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Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by ManWater: 4:14pm On Jun 28, 2023
nedekid:

Ha, ontop money that is not his own in the first place?
Brother, approach is not the issue here oh.
If not that the money is small, and if she has evidence she had no transaction with him, just error, I have read in the news past year of how a car dealer who refused to refund had his bvn blocked with all the banks in Nigeria. The fellow had to be pleading for his bvn to be unblocked as he had lost so much. Infact he was the one that came to the press and social media to highlight his predicament.
Are you aware if the fish seller claims the 10k is payment for fish he sold to her, there is no way she can LEGALLY recover her money?
There may also be some inconveniences for the man to confirm the 10k & make a refund.
So she should be courteous & not just barge into his shop & demand for refund.

Yes, there are cases where you can get someone's account blocked if there is evidence of a dubious transaction.

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Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by ufuosman(m): 4:20pm On Jun 28, 2023
Some people chai
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Zealag(m): 4:22pm On Jun 28, 2023
Calm down and relate with him,give him some little more time,call people around to talk to him.There is no point using force,he didn't ask you to send him money or forced you to do it.
If you use wisdom you get ur money peaceful,if you arrogant you put urself in a tight corner. Ire o
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by ManWater: 4:27pm On Jun 28, 2023
Pat081:
Hmmm mmmm mumu óde

Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Chukstotti(m): 4:41pm On Jun 28, 2023
UnusualEmissary:
Have you gone to his stand and have him show you his transaction history?

Go there and make him show you his transaction history! Involve certain well composed people if needed.

And when you find the receipt in history, collect your money.

Take action!


This is what you need to do. Like he said, insist he shows you his transaction history. Then take action.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Zinpat: 4:48pm On Jun 28, 2023
ahnie:
On the 4th of June, I went to get barbeque fish for my kids from my barbeque plug.

Then on the 6 of June....I had wanted transferring funds to someone with my mobile app, and I mistakenly transferred money to him since he's in the list of my beneficiaries.

I called him and explained everything to him,I even went to his stand and showed him screenshots as evidence of payment....since that day till today this humaniod has refused refunding my money.

I recalled him this morning,he said his bank is still working on it, I told him to get his statement of acct and it has bn from one excuse to another, truth's I m loosing my patience.

I have given him an ultimatum of 2 days to refund my money else I would pick him up not with the police,but a more higher force,since he has decided to be stubborn.

Bankers in the house, pls I need your input. is there anything like bank working on a supposedly unrefunded funds?


It's either he got d money or he didn't get d money. And if he says he didn't get it, let him show you his stamped bank statement of account
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Salowise: 4:49pm On Jun 28, 2023
Before you take any action against him, call your bank customer service at night to confirm the payment and you can also call his bank's customer's service to know if he received any money from you. Same thing happened to me, was 300k it took me over 3 weeks to receive the money
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Mademan7: 4:52pm On Jun 28, 2023
ahnie:
He has lost a customer and hopefully,I go collect my money tomorrow.
Zero patience for greedy people.

Go and complain to your bank first and hear what they have to say about the situation before proceeding to do anything else.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:13pm On Jun 28, 2023
oxiide22:
don't worry I'll tell her, but FYI she's also s Muslim but i say u must give her since u r looking for her attention but I warn you she's married if her husband catch u don't say I didn't tell u.

. I realized you are lonely fellow who doesn't have friend. that's y u come here to seek for attention ESP females.

broda your inferiority complex is legendaryv I wish I can help. I know you love Toto becos u r simp that don't know how to get out n socialize. religious bigot;
Just deliver my message. I use to be a Muslim too. # Barka da Sallah
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Sandralight(f): 5:18pm On Jun 28, 2023
vickydevoka:

Just deliver my message. I use to be a Muslim too. # Barka da Sallah
Are you owing this guy anything??
Because why is he so obsessed with you, from the that thread to this one.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:20pm On Jun 28, 2023
oxiide22:
don't worry I'll tell her, but FYI she's also s Muslim but i say u must give her since u r looking for her attention but I warn you she's married if her husband catch u don't say I didn't tell u.

. I realized you are lonely fellow who doesn't have friend. that's y u come here to seek for attention ESP females.

broda your inferiority complex is legendaryv I wish I can help. I know you love Toto becos u r simp that don't know how to get out n socialize. religious bigot;
😂 😂. Lol. I see a poor baggar socialist. It's really a big shame that an introvert is making 6 figures every month, And a confident handsome extrovert can't pullout anything for himself. Even if it's 4 figures like try n help your self. Poor educated red piller with too much sense.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Styluss: 5:25pm On Jun 28, 2023
Have you collected your money yet
ahnie:

I won't stoop low to that level, hopefully I will collect my money before 4pm today.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by oxiide22(m): 5:28pm On Jun 28, 2023
vickydevoka:

Just deliver my message. I use to be a Muslim too. # Barka da Sallah
OK, but I can't believe that u r once a Muslim.

