(m): 7:41am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.


Hmmm (28th November)... The baby was just one of us.

Abortion is never the way out.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by ShaqFu: 7:42am On Apr 08, 2023
Foodqueen:
Ouch!!!!

Medicine after death.
as in seriously.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by REUBEN1211: 7:44am On Apr 08, 2023
Please pray for the mercy of God upon ur life
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Nosa111(m): 7:49am On Apr 08, 2023
Sorry to ask
But how old are you ? grin grin grin
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Uniquekriss(m): 7:57am On Apr 08, 2023
Your sins are forgiven. Jesus paid it all... Go and sin no more!
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by godwon01(m): 7:58am On Apr 08, 2023
Why did you terminated the pregnancy despite the guy responsible for the pregnancy had accepted to look after you and the unborn baby. Why did you approached quark nurse to risk your life and your future. Anyway, that is medicine after death. Now, go and do ultrasound scans to know if you had got retained product. If the scan is normal, good luck. If other way round, go to proper hospital and re evacuate the retained product. After the procedure, they will treat you well with antibiotics. Wishing you best of luck and behave.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by mastermaestro(m): 7:59am On Apr 08, 2023
tiswell:
there Is no forgiveness in this kind of sin.

Abortion is a sin against the holy spirit,and the bible says it's unforgivable.

Dear sis,@op,you just booked a space in el-faya!

Abortion is a sin. How you classified it as a sin against the HOLY SPIRIT is the part you need to delete right away. Stop turning the Bible upside down. sad
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by RoadMozart(m): 8:03am On Apr 08, 2023
Na you sabi

Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by caandi: 8:06am On Apr 08, 2023
joeeee240:


But why will a girl want to remove her baby when her partner is supportive?
diff reasons are attached, I rem asking some school mates then into bf/gf stuff and runs reason they did what they did
One said the bf is a cheat and she’s scared if she gets married to him cos of the pregnancy she will see shege, they were in love but he was a flirt and she had trust issues
The other was due to Shame of what her parents and the society would say, as she was a worker in church and her church was against getting married with pregnancy

Abnormal tins do happen o
As a lady it’s good to be chaste, keep yourself for the right man , but na mumu or holier Dan thou dem Dey call us for school
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by OBTOREPA(m): 8:08am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
You have not truly repented,you can not deceive God because he is a spirit. You are only feeling this way because
1. You senses danger (You don't know whether if you will still conceive again?
2. Your boyfriend may leave you there after.
ADVICE: Stop fornication completely and repent truly.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Karmaisme(m): 8:10am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:

I hear !! Thanks for the suggestion.
But I wouldn’t want to put my family in mystery the way I’ve put myself!!
I’ll bounce back
This phase shall pass
I’ll testify
Bookmark this !!
I’m not the first to feel this way and I won’t be the last!!

I'm impressed with your mental strenght, you'll surely recover. Don't be too hard on yourself.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by navzla(m): 8:11am On Apr 08, 2023
[quote author=Trendygurly post=122338381]If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
If this repentance is right from the bottom of your heart then it is fine.God has forgiven you.Now you have your fiancé to talk to.
He loved you,you shouldn't have do what you did.
But don't worry you will be fine.Hope you learn your lesson going forward.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by kelspinall(m): 8:13am On Apr 08, 2023
sorry dear, it's a good thing you acknowledge ya mistake
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Cecero(m): 8:14am On Apr 08, 2023
Visit the hospital and get some expert advise.
Like you said, it is possible the abortion was not successful and the baby is still intact. If the baby has been tampered with, I advise an evacuation.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Simplyfabulouz(m): 8:16am On Apr 08, 2023
First of all go to the hospital or go for ultrasound to knowing what you’re having in there. Incomplete abortion is risky and it may damage your womb so go clear that out and ask for forgiveness from God. It shall be well with you.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by SisterAnn(f): 8:17am On Apr 08, 2023
Nairalander248:


Ki Olorun Fi iya je o

Ori re ma ji na si e.

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