I am so tired of being called an AJE BUTTER just because i live in America

What's up with that

I don't think that I am to good for anything or anybody and I don't go bitching to my parnets bout the silly things.

I don't live in comfort and I go through stress like everybody else in the whole world

So please tell me why am I still being called an aje butter

omoge gurl calm down aigh
whats aje butter anywaz

I think Aje Butter is the same as ajeboda which is sort of like spoiled but more negative for some.

@ free wat Shani said is exactly what it is

and i'm going to act a fool if someone calls me that again

my cousin gets called that.
we don't because we're sort of skinny in my family.
i'm not spoilt and i don't act spoilt. i'm not american either. I'm FULL Nigerian   

i guess you could tell your mom you don't like being called that (aje butter) maybe she'll stop. . .
make a AARGHHH face when anyone calls you that next time  Lol.

and yeah. if your mom's friend calls you aje butter. make sure you call her kids aje butter the next time you go visit them and see how she feels about it.

thanks for the advice

i read ur R.I jokes
(it was in another topic )
very funny

"I don't live in comfort and I go through stress like everybody else in the whole world
So please tell me why am I still being called an aje butter"

If you are living anything like me it is definitely not in the lap of luxury. I think what people don't understand is that, comparatively speaking, you have to have alot more money to be aje butter in America. So people think you are living like the stereotypical 90210 lifestyle but in reality you might be living worse here than you did there. It's all relative. Explain that to them next time someone calls you aje butter.

thanks

don't let that bother u cos those ppl wish to be in your shoes just as you wish to be in some other shoes.but,u don't know what those shoes are like to be worn.

omoge02863:


i read your R.I jokes
(it was in another topic )
very funny

thanks.

Your parents probably call you Aje butter, because of the way you handle house chores and your interactions with people. You are either aje butter, aje Kpako, or average(kpakorised aje butter). The irony to it is that if one is called an aje kpako, he or she would also act the same way you acted, this is because the word is kind of derogatory.

Different people understand these terms in different ways. Some people believe that Aje butters' are normally children of rich parents that have every amenity they want at the simple snap of a finger, Some think they are those that were over pampered and dont do anything in their homes. So now from these simple explanations you are left to chose wer you belong, the aje butters', the aje kpako's or kpakorised aje butter.

dikizie:

Your parents probably call you Aje butter

it wasnt my parents

gurl, I understand how u feel, I get called that alot that i dont it doesnt bother me at all, Just sum1 seeing me, he/she says that, da worst is wen i even say like i jjust finished dishes, men, come and see reactions, dont worry, itz just da way ppl see u when they r around u etc

you no like butter ni?

ThiefOfHearts:

you no like butter ni?

no , butter is gross
do u like butter ?

actually I really dont.

I dont mind the term though. some do it playfully, others I reckon are just jealous.

I went to millitary school, that stops people from calling me aje-butter. I probably done shittier things just like ajegunle guys, what makes me mad is when people expect me to pay for their suya (everytime I come to Naija)

say it out loud and clear girl.

WesleyanA:
I guess you could tell your mom you don't like being called that (aje butter) maybe she'll stop. . .
If your mom's friend [/b]calls you aje butter. make sure you call her kids aje butter the next time you go visit them and see how she feels about it.

dikizie:
Your [b]parents probably call you Aje butter, because of the way you handle house chores and your interactions with people.

Is this a knock on reading comprehension or what

omogenaija:
it wasn't my parents

Thanks for the clarification.

@poster
i no even understand, who even called u Aje-butter in the first place eh? Abi u jus wan tell us say u dey where i no no?
as me and i will say , u be original Aje kpako without part two
Rubish

@poster
i no even understand, who even called u Aje-butter in the first place eh? Abi u jus wan tell us say u dey where i no no?
as me and i will say , u be original Aje kpako without part two
Rubish

AHA MAMAH,thats just an Unfair way 2 respond 2 THIS TOPIC,anyway u give them a chance 2 say u Envious/Jealous.

AS 4 ME,D 9JA MENTALITY IS DAT AMERICA/ENGLAND R JUS D PLACES 2 BE,SO IF U DER U AUTOMATICALLY BECAOME AJEBO EVEN IF U ATTENDED A SUNDAY SCHOOL AS SECONDARY SCHOOL(LOL).
SO YALL SHOULD JUS STAY WITH D STATUS OR TRANSFER IT 2 ME,I NEED IT,LOL

@omogenaija, if you are not ajebutter, are you an ajekpako or ajelafun then

You look more like an ajeburger

Lets see you face now,you seem to be hiding from us.

But seriously, its a passing thing as almost everyone gets taunted during their teen years for one thing or the other,but if you can be the best you can either in school or sports or in just anything you are good at,your peers will surely respect you.

Hey! Ajebutter- howeva they call it, isn't a derrogatory term as u c it , many just say it most times probably d way they c u act/ relate and all, so long they don't call u 'didirin'- then ure on a safe side. Many kids would probably want to bear such . Although, i don't agree aswell that people call u that out of jealousy, its for fun most times xcept they are just being sarcastic , its nothing to worry about .

Next time they call u that just smile and say; it's not my fault '' Oluwa lo n'sola''

if you've heard it more than a couple times, then you ought to consult with yourself to see what you might be doing that causes people to call you that.
if it talks, thinks, smells, looks, and acts like a fowl, people will call it a fowl.

no be every body wey de outside this naija walls na him be aje butter!

E be like make D banj de claim say im na butty with all him uk exposure
lolololololololol

By spelling it aje butter, you just proved how ajebota you really are. LOL. You omo Yankee get so defensive when someone calls you this term. I don't get it. What's wrong with it. You think sufferhead automatically makes you cooler. Me that I've been living in Yankee seven years now, I have small ajebota in me. No sweat.

Abegggg! What's wrong with being called AB? Some would do anything to be called that. You people sef.

Nigeria aje-butter is something close a basic life style in a real world,minus the stealing.

redsun:
Nigeria aje-butter is something close a basic life style in a real world,minus the stealing.

Tell them. Many have no clue. Stuff that qualify you as ajebutter or whatever in Naija are just basics anywhere with a good standard of living.

It doesn't matter wether you live in America or any where else, you are not ajebutter, sorry to disappoint you.

Paw-Paw:

It doesn't matter wether you live in America or any where else, you are not ajebutter, sorry to disappoint you.

thanks man ,
but y would i be disappointed ?

omogenaija:

thanks man ,
but y would i be disappointed ?

paw paw is convinced you must be packing shit for a living.