Thanks and Same to you barka da sallah!


Come eat RAM meat
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:30pm On Jun 28, 2023
Sandralight:

Are you owing this guy anything??
Because why is he so obsessed with you, from the that thread to this one.
Good evening my dear sister. It all started 3 days ago when I sent someone money. I just to be silent about it. But he came out and be saying that I am fake. Even the first person I wanted given didn't believe me. So in order to clear everyone's doubt , I sent 20k to a random person and pasted the receipt for sometime before deleting it. They reason I posted the receipt was because of his doubting Thomas tendency which I didn't fancy at that point. So I blurred the guys name and my name and pasted it.

Ever since then, he has been plastering my life, which I already told him that I don't have anything for him. He calls me different kid of names ; A simp, Mumu and many more. Which I didn't reply back in an abusive manner.

He is the most entitled person I have ever seen in this nairaland. I have never given any female money. Buy he keeps telling me I'm after puxxy n all that. Please let's forget about him, I use am the catch cruise. I came back from work early today, that's y I have been replying. He saint me messages in the morning when I was at work.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:31pm On Jun 28, 2023
oxiide22:
OK, but I can't believe that u r once a Muslim.

Thanks and Same to you barka da sallah!


Come eat RAM meat
I se look for female Muslim to gift out some cash.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by zedegit: 5:36pm On Jun 28, 2023
ahnie:
On the 4th of June, I went to get barbeque fish for my kids from my barbeque plug.

Then on the 6 of June....I had wanted transferring funds to someone with my mobile app, and I mistakenly transferred money to him since he's in the list of my beneficiaries.

I called him and explained everything to him,I even went to his stand and showed him screenshots as evidence of payment....since that day till today this humaniod has refused refunding my money.

I recalled him this morning,he said his bank is still working on it, I told him to get his statement of acct and it has bn from one excuse to another, truth's I m loosing my patience.

I have given him an ultimatum of 2 days to refund my money else I would pick him up not with the police,but a more higher force,since he has decided to be stubborn.

Bankers in the house, pls I need your input. is there anything like bank working on a supposedly unrefunded funds?

When you finally pick him up make sure he stays in jail for life. That's where animals like him belong.

I just hate nonsense.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by oxiide22(m): 5:42pm On Jun 28, 2023
vickydevoka:

😂 😂. Lol. I see a poor baggar socialist. It's really a big shame that an introvert is making 6 figures every month, And a confident handsome extrovert can't pullout anything for himself. Even if it's 4 figures like try n help your self. Poor educated red piller with too much sense.
hhh audio 6 figures you sabi lie small small. You are right nobody can deny that I'm handsome n confident n smart. U see if not for your brother do u think u can make it? U r a shop errand boy but u come here making mouth.

I go shock you one day I will come here n show u my achievements.

Come I will help u with beautiful Hausa/ Fulani babe I know is your problem right now
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Sandralight(f): 5:45pm On Jun 28, 2023
vickydevoka:

Good evening my dear sister. It all started 3 days ago when I sent someone money. I just to be silent about it. But he came out and be saying that I am fake. Even the first person I wanted given didn't believe me. So in order to clear everyone's doubt , I sent 20k to a random person and pasted the receipt for sometime before deleting it. They reason I posted the receipt was because of his doubting Thomas tendency which I didn't fancy at that point. So I blurred the guys name and my name and pasted it.

Ever since then, he has been plastering my life, which I already told him that I don't have anything for him. He calls me different kid of names ; A simp, Mumu and many more. Which I didn't reply back in an abusive manner.

He is the most entitled person I have ever seen in this nairaland. I have never given any female money. Buy he keeps telling me I'm after puxxy n all that. Please let's forget about him, I use am the catch cruise. I came back from work early today, that's y I have been replying. He saint me messages in the morning when I was at work.
Lol, just ignore him and he will stop disturbing you.
Did he think you are a kid that will fall for his cheap manipulation.
Someone that really need help dont act that way.
I hope you have a good night.

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Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by IamAsiri: 5:49pm On Jun 28, 2023
brain54:

Work on what exactly…?


Go to his stand and insist he gives you cash!

Or she should go and carry 15k worth of fish.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by lekkie073(m): 5:51pm On Jun 28, 2023
ahnie:

Nne,he go refund my money....I figure that's what he wants me to do?


I resist that temptation.
lol... Just chop bbq fish and rest... U be big geh na
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Sandralight(f): 5:52pm On Jun 28, 2023
oxiide22:
hhh audio 6 figures you sabi lie small small. You are right nobody can deny that I'm handsome n confident n smart. U see if not for your brother do u think u can make it? U r a shop errand boy but u come here making mouth.

