My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

Life is like Owambe, when you're drunk and tired you go home.

OP, how did she die?

She took Sniper or what? 🤔

Vinnie2000:


OP, how she did she?

She took Sniper or what? 🤔

She took something but it’s not sniper. I don’t know what it is.

I’ve only spoken with the mum and sister today. I’ve not been able to touch down there myself.

Elizkid:


She took something but it’s not sniper. I don’t know what it is.

I’ve only spoken with the mum and sister today. I’ve not been able to touch down there myself.

So sorry for loss.

This Life, Many have Personal issues they are Battling with.😒

Dat's why you see some so AGGRESSIVE and PESSIMISTIC about life.

Once again, take heart.

Vinnie2000:


So sorry for loss.

This Life, Many have Personal issues they are Battling with.😒

Dat's why you see some so AGGRESSIVE and PESSIMISTIC about life.

Once again, take heart.

Thank you

You are not an attentive bf. I am not blaming you for her death, but you could have pay more attention.

Sorry for the lose

How old is\was she?

helinues:
Speedy you are not an attentive bf. I am not blaming you for her death, but you could have pay more attention.

Sorry for the lose

I was attentive and kept asking. She wouldn’t spill, so I got angry and asked my friend to talk to her.

I didn’t know it’d get to this

Templee333:
How old is\was she?

23

Very sad.

what was the problem she had with her family that got her so upset to the extent of ending her life?

Anyone can go bro, she's went home by herself.
she's gone, move to the next one.

Elizkid:


23

suicide isn't something that happens over night. She surely had gone through something for many years that others do not understand. Nobody cares until you are gone. There's nothing bad about it anyway, it's what it is. She's gone and the world continues.

I have nothing to say

Sorry for your loss bro but it's not your fault

@op take heart too... suicide is never an option too no matter the challenge...it's well...God please help us remove every suicidal thoughts

Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain."
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

I don't judge suicide victims, that's not to say I'm an advocate of same. Not everyone's heart is big enough to accommodate too many burdens. May God forgive her shortcomings, and find pleasure in her soul.

Even tho the thoughts occurs, I don't think I can ever end my own life.

That's selfish

owiko:
I don't judge suicide victims, that's not to say I'm an advocate of same. Not everyone's heart is big enough to accommodate too many burdens. May God forgive her shortcomings, and find pleasure in her soul.

But why exactly does she need forgiveness?

This is sad and not a good thing to do at all. What kind of problem was she into that has to result to suiside? Op you as her boyfriend or potential husband should have paid more attention and be observant to know what she was going through.

Templee333:
But why exactly does she need forgiveness?

I believe she was overwhelmed by her emotions. My brother, depression is real and not everyone can handle some of these things in the best possible ways. She was just 23, my heart feels for her.

Suicide is never and would never be an option whatever you are facing someone out there is facing the double if problem doesn't make you why shoild it mar you. She is going to face worse where she is going for taking a life she can't create

Let me engage in the act of prediction.

Possible cause of her suicide is:

money matter? No

Her Nude or sex pics videos? Likely

Incest or rape by relatives? Likely

Sorry for the loss.

If the family really tell you the truth, try update us. Take heart.

You claim she is your girlfriend yet u weren't sensitive enough, if truly she's your girlfriend u should have noticed that from the way she spoke that something was definitely up, so u calm her down and get to know what the issue was, any small thing u don vex, u could have averted her death u know, yes I want u to really blame your self, u bleeped up.

Not even talking about my girlfriend, a friend of mine called me one day and was sounding funny, the dude told me that he's done, he's leaving this night, I didn't quite understand what he meant at first but I decided to equire more, he was withholding information, I had to call people around to go check on him, they rushed and saw the guy, laying lifeless on the tiles inside his room, he took snipper already, they force two bottle of red oil down his throat and rushed him to the hospital, thank God he was saved,

Turns out dude was owing plenty lapo and online loans, we gathered money and cleared the bill even before he is discharged from the hospital, dude is happily married now and doing very well financially, thats what friends should be all about, you should be sensitive and observant, it very important

Another toxic family has taken the life of an innocent young woman.

Guys if you're from a toxic family, find a way to leave that house and cut ties with them.

seunmohmoh:
Even tho the thoughts occurs, I don't think I can ever end my own life.

It starts from thoughts o

Samantha124:
Another toxic family has taken the life of an innocent young woman.

Guys if you're from a toxic family, find a way to leave that house and cut ties with them.

Well spoken

Sucre6 @ i'm sure nobody would have helped him repay the loan if he didn't drink the poison. Also, after the incident some people went back to ask for the money they gave him. The lesson is: when you are alive humans do everything to make your life uncomfortable, but when you want to die they do everything to bring you back to continue your miserable life. We are humans, we love to suffer.

Elizkid:


23

What problem did she have that she will do something so drastic??!

We need to be sensitive to those we claim to love. You were too wrapped up in your own world to realise she was walking down the path of Golgotha