I go shock you one day I will come here n show u my achievements.

Come I will help u with beautiful Hausa/ Fulani babe I know is your problem right now
Why dont you stop all this, first of all it's not by force to give you money.
Someone might decide to help you but the way you are acting will drive people away, you keep attacking and attacking him because he doesn't want to go low like you and insult you, so REST and move on.
You tried everything from reverse psychology to acting humble and then insulting him all because you want money from him but since it's obvious the guy will never give you anything move on.
You didn't work any money in his pocket and he doesn't know you from Adam, so you are just causing setback to yourself with your entitlement behaviour.
How I wish nairaland have block button sometimes
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:53pm On Jun 28, 2023
Sandralight:

Lol, just ignore him and he will stop disturbing you.
Did he think you are a kid that will fall for his cheap manipulation.
Someone that really need help dont act that way.
I hope you have a good night.
Now you understand. Lemme just ignore him completely. Please can we block him. Bcus I ignored him yesterday but he keep writing

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Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:56pm On Jun 28, 2023
oxiide22:
hhh audio 6 figures you sabi lie small small. You are right nobody can deny that I'm handsome n confident n smart. U see if not for your brother do u think u can make it? U r a shop errand boy but u come here making mouth.

I go shock you one day I will come here n show u my achievements.

Come I will help u with beautiful Hausa/ Fulani babe I know is your problem right now
kayi shiru Mana
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:59pm On Jun 28, 2023
oxiide22:
hhh audio 6 figures you sabi lie small small. You are right nobody can deny that I'm handsome n confident n smart. U see if not for your brother do u think u can make it? U r a shop errand boy but u come here making mouth.

I go shock you one day I will come here n show u my achievements.

Come I will help u with beautiful Hausa/ Fulani babe I know is your problem right now
kayi shiru Mana, menene wannan. Surutu yayi yawa
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by oxiide22(m): 6:10pm On Jun 28, 2023
vickydevoka:

kayi shiru Mana, menene wannan. Surutu yayi yawa
grin grin hhh walahi kaban mamaki Ashe kasan Hausa? toh badamuwa nayi shiru magana yawuce amma inaso mutumina kituromin wani abi mana banida kudi fa.


Gaskiya ka burgeni yanxu
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by histemple: 6:11pm On Jun 28, 2023
ahnie:
oniovo I don't need to go. creat a scene at his stand, when the time I gave him elapses,I know how I go take run his matter.

Make sure you don't shoot yourself in the leg.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by GPAdams(m): 6:14pm On Jun 28, 2023
What he wants from you is to buy fish with the money i guess
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by adeememman(m): 6:23pm On Jun 28, 2023
ManWater:

There are instances where failure to simply say "Please" or "Sorry" has caused avoidable trouble & even loss of lives.

Wrong approach may not be the case here, but if it is, all she needs to do is apologise & adopt a more courteous approach.

Did you read where she mentioned she was his customer, that is temporarily minus one customer for him, besides you can't be so sure she didn't approach him with a soft tone. From her narrative which might be true to some extent, she was becoming angry when he began to post her. Sending someone's money doesn't take a minute.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:33pm On Jun 28, 2023
Worriedwife:


Business people find it hard to refund money that has entered their pockets. Keep collecting barbecue fish until ur money is complete

Best advice
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by obrian888: 6:40pm On Jun 28, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Lol.

Na you send money.

Na you wan stress the guy

If you use force then what.



You want him to refund the money.

Has he agreed you sent him money.

What if he traveled?

You only sent money and I am sure it is not only your transactions he received.

I am certain he does not even know your name.

You put him in a tight corner and still want to use force.

Nawa for people.

Even bank can never reverse the money base on true life story.

Better use calmness collect the money.

It appears you are believing in force.


YOU MUIST BE VERY STUPISD AND YOU ARE A THIEF LIKE THIS FISH SELLER, DID YOU READ WHERE SHE CALLS HIM MY FISH PLUG, THAT IS THEY HAVE BEEN DOING BUSINESS OF FISH FOR SOMETIME, TRY THIS WARRI WOMAN OR GIRLS IF THEM NOR DANCE NAKED FOR THAT YOUR BARBEQUE FISH SPOT AND DRIVE ALL YOUR CUSTOMERS FOR CMPLETE ONE WEEK.AT THE END YOU GO PAY DDAMAGE FOR TIME WASTED IN REFUNDING THE MONEY, ASK ANYBODY FROM WARRI THEY WILL TELL YOU I AM NOT JOKING IT IS THE FACT OGBENI.
Re: Please Help, He Has Refused To Refund My Money by stevups(m): 6:43pm On Jun 28, 2023
It was your error. Go to his stand and get some fish. You too can celebrate for others. You will rather pay more with all those officers.